09/12/2026
I left the Brookdale Hospital Youth Summit thinking about something Akeisha Knights Ogudoro, one of the organizers, said to the adults in the room:
“Get out of the way.”
It was bold. It got our attention. But what stayed with me wasn’t just the challenge. It was what she said around it.
Train these young people. Put them in front of the people who have the money. Put them in front of the people making the decisions. And then recognize when it is time for us to loosen our grip on the reins.
The more I thought about it, the more I realized that this is a conversation those of us who work with young people need to have.
We talk a lot about youth voice. We invite young people to panels. We ask them to tell their stories. We create youth councils and listening sessions. But are we willing to let what they tell us actually change what we do?
That question became even more important as I listened to the young people who spoke throughout the summit.
Over my next three posts, I want you to hear some of what I heard.
Not because these young people were impressive “for their age.” They were insightful. Period. And what they shared gives us valuable information about how young people experience the adults, institutions, programs, and systems that are supposed to support them.
As I listened, I kept thinking: There is information here for our practice.
For parents. Educators. Social workers. Clinicians. Youth development professionals. Community leaders. Funders. Policymakers. And anyone making decisions that affect young people’s lives.
Maybe “getting out of the way” doesn’t mean that adults disappear.
Maybe it means we listen differently.
We prepare. We mentor. We resource. We open doors. We make introductions. We create safety. And then we resist the urge to control what happens next.
Because if we’re courageous enough to really hear young people, they may tell us not only what they need, but what we need to change.
💛 This is Video 1 of 4. Over the next three posts, I want the young people to speak for themselves. I hope you’ll listen with me.