06/03/2026
You never know what someone is walking through and how deep the pain of their daily jobs can affect their mental health. I remember thinking I wasn’t allowed to have PTSD because I didn’t serve in the military nor was I ever in a career that involved emergency responses. Now as an advocate, I realize children can have PTSD. It does not discriminate against anyone nor does it have age restrictions. My first trauma and experience was as a 5 year old child.
Pay attention to those around you and watch for the signs. A simple “hello or how is your day,” can change the mind of someone who is contemplating su***de. All it takes is ONE!
One kind word, one conversation, one person, one smile. Be that person for someone who needs their ONE in a hectic day.
My heart and prayers go out to those who knew this Patrolman and his family. Life is hard but if we stand together as a community, we can break the stigmas behind mental health. It is ok to not be ok. However it isn’t ok to keep silent.
Speak out. Ask for help. Do not struggle alone.
Choose 2 Live;
When Corporal Gary Daniels graduated from the Missouri State Highway Patrol Law Enforcement Academy in 2015, he had established the first bond in a trooper’s career: He would forever be a member of the 101st Recruit Class. Decades later, troopers can name everyone in their recruit class. Recruits make it through the rigorous six-month bootcamp-style academy because they learn they are part of a team. A team in which they can rely on one another when their lives are on the line. Over the next decade, Gary established other immutable bonds within the Patrol – first in Troop C; then Troop A, where he could be closer to his family in Kansas; then part of the Patrol’s recruiting division; and, most recently, at the Patrol’s academy, where he could help shape the careers of young recruits.
Each current Patrol member and the larger Patrol family ache over the tragic loss of Corporal Gary Daniels. Missouri Department of Public Safety Director Mark James, a member of Patrol’s 48th Recruit Class, said, “Our troopers are hurting because Gary Daniels was a valued member of the Patrol family with a stellar career. He recruited and encouraged young men and women that they could succeed in our organization and, then in the academy, he helped shape the future of the Patrol. The Patrol and the entire DPS family mourn this terrible loss. Our thoughts are with Gary’s family and all who loved him.”
We will remember Gary Daniels for his selfless service to the public and for upholding the values of the Missouri State Highway Patrol. He will forever be part of the Patrol team.
If you or someone you know is in mental health, su***de, or substance use crisis, help is available. Please reach out to the 988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 or chatting online at 988 Lifeline. Services are free, confidential, and available 24/7.
