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11/02/2026

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Colorado Resilience

11/02/2026

If you walk into family court, share your concerns, present your evidence, and leave without understanding how the judge reached their decision, were you ever truly heard?

Is that what justice should look like?

11/02/2026

A child does not stop growing while their parents are fighting in court.

Think about how much a child changes in just a few years. Their personality develops, their confidence grows, they learn how to handle problems, and they begin to understand the world around them.

Now imagine a loving parent being unable to take part in that process.

It is not just about missing important events. It is about losing the opportunity to help shape the person your child is becoming.

A parent who returns years later may be reconnecting with a completely different child. Relationships can be rebuilt, but those early years of learning, growing, and building trust cannot simply be replayed.

That is why unnecessary separation is so serious. Family court decisions do not just affect where a child lives today. They can affect the relationship that child has with their parents for the rest of their life.

We need a system that understands the importance of childhood and prioritizes keeping children connected to both safe and loving parents.

Children only get one chance to grow up.

11/01/2026

False allegations can have devastating consequences for families.

When someone knowingly makes a false accusation, the damage can extend far beyond the courtroom. Relationships can be disrupted, reputations damaged, and children can lose precious time with a loving parent.

Every allegation deserves a fair and thorough investigation. Genuine victims must be protected, and deliberate dishonesty must be addressed.

Truth matters. Due process matters. Children matter.

11/01/2026

Voices for the Children Tour is coming to Indianapolis, Indiana!

Date: Sunday, November 8, 2026
Time: 12:00 PM
Location: Indiana Statehouse
Address: 200 West Washington Street, Indianapolis, IN 46204

Join Mothers and Fathers Truly Matter for a free, peaceful rally bringing together parents, families, and advocates to raise awareness about parental alienation, equal shared parenting, and the need for family court reform.

Every child deserves reasonable access to both parents. Come share your story, use your voice, and be part of the movement for change.

Event details and free RSVP:
https://mothersandfatherstrulymatter.org/voices-for-the-children-tour/indianapolis/

11/01/2026

Imagine being a child and feeling guilty for loving your own mother or father.

Imagine being afraid to answer a phone call, talk about a happy memory, or tell one parent how much fun you had with the other.

Children should never have to worry that loving one parent means betraying the other. But when adults allow their anger and resentment to influence their children's relationships, that is exactly what can happen.

The damage is not always obvious. Sometimes it shows up years later as trouble trusting people, difficulty building healthy relationships, or confusion about what love is supposed to look like.

And one of the saddest possibilities is that a child may grow up and discover that the parent they believed had abandoned them was trying to be there all along.

We need parents to put their differences aside and family courts to take deliberate interference with safe parent-child relationships seriously.

Children should be free to love both parents without fear, pressure, or guilt.

11/01/2026

Imagine being a child and feeling guilty for loving your own mother or father.

Imagine being afraid to answer a phone call, talk about a happy memory, or tell one parent how much fun you had with the other.

Children should never have to worry that loving one parent means betraying the other. But when adults allow their anger and resentment to influence their children's relationships, that is exactly what can happen.

The damage is not always obvious. Sometimes it shows up years later as trouble trusting people, difficulty building healthy relationships, or confusion about what love is supposed to look like.

And one of the saddest possibilities is that a child may grow up and discover that the parent they believed had abandoned them was trying to be there all along.

We need parents to put their differences aside and family courts to take deliberate interference with safe parent-child relationships seriously.

Children should be free to love both parents without fear, pressure, or guilt.

10/31/2026

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10/31/2026

Being a good father should be measured by your actions, not by stereotypes about men.

A father who shows up, provides for his children, teaches them right from wrong, and makes sacrifices for their future should be valued for those contributions.

Yet in family court, some fathers feel they must prove they deserve a meaningful role in their children's lives rather than being treated as equally important parents from the start.

We can recognize that some parents are harmful without assuming that being a father makes someone less capable of providing love, stability, and guidance.

The question should never be whether a mother or father is more important. It should be whether both parents are safe, willing, and capable of raising their children.

Children deserve to grow up knowing that both of their parents matter.

This is part of our conversation with Carl Roberts of Colorado Resilience on the Let's Be Better Podcast.

Listen to the conversation:
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10/30/2026

In this conversation, we sit down with John Faria, board member of Let's Be Better, to discuss the inherent biases built into the family court system. Why does there have to be a primary parent? Why do we automatically structure custody around one parent having priority while the other is given visitation?

The reality is that children need both parents, and when two parents are safe, loving, and capable, neither should automatically be treated as less important. Instead of focusing on which parent gets more control, we should be asking how we can give children the greatest opportunity to maintain meaningful relationships with both.

That is why we need a nationwide push for 50/50 shared parenting to become the starting presumption in all 50 states. The system should encourage cooperation, recognize the importance of both parents, and make the child's well-being the priority.

Maybe it is time we stopped asking who should be the primary parent and started making the child the primary concern.