09/16/2026
When you set up money jars with your kid, one move decides whether the whole thing works.
Do not assign the percentages. Let them pick.
Sit down and ask: out of every ten dollars, how much goes to GIVE, how much to SAVE, how much to SPEND?
Some kids land near one, four, and five. Some load up savings because they want that bike badly. Some want more spending money and honestly, that tells you something useful about who your kid is.
The number matters far less than who chose it.
A split your child picked is a rule they will follow. A split you imposed is a rule they will resent and quietly work around.
You can always revisit in a month. Let it be theirs first. What split did your kid choose?