Walking Through Miscarriage and Infant loss

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Walking Through Miscarriage and Infant loss Walking through miscarriage and infant loss is a program of Compassion Women's Center. There is no shortage of pain in this traumatic loss.

A baby’s death whenever it occurs is a profound loss that touches many family members. Grief and second guessing yourself on if you did anything wrong is a crushing experience. We at Compassion Women’s Center of Rogers County are here to help with the many emotions you are feeling. We will listen, hold your hand and wrap our arms around you in love. Please do not feel you are alone at this time or that no one understands. Many of our volunteers have experienced this same sadness and want to comfort and help you heal in the time frame that is right for you. We will meet you at our Claremore, Oklahoma office or talk with you over the phone. We are here to help you grieve your loss in whatever manner is best for you. We also have a comfort bag full of items we would like to share with you as you navigate through this difficult time. Please contact us to receive your comfort bag. Compassion Women’s Center holds three remembrance ceremonies a year. You are welcome to attend our spring flower planting, summer butterfly release, and/or Christmas ornament making and candle lighting events. All events are free of charge and you do not have to have met with us prior to attending. We would be honored if you would allow us to help you cherish your child at one of theses events.We would like to provide you with a comfort bag of items if you have recently suffered a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant loss.

10/15/2026
10/03/2026

There’s a part of pregnancy loss we don’t talk about enough:

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆, 𝘁𝗼𝗼.

Kyler and I unfortunately know loss. We’ve lost three of our own.

My body was the one going through it. My hormones. My appointments. My perimenopause starting at 25. The testing, the questions, the physical reminders that something had gone wrong.

So naturally, people looked at me.

They checked on me.
They hugged me.
They asked Kyler how 𝗜 was doing.

And I understand why.

But looking back, there was a man standing beside me who had lost something too.

𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗮 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆.
𝗛𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁.

That is its own kind of heartbreak.

Because dads often get handed a job before they ever get handed room to grieve.

Drive her home.
Hold her.
Take care of the other kids.
Remember what the doctor said because she can barely hear it.
Answer the texts.
Be steady.
Be strong.

And somewhere inside all that strength is a father who had already started imagining a life that suddenly isn’t coming.

Maybe he pictured teaching them to fish.

Maybe he wondered whose eyes they would have.

Maybe he calculated the due date in his head.

Maybe he never said any of it out loud.

𝗤𝘂𝗶𝗲𝘁 𝗴𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗳 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗳.

A father doesn’t have to carry a baby in his body to have carried that baby in his plans, his prayers, his imagination and his heart.

And sometimes while everyone is asking him to hold her together, nobody notices he’s trying not to fall apart himself.

So during Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, yes, check on the mama.

Please check on the dad standing beside her, too.

𝗛𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 “𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆.”
𝗛𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗮𝗯𝘆.

09/28/2026

🕯️ Save the Date: Wave of Light Remembrance

During Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, we come together to remember the babies who have touched our lives and hearts.
Join us for a special Wave of Light remembrance gathering on Thursday, October 15 at 6 p.m. in Tulsa and Bartlesville.
Together, we’ll light candles, honor precious lives and surround families with support. 🕊️

📅 Thursday, October 15

⏰ 6 p.m.

📍 Ascension St. John Mary K. Chapman Health Plaza
1st Floor, LaFortune Room
1819 E. 19th St.
Tulsa, OK 74104

📍 Ascension St. John Jane Phillips Medical Center
Chapel
3500 SE Frank Phillips Blvd.
Bartlesville, OK 74006

Learn more here: [http://ascn.io/6186BGidRQ]

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1820 N. Sioux Avenue
Claremore, OK
74017

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