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Co-occuring ADHD and Autism, the struggle is real!
08/22/2026

Co-occuring ADHD and Autism, the struggle is real!

Some great insights about media for children.
08/22/2026

Some great insights about media for children.

Phones and screens are reshaping childhood, attention, and the way ...

Interesting research, maybe more ADHD kids have co-occurring disorders than the current data would led us to believe?
08/21/2026

Interesting research, maybe more ADHD kids have co-occurring disorders than the current data would led us to believe?

Researchers analyzed data from more than 15,000 children and identified a neural signature linked to sensory over-responsivity. Sensory sensitivity was independently associated with autism traits and anxiety, but not ADHD.

08/21/2026

Anyone else feel this way at the end of the first week of school?

08/21/2026

Transitions: Predictability Can Help but Ask Why When It Doesn't

For many children, knowing what is going to happen next can make everyday life easier to navigate. Visual schedules, first–then boards, pictures, written plans, countdowns, and advance notice can help make transitions and routines more understandable. A systematic review of activity schedules found that these supports can improve transitions, independence, engagement, and behavior for many children, although effectiveness varies from child to child and across environments.

But preparation is not always enough. If a child continues to struggle with a transition even after receiving plenty of warning, rather than simply giving more warnings, it may help to ask what is making this particular transition difficult. Is the child being asked to leave something highly preferred? Is the next environment overwhelming or confusing? Is the expectation unclear? Is there uncertainty about what will happen next? Research on transition-related behavior shows that advance notice can help in some situations but not others, particularly when another factor is driving the difficulty.

Instead of thinking, “I warned you five times, why are you still upset?” we can become curious: “I prepared you for the change, but this is still really hard. What else might you need?” Sometimes the most effective support begins with understanding the problem rather than repeating the strategy.

Peer-reviewed research: Lequia, J., Machalicek, W., & Rispoli, M. J. (2012). Effects of activity schedules on challenging behavior exhibited in children with autism spectrum disorders: A systematic review. Research in Autism Spectrum Disorders, 6, 480–492. Brewer, A. T., et al. (2014). Advance Notice for Transition-Related Problem Behavior: Practice Guidelines. Behavior Analysis in Practice, 7, 117–125.

08/21/2026

Article Review: Morphological Alterations in the Thalamus, Striatum, and Pallidum in Autism Spectrum Disorder (2016)
ManuelaSchuetze,MinTaeMPark,IvyYKCho,FrankPMacMaster,MMallarChakravartyandSigneLBray
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27125303/

A fascinating brain-imaging study offers another way to understand why some behaviors associated with autism may be more complicated than simply “refusing,” “being stubborn,” or “not wanting to change.” Researchers compared MRI scans from 373 males with autism and 384 typically developing males. They did not find that the major subcortical brain structures were simply larger or smaller in autism. Instead, they found subtle differences in the shape and surface area of specific regions of the thalamus, putamen, and globus pallidus, areas involved in attention, movement, learning, habits, flexible thinking, and shifting from one action or expectation to another.

A particularly interesting finding involved the globus pallidus. The researchers identified age-related differences in the shape of the right putamen and globus pallidus. These structures are part of the basal ganglia and participate in circuits supporting motor control, learning, cognition, and the selection or modification of actions. The autistic group showed a different relationship between age and the shape of these regions than the typically developing group.The authors interpreted this as possible evidence that some subcortical structures may follow different developmental trajectories in autism. However, this conclusion needs caution because researchers did not follow the same children as they grew older. They compared different people of different ages at one point in time.

Among autistic participants, greater surface area in portions of the bilateral globus pallidus was associated with more pronounced restricted and repetitive behaviors on the ADOS. The globus pallidus participates in basal-ganglia circuits involved in cognitive and motor control. The authors therefore suggested that differences within these circuits may be related to repetitive behavior in autism. Again, this is a correlation, not evidence that the globus pallidus directly causes repetitive behaviors.The study adds to a broader shift in autism neuroscience away from looking for one “autism brain region.” Instead, autism increasingly appears to involve differences in the development and organization of interconnected brain systems.

For parents, this information may encourage us to approach difficult moments with more curiosity and compassion. A child who struggles with transitions, unexpected changes, repetitive behaviors, or shifting attention may be having a genuinely hard time adapting in that moment. This study cannot tell us exactly what is happening for any individual child, and it does not mean that every behavior is explained by brain differences. But it can remind us to ask, “What might be making this hard right now?” before assuming a child is simply choosing not to cooperate.

That perspective can shape how we support children. Advance notice, predictable routines, extra processing time, visual or verbal preparation, and practicing flexibility in small, manageable steps may make change easier. Repetitive behaviors may also help a child regulate, organize, or cope, so understanding their purpose can be more helpful than automatically trying to stop them. Parents can still provide boundaries and expectations while giving children the support they need to build flexibility over time. The goal is not constant adaptability, but helping children develop skills while feeling understood, safe, and supported.

"If parenting was easy, everyone would do it. If our kids made the harder parts of parenting easier, then we wouldn’t ha...
08/21/2026

"If parenting was easy, everyone would do it. If our kids made the harder parts of parenting easier, then we wouldn’t have to worry so much. But of course, that’s not always (ever?) the case. Because the hard conversations about life are a vital part of parenting, we cannot run from these challenges; instead, we must level up as we learn to embrace them. In this session, Dr. Matt Zakreski will identify several of the “hot button” issues of parenting neurodivergent children and present information and strategies to empower parents to engage in these conversations effectively."
Aug 27, 2026 08:30 PM
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If parenting was easy, everyone would do it. If our kids made the harder parts of parenting easier, then we wouldn’t have to worry so much. But of course, that’s not always (ever?) the case. Because the hard conversations about life are a vital part of parenting, we cannot run from these challen...

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