08/23/2024
Back-to-School and the Battle with Germs
Weāre only two weeks into the school year, and Jo has already caught a bug. Sheās been complaining all week about not feeling well, and her attitude has matched. Because school just started, we both tried to enforce the āpush through itā mentality. But Thursday morning, she couldnāt move and was hurting pretty bad. Thatās when I had to face the fact that we had pushed her too hard and she needed to stay home.
The day consisted of nausea, pain, tears, and a fever. At one point, she looked at me and said, āThis is how Iāve been feeling at school.ā It broke my heart to realize how much sheād been struggling, trying to keep up when her body just wasnāt able.
With her compromised immune system, what might be a minor bug for another kid hits Jo much harder. Recovery takes longer, and itās just not as simple as a day or two of rest. So today, weāre hitting pause, giving her the time and care she needs to recover at home.
To all the parents out there facing similar struggles, I see you. Itās a tough balance between wanting our kids to be resilient and recognizing when they need to rest. Letās be gentle with ourselves and our kids, giving them the space they need to heal.
(Iām trying to catch up on all messages and calls from yesterday due to unplugging, so bare with me)