Baylie's Wish Foundation

Baylie's Wish Foundation Because college is not supposed to be dangerous, but sometimes it is. In memory of Baylie Grogan. We invite you to join us in this effort.

At Baylie’s Wish Foundation, our mission is simple: to prevent the tragic consequences and legal challenges that often affect college students and their families. We provide essential tools, resources, and education to help families navigate life’s toughest moments. Founded in honor of Baylie, a vibrant young woman whose life was tragically cut short due to preventable circumstances while away at

college, we are dedicated to ensuring no other family faces the same heartache. Baylie’s life was defined by kindness, justice, and a deep commitment to helping others. Through Baylie’s Wish, we honor her legacy by ensuring every college student has access to the resources they need to make safe decisions and advocate for their health and well-being. Our core programs include:

Health Care Proxy Forms with Every College Admission
One of Baylie’s most meaningful wishes was for every student to have the ability to name a healthcare proxy when they turn 18. Without a healthcare proxy, parents and loved ones can be denied access to critical medical information in emergencies, delaying essential care and decision-making. Our goal is to include these forms as part of every college admission process, giving families peace of mind in times of crisis. Safe Weekend Program & On-Call Parent Advocates
College students often face high-pressure situations that demand mature decision-making, but their brains are still developing. The risk of making poor choices—especially under the influence—can be high. Baylie’s Wish Foundation supports students by advocating for amnesty policies, ensuring they can seek help without fear of punishment. Our Safe Weekend Program provides access to volunteer "on-call parents" who are available by text to guide students through crises. We are also working to fund a safe ride home program to ensure students always have a safe way to get home, no matter the situation. Baylie’s tragic death is part of a larger, preventable pattern of accidents and deaths on college campuses nationwide, and it serves as a reminder of the need for systemic change. After Baylie was drugged and left unable to make decisions, her family was denied access to her medical information for 16 hours because there was no healthcare proxy in place. This heartbreaking experience highlights the importance of having the right tools and resources in place to protect students and their families when they need them most. Baylie was known for standing up for others, advocating for equality, and doing the right thing—even when it was difficult. Her passion for helping others drives everything we do at Baylie’s Wish Foundation. Through advocacy, education, and simple but powerful changes—like implementing healthcare proxies and offering safe ride programs—we are working toward a world where every college student is empowered to make safe choices and has the support they need in times of crisis. Whether by sharing Baylie’s story, supporting our initiatives, or volunteering to help students, together we can turn Baylie’s wish into a reality for every student.

03/11/2026
Wanted to share this incredible presentation we will be doing together. Please join us if you have daughters!
03/05/2026

Wanted to share this incredible presentation we will be doing together. Please join us if you have daughters!

12/30/2025

The weeks following long breaks are among the most vulnerable times of the academic year, especially for first-year students adjusting to independence and new social dynamics.

This blog reinforces why prevention needs to be ongoing, coordinated, and grounded in real-world behavior, rather than limited to orientation sessions or reactive responses.

At Baylie’s Wish Foundation, we believe prevention works best when it’s proactive and practical.

Sharing resources like this is one small way to keep the conversation going as campuses come back to life.

Short Film Day is the right moment to return to When Is It Enough? Exposing the Realities of Drink Spiking and Systemic ...
12/29/2025

Short Film Day is the right moment to return to When Is It Enough? Exposing the Realities of Drink Spiking and Systemic Neglect.

This documentary examines drink spiking, the systemic gaps that allow it to continue, and the real human impact when prevention and accountability fall short.

Shawnee Baker appears in the film, sharing Baylie’s story.

Short films have a way of saying what longer conversations sometimes avoid. This one asks a simple, urgent question and doesn’t look away from the answer.

This remains an important resource to watch, share, and use to start necessary conversations.

🎥 Watch and share: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cERf3bVdbJE
💙 Learn more about our work: https://www.baylieswish.org

This short documentary exposes the epidemic of drink spiking and the systemic neglect that allows it to continue.Featuring the voices of Ella, Lexi, Colleen,...

This is Baylie. A daughter. A friend. A young woman full of life, joy, and plans that never got the chance to unfold.Her...
12/27/2025

This is Baylie. A daughter. A friend. A young woman full of life, joy, and plans that never got the chance to unfold.

Her death was a tragedy. But what makes it even harder to accept is how preventable so much of what followed truly was.

Baylie’s story exposed gaps most families don’t know exist until it’s too late. Gaps in education. Gaps in awareness. Gaps in systems that are supposed to protect young people as they step into adulthood.

Too many students head to college without being taught about real-world risks. Too many parents assume safeguards are already in place. Too often, education only comes after something goes wrong.

We can’t change what happened to Baylie.
But we can change what happens next.

That’s why we’re asking you to sign our petition calling for education that prepares students for today’s realities, not yesterday’s assumptions.

One signature helps push this conversation forward.
One signature helps turn loss into action.

Please take a moment to sign and share:
💙 https://www.baylieswish.org/petition

If you’re sitting on a few gift cards from the holidays and wondering how to use them, here’s one thing worth considerin...
12/27/2025

If you’re sitting on a few gift cards from the holidays and wondering how to use them, here’s one thing worth considering.

'Baylie: A True Story' is a real account of love, loss, and the gaps in student safety that too many families don’t see until it’s too late.

Every copy keeps Baylie’s story in the conversation and supports the work to educate and protect students.

If you’re looking for something meaningful to read, or to share with someone you care about, this is a place to start.

Learn more or get the book here:
https://www.baylie.com/

From our family to yours, we wish you a peaceful holiday season.However you celebrate, take care of yourself and the peo...
12/26/2025

From our family to yours, we wish you a peaceful holiday season.
However you celebrate, take care of yourself and the people around you.

Looking out for one another is how safety starts.

12/24/2025

Before Baylie was a statistic, she was a daughter.
Before there was a foundation, there was a family trying to understand how this could happen.

Baylie’s story revealed gaps in education, awareness, and systems that are meant to protect young people as they step into adulthood. Those gaps still exist today.

We can’t change what happened to Baylie.
But we can demand better education, so fewer families have to learn these lessons the hard way.

Please take a moment to sign our petition and help push this change forward: https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/one-signature-can-save-a-life-a-petition-to-prepare-every-college-student-for-todays-real-risks?source=direct_link&

Campus safety doesn’t just affect students.It shapes where educators choose to work.Faculty and staff are increasingly w...
12/23/2025

Campus safety doesn’t just affect students.
It shapes where educators choose to work.

Faculty and staff are increasingly weighing safety, communication, and emergency preparedness when deciding whether a campus is the right fit. That should matter to every institution competing for strong instructors and leaders.

A culture of safety isn’t about a single policy or piece of technology. It’s about whether people trust the systems around them and know what happens when something goes wrong.

When safety is clear, proactive, and taken seriously, it shows.
And it influences who wants to be part of that campus community.

The CENTEGIX Safety Platform aids in the recruitment of post-secondary instructors at community colleges and technical colleges.

This is a basic question every school should be able to answer clearly.If a student is worried about another student’s s...
12/22/2025

This is a basic question every school should be able to answer clearly.

If a student is worried about another student’s safety or well-being, what steps are they supposed to take?
Who do they contact?
What happens next?
And how is that student protected for speaking up?

Too often, these answers are unclear, buried, or inconsistent. When systems aren’t easy to navigate, students hesitate. And hesitation can have real consequences.

We ask institutions to look closely at the guidance they provide and whether it truly supports early intervention and peer reporting.

Safety doesn’t start at the moment of crisis.
It starts with clear pathways and shared responsibility.

These are the questions we should all be asking.

After Baylie was critically injured at 19, the absence of basic healthcare documents meant her family was legally barred...
12/21/2025

After Baylie was critically injured at 19, the absence of basic healthcare documents meant her family was legally barred from making medical decisions, accessing records, or fully advocating for her care. What followed exposed a gap in how unprepared most families are for medical emergencies once a student turns 18.

These documents are not optional. They are the difference between clarity and crisis.

Baylie’s Wish Foundation works to educate families, students, and institutions on this overlooked but critical step in college preparedness.

If you have a college-age student, we urge you to review and complete these forms before they are needed.

Access state-specific medical forms here:
https://www.baylieswish.org/legal-forms

Preparation saves time.
Preparation protects families.

After her 19-year old daughter was critically injured while away at a Florida college, one New Hampshire mother is now looking to educate parents, nationwide, about the importance of having a healthcare surrogate in place.

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