10/18/2026
Yesterday I finally went to visit the pregnancy and child loss memorial garden here in Parker, Colorado, created by the Rowan Tree Foundation
I’ve known about this garden for a little over two years, but honestly, I just didn’t feel ready to visit. Yesterday with the beautiful weather and not a cloud in the sky, my two youngest kids and I decided to go.
There were still flowers and notes written to babies and children from Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Day just a few days ago. Seeing those personal messages made being there feel even more meaningful.
It’s humbling to stand there and take that in. To read the names and messages, knowing that behind every tile is a family who loves and misses someone. Someone they should have had SO much more time with. You can’t help but feel an overwhelming amount of both heartbreak and community while standing there.
I’m grateful that a place like this exists just 5 minutes from my house. A place where our babies and children are acknowledged, remembered and given space. And I’m grateful that yesterday, I finally felt ready to go. 🤍
If you’re in Parker or the surrounding areas, I really encourage you to visit.
The garden is located at McCabe Park (19700 Indianpipe Lane, Parker, CO 80134). Facing the park from the parking lot, you’ll see a steel bridge on your right. Cross over the bridge and you will see the angel statue on your left.
Thank you, Rowan Tree Foundation, for creating such a beautiful place for families to remember their children. It means so much to know our babies have a place here.