10/15/2026
π **Purple Thursday | October 15, 2026** π
This Thursday, we wear purple for Jackie Lee Hinman.
She stands here in red, wearing a purple scarf, as one of our **Silent Witnesses**. Her plaque tells her story in her own voice:
*Proud mother. Grandmother. Nurse. Faithful servant of her community.*
After almost 30 years of marriage, Jackie finally saw the cost of staying. She stopped hoping that her efforts would change his abusive behavior. She made the decision to leave.
He shot and killed her the night before she would have gone.
Jackie Lee was 76 years old. She was murdered on February 18, 2024, in her own home in Mecklenburg County.
Jackie spent her life caring for others as a nurse, a mother, and a grandmother. Her story reminds us of hard truths. Abuse has no age limit. It can hide inside a long marriage. And the moment someone decides to leave can be the most dangerous moment of all. That's why no one should have to make that move alone, and why safety planning with a trained advocate matters so much.
Her plaque ends with a message for anyone who is living what she lived:
**YOU ARE NOT ALONE. BE BRAVE!!!**
This Purple Thursday, please:
π Wear purple and share why
π Say her name: Jackie Lee Hinman
π Check on the people around you, including older friends and family
π Know where to turn for help
If you are thinking about leaving an abusive relationship, please reach out before you go. Advocates can help you make a plan to leave safely, 24/7:
π National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788
πThe Windsong Foundation: 434-500-1873
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