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How Fear Impacts the Brain Did you know that fear and trauma actually rewire the brain? When a child with a history of t...
06/08/2026

How Fear Impacts the Brain

Did you know that fear and trauma actually rewire the brain? When a child with a history of trauma experiences fear, their brain bypasses logic and shifts into survival mode—focusing solely on staying safe.

So when a child who has experienced trauma acts out, what looks like "bad behavior" is often just a protective strategy—their brain’s way of trying to survive. And when we attempt to discipline these survival responses, it backfires.

Traditional discipline doesn’t work in these moments—it hinders connection, diminishes felt safety, and reinforces the child’s need for those protective behaviors. Plus, consequences don’t make sense to a child in survival mode because their brain has shut down the logic center.

So, what does work?
✔️ Less talking—A child in fear brain can only process 8-10 words.
✔️ No yelling—It escalates fear, not learning.
✔️ No discipline in the moment—First, we help the child feel safe and re-regulate.
✔️ Wait for calm—When the brain no longer feels threatened, then we can talk, connect, and teach.

Trauma-responsive care isn’t about ignoring behaviors—it’s about responding in ways that actually help a child heal.

Summer, summer, beach, sand, and sunshine! This girl is smiling, but some people (Randall) are ready for fall! What abou...
06/06/2026

Summer, summer, beach, sand, and sunshine! This girl is smiling, but some people (Randall) are ready for fall! What about you? Team OR

Let’s Talk About Graduation 🎓As caps fly and diplomas are handed out, there’s one group of students we can’t afford to o...
06/05/2026

Let’s Talk About Graduation 🎓

As caps fly and diplomas are handed out, there’s one group of students we can’t afford to overlook: Youth in foster care.

📉Only 50% of youth in foster care will graduate high school.
(National average for the general population is 88%)

📉 Only 2–4% of former foster youth will graduate from college.
(National average for the general population is 44%)

These numbers should stop us in our tracks. Because they’re not just statistics, they’re stories waiting to change, if we show up with support. Kids in foster care need community, stability, mentorship, and people who are committed to showing up and sticking around. Let’s make sure every child has the support they need to walk across that stage.

Summer is here, and while many are counting down to beach days and BBQs, we know this season can be tough for kids in fo...
06/04/2026

Summer is here, and while many are counting down to beach days and BBQs, we know this season can be tough for kids in foster care, kids who’ve experienced trauma, and their caregivers!

Change, even when it’s fun, can be really hard. Transitions are unpredictable, and for kids navigating big emotions and past instability, that can lead to dysregulation. So here are a few things that help us navigate the summer months:

Meet Basic Needs First //
Food, water, and movement, every few hours. (Yes, even when it feels like your entire day is just managing snack breaks!) It keeps everyone regulated and a little more ready for what’s next.

Create a Simple Daily Routine //
Routines are predictable and predictability feels safe. Even if you’re home all day, try to stick to a daily rhythm. Visual schedules, even for older kids, can help ease anxiety and offer predictability.

Plan Fun, Stay Flexible //
Scheduled outings are great, but we’ve learned to keep destinations quiet until the day of, as weather, meltdowns, or life can shift plans. Flexibility helps everyone.

Bucket Lists or Nah?
Some families thrive with a summer bucket list. For us? It adds pressure. Do what works for your family!

And when it comes to summer vacations… well, that deserves its own post. 😅

How do you navigate the change summer brings? Drop your best tips in the comments ⬇️

Every Child Deserves a Home Where They're Safe and SupportedLGBTQ+ youth enter foster care for the same reasons as other...
06/03/2026

Every Child Deserves a Home Where They're Safe and Supported

LGBTQ+ youth enter foster care for the same reasons as other children, abuse, neglect, or the loss of a caregiver. But too often, they face an added layer of trauma.

Here’s what we know:

🟠 LGBTQ+ youth are 2.5 times more likely to enter foster care than their straight/cisgender peers.

🟠 30% report experiencing severe physical abuse by a family member.

🟠 40% have been kicked out, abandoned, or ran away due to their identity.

🟠 LGBTQ+ foster youth are 45% more likely to attempt su***de than LGBTQ+ youth not in care.

The purpose of this post is to educate and raise awareness as we support all vulnerable children, because ALL children deserve to live their life within a SAFE, supportive, and love-filled home.

From Foster Care to Prison: Breaking the Pipeline 💔We are sending more youth in foster care to prison than to college.Th...
06/02/2026

From Foster Care to Prison: Breaking the Pipeline 💔

We are sending more youth in foster care to prison than to college.

The term “foster care to prison pipeline” exists because of the staggering number of foster youth who end up in the criminal justice system. 90% of youth with 5+ placements (five or more different foster homes) will enter the criminal justice system. As many as 1 in 4 inmates are a product of foster care, with some states reporting even higher numbers.

This is why we’re so passionate about ensuring every child knows the stability of a loving, lasting family. Stability saves lives. And this is why we partner with ministries that stand with those who were not afforded that right, working to restore hope and break this devastating cycle.

Together, we can change the story.

Source: https://www.crimlawpractitioner.org/post/the-foster-care-to-prison-pipeline-a-road-to-incarceration

June is National Reunification Month! 💛If you’re new around here, reunification happens when a child in foster care is r...
06/01/2026

June is National Reunification Month! 💛

If you’re new around here, reunification happens when a child in foster care is returned to the care and custody of their biological family—and it’s one of the primary goals of the child welfare system.

Why does this matter?
Because connection heals.
➡️ Reunification supports better mental health outcomes.
➡️ It restores a child’s sense of security, identity, and belonging.
➡️ And it honors a child’s cultural, familial, and personal roots.

Foster care is meant to be temporary, but family is forever. Reunification honors that truth—celebrating families who’ve overcome tremendous obstacles to be together again, and the communities, caseworkers, and caregivers who supported them every step of the way.

This month, we celebrate the power of resilience, the beauty of belonging, and the hope of healing.

Today’s prompt is: “This doesn’t end in May”Tomorrow the awareness campaigns quiet down. The posts slow down. But chil...
05/31/2026

Today’s prompt is: “This doesn’t end in May”

Tomorrow the awareness campaigns quiet down. The posts slow down. But children will still enter foster care in June. Biological families will still need support. Kinship caregivers will still say yes overnight with no preparation. Foster parents will still show up to therapy appointments and court dates and school meetings. Former foster youth will still age out needing connection, guidance, and community.

Trauma doesn’t follow awareness calendars. Neither does healing.

I think one of the biggest misconceptions about foster care is that the system is primarily about finding homes for children. It’s actually about relationships. Safe and stable relationships. Supporting families before they fracture whenever possible. This work was never meant to belong only to foster parents. It belongs to communities. To churches, neighbors, teachers, friends, doctors, and community leaders. People willing to show up consistently.

So as National Foster Care Month ends, the question isn’t, “How do we raise awareness?” It needs to be, “How do we remain present after awareness fades?”

Because the children and families impacted by foster care will still be here tomorrow. And so will we.

Today’s prompt is “The one that stuck with me.” And, they all do. But our first experience with foster care will forev...
05/30/2026

Today’s prompt is “The one that stuck with me.” And, they all do. But our first experience with foster care will forever be our why.

She had aged out of foster care with no support. She was homeless. She had a baby. And we got a front row seat to how quickly struggling biological parents are judged. People criticized her for spending her days at the library with her baby. (Why? It was a pretty resourceful solution. Safe. Quiet. Free books. Free internet.) People criticized her for standing behind a pizza shop asking for handouts. (Her brother worked there and was slipping her food when he could.)

We met her just before her baby entered foster care. And almost immediately after placement, people began saying the baby was “better off” with the foster family. It got ugly.

We watched her fight. She worked her reunification plan. She did everything she was supposed to do.

One night she was helping me throw together a quick pasta dinner before we rushed out the door, and she said she’d never done that before. I thought she meant cook pasta. She said, “No, I’ve never sat down for dinner together as a family before.”

Seven foster placements. Still graduated high school. Kind. Thoughtful. Loved her child deeply. She needed support. Someone to teach her things many of us take for granted. Someone she could call when life got hard.

That experience changed me forever. She taught us that calling out injustice and standing up for someone costs something. She didn’t need to be judged. She needed support. Generational trauma, isolation, poverty, and survival and the thing standing between collapse and healing is whether someone sees the need, shows up to help, and sticks around.

Today’s prompt is “Do you have what it takes?” And, maybe. Probably? Part of me wants to say yes to everyone. Because ...
05/30/2026

Today’s prompt is “Do you have what it takes?” And, maybe. Probably? Part of me wants to say yes to everyone. Because I’m not special. And if I can do this, then I think a whole lot of people probably can too.

But I’ve also lived this life long enough to know that it requires more than just a good heart. You need support. It really helps to have someone you can tag in. It doesn’t have to be two married parents, but somebody who can help when you’re overwhelmed and dysregulated (maybe a grandparent, sibling, or BFF). It helps if one adult has a flexible job (or can stay home) because this life comes with appointments, meetings, crises, and unpredictability.

Do you have to have those things? Nope. I think they may be obstacles, but if you’re aware and have support and a plan, you can do it!

My one real non-negotiable? Deal with your own stuff. All of us have baggage. Childhood wounds. Abuse. Infertility grief. Mental health struggles. Financial stress. Relationship issues. Whatever it is, address it. Because parenting children with trauma will trigger every unresolved thing sitting under the surface.

It’s like if you never learned to swim and then climbed into a boat full of kids who also don’t know how to swim. I promise you, eventually somebody’s tipping the canoe. You’re all going in the water.

So deal with your stuff. Work on healing. Get the tools and support you need and then you’ve got what it takes to be a foster parent.

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