05/24/2026
Lately I’ve wondered…
Why does someone simply being content, quiet, or tending to their own life sometimes bother other people?
Not because they’ve done harm.
Not because they’ve been unkind.
Just because they’re at peace.
I think sometimes what unsettles us in others can reveal places in ourselves that still need healing, security, or identity.
The more I’ve grown in Christ, the more I’m learning this:
Not every opinion deserves access.
Not every misunderstanding needs correcting.
And other people’s peace isn’t a threat to ours.
When our identity is rooted deeply in Jesus, comparison loosens its grip.
Insecurity loses its authority.
And we become free to bless people… instead of measure ourselves against them.
I pray we become women who know who we are in Christ so deeply that another person’s growth, peace, boundaries, or quietness doesn’t offend us—it encourages us.
Tend your own garden.
Let others tend theirs. 🌿
