09/29/2026
Fellowship Saved my Life
By Jonathan Marx
Blog September 2026
As a new member of a 12-step program, you will repeatedly be told to ‘go to
meetings, get a sponsor, and work the steps.’ You will also be suggested to take a
service position, such as making coffee or cleaning up after the meetings. These
activities are encompassed within two of the three pillars of Alcoholics Anonymous,
recovery and service. And they are essential to a successful program of recovery.
However, a three-legged stool will not stand on two legs. The third pillar, unity, can
make or break your recovery. And that starts with fellowship. When first getting sober, it
is strongly recommended to stay away from those with whom you used or who are in
active addiction. You may be asking yourself at this point ‘who am I going to hang out
with when all my friends still get drunk or high.’ You certainly would not be the first
person to voice this concern. Fortunately, there is a solution.
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