06/28/2026
I never thought that after 15 years of living in Dubai, a two-day job would bring back memories I had buried for so long.
Before anyone misunderstands me, this isn’t a criticism of Arab people. Some of the kindest, most generous people I’ve ever met are Arabs. This is simply my experience with a workplace culture that, in some places, still feels deeply rooted in a patriarchal system.
As a woman, there were moments when I felt like my voice carried less weight simply because I wasn’t a man. It often felt as though men were automatically given more authority, while women were expected to stay in the background. Whether intentional or not, that’s how I experienced it.
What also shocked me was the work environment itself—working 8 to 10 hours with no proper break and no staff meal provided. It made me realize how differently employees can be valued depending on where you are.
Those two days reminded me of feelings I thought I had already healed from. It’s strange how certain environments can bring old wounds back to the surface.
I’m grateful for every country and culture that has shaped me, even the difficult ones, because they’ve taught me what I will and will not accept in my life. Today, I know my worth. I know that respect shouldn’t depend on your gender, your nationality, or your title. Every person deserves to be treated with dignity.
This isn’t about blaming a culture. It’s about acknowledging that some traditions and workplace practices can leave lasting scars. And sometimes, those experiences become the reason we choose a different path—one where respect, balance, and humanity come first.
