06/17/2026
Happy Pride Month! While we say this throughout the year, this is a great moment to emphasize it: everyone is welcome here - at our events, at Shared Journeys Birthparent Collective services, supports, and community, and at Activism in Adoption sessions. Everyone is welcomed, celebrated, respected, encouraged, valued, and loved, here. Everyone.
In the adoption industry, language is very gendered, in ways that can alienate people don't fit neatly into a heterosexual, cis-gender category, making it even harder for some birthparents to find the help they need after placement. While we use terms like 'birthmother' or 'birthfather' in a lot of our material (because our language has to mirror that of the adoption industry for birthparents to find us), we are here for any person who gave birth and placed that child for adoption, or whose partner did, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or identity. The Birthparent Support Alliance is committed to fostering a community that understands the uniquely individual experiences that have brought each of us to adoption. We strive to be a diverse, equitable, and inclusive space in order to create a culture of safety and belonging for all of our stakeholders, one in which each voice is valued and heard.