Rubye’s Kids empowers children in need, especially those experiencing homelessness, by providing educational and personal care items, as well as joyful, enriching experiences that promote strong values, education, respect for self and others. The Rubye's Kids Story
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Rubye Caesar, a woman of faith, courage and conviction, died in 1995; but thanks to a group of dedicated voluntee
rs, her dream of bringing joy to underprivileged children during the holiday season lives on and has grown to include 500 children each year. They had decided they wanted to help poor children in Philadelphia by hosting a party with gifts, a warm meal, and lots of fun. Roz approached numerous organizations with this idea and no one was interested. "At the height of my frustration, I called Rubye Caesar, one of our patients," Roz says. "I knew she was very active in her North Philadelphia community, and thought she could direct me to someone." For years Rubye had hosted a holiday party for the children in her neighborhood, but that year her daughter had died leaving her to raise her two granddaughters. She simply did not have the money for the party any more. She started crying when she said that she had been praying for help. Roz began to cry too, and told her they would work together to make the celebration a reality. Roz and Rubye headed a group of committed friends and family who gathered food and toys for 75 children. Rubye secured a facility and the names of the children most in need at a local elementary school. The volunteers collected a hat and a pair of gloves for each child in addition to a gift. Dr. Weiss dressed as Santa, and his office staff became elves for a day. "I clearly remember Rubye stirring the biggest pot of hot dogs I had ever seen," Roz says. Although the first party was bedlam, the children had a ball, and Roz and Rubye agreed to meet in March to begin planning the following year's event. In February, Rubye's sister called Dr. Weiss' office to say that Rubye had been rushed to the hospital, and the prognosis was not good. The Weisses were extremely upset, and Roz immediately went to see her. She wanted to encourage Rubye and remind her of all the work still left to do. Roz was with the family when the doctor told them that Rubye had died. "My heart sank," Roz sadly recalls. "This couldn't be true. Surrounded by Rubye's grieving family, I felt terribly out of place until her son, Joe, came over and gave me a hug. He looked into my eyes and I knew we had made an unspoken commitment to continue his mother's work." In honor of Rubye, Roz called the second annual party, Rubye's Kids Holiday Party.' With as much help as Rubye's family could spare, Roz began preparing. Nine days before the event, they had only six gifts, and needed 195 more. Roz panicked, and was on her way out the door to shop for the rest of the gifts when donations suddenly started pouring in and they reached their goal. The experience reminded Roz of a story Dr. Deepak Chopra, speaker and author, tells about a teacher who was working on a peace project and was asked, "Where will the money come from?" The teacher responded, "From wherever it is at the moment." From that point on, Roz stopped worrying about where the gifts would come from, and there have always been enough. The third year, a new issue cropped up. Thanks to Jackie McNichols, a larger location for the party was secured, but it required transportation for 250 children. Now in addition to gifts and food, buses were needed. A few weeks before the event, they still had not secured transportation and Roz began to get stressed. As with the gifts the year before, the bus challenge was solved at the last minute. Joe Caesar was able to secure a donation from Temple Hospital for one bus. Roz's parents, Adele and Harry Carroll, provided funding for another, and Bob Hicks, owner of the Yellowbird Bus Company, was so touched by Rubye's story that he personally donated the last bus, and has done so every year since. Roz finally learned that the universe is programmed to support you. Now she doesn't worry about how to get things; she knows they will come from wherever they are at the moment. Over the years, each party is better than the last. In 2004, the magnificent Girard College opened its doors for Rubye's Kids Holiday Party. The constants remain -- a hot lunch, a hat and gloves for each child, a visit with Santa and an opportunity to walk through Toyland to select a gift. Over time, crafts, face painting, carnival games, and other activities and treats have been added. Each year the party, the number of volunteers and donations needed to make it a success, increases. This event has grown from the original 75, to 500 children from ten elementary schools and four homeless shelters. The needs for this year's party are: food, gifts, books, beverages, Polaroid film, helium balloons, party bags, favors, decorations, craft supplies, hats, gloves, composition books, pencils and pencil cases, bus transportation, and trucks to transport everything. Also needed are disc jockeys, entertainment, clowns, balloon artists, a photographer, a videographer, a Santa, volunteers to man each craft station and serve food, school mascots to entertain and a crew to set up the day before and breakdown afterwards. In 2000 Roz's dream to provide a book for each child came true, when funding enabled the organization to purchase 400 books. The challenge each year is to raise funds. Everything that is bestowed on Rubye's Kids comes from the generosity of individuals and small groups. Roz states, "We sometimes feel like the bumblebee, who is not aerodynamically designed to fly, but doesn't know about his deficit, so he flies anyway." As much as the joyous faces of the children are the real reward for spearheading each year's efforts, Roz and an all-volunteer board are hoping to ease her burden a little by finding large organizations and corporations willing to provide annual funds. Businesses that donate to Rubye's Kids will receive a tax deduction, but the best thing offered to them is a feeling in their hearts beyond compare! Roz knows this December's party will be a success. It always is. Imagine organized chaos - small groups moving from activity to activity, children in brightly colored t-shirts beaming with happiness, and more than 200 volunteers with love in their hearts managing it all. Each year, in the midst of it, Roz senses Rubye's presence and feels the divine rhythm that orchestrates each event. Rubye's spirit is our inspiration and we are determined to continue her work. The mission of Rubye's Kids, Incorporated is to empower children living in poverty through joyful, enriching experiences that promote strong values, education, respect for self and others and commitment to community. We have expanded our horizons so that we are now helping children all year round. Rubye's Kids is hosting birthday parties for children in shelters, creating Rubye's Kids Library Learning Centers in shelters, Rubye's Kids Closet provides emergency school supplies for needy children, Welcome Backpacks provided 300 children in shelters with backpacks filled with school supplies and our most recent pilot project, Transition Bags, that provide items for self esteem building for children transitioning out of the shelter system. Rubye Caesar's spirit lives on and continues to inspire us. We need your help to perpetuate our programs. We are in need of funding as well as volunteers. As Mother Teresa said, "We can do no great things, only small things with great LOVE."
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