06/19/2026
Thirteen. š„³
Tomorrow my Brady becomes a teenager, and I honestly donāt know how we got here so fast.
I still see the little boy in him, but I also see this young man emerging with the biggest heart, deep faith, and a soul that feels so much older than his years.
This will be his third birthday without his dad here, and that part will always hurt. Birthdays just donāt feel the same without Chris, because he brought so much fun and life into everything. But even in the sadness, there is still so much to celebrate. And so much of Chris still alive in Brady.
Brady, you have always been big and strong, and I know there has often been this quiet expectation for you to lead, to carry, and to be strong in ways that are a lot for any kid. But beyond what you do on any field, what I am most proud of is your heart.
The way you check on me, the way you love and protect Brook, the way you care deeply about others, the way you keep finding your faith, and the way you continue to honor your dad through Clayton Rakes and ALS.
You are funny, resilient, kind, strong, wildly immature in all the right 13-year-old ways, and wise beyond your years in the ways that matter most.
I see so much of your dad in you, but I also see so much of you, Brady, and that is the greatest gift.
Happy 13th birthday, B. I am so proud of who you are, what you have overcome, and the young man God is shaping you to be. I love you more than you will ever understand. š¤