Real Love Real Marriage

03/26/2022

03/18/2022

Be extremely present with your partner. This is probably the best advice that I can share because people want to feel important and if your mind (or actions) are elsewhere during the time that you should be sharing together, they will feel unloved.

Make the commitment to yourself and to your lover to be the best version of yourself and hold each other accountable to deliver.

What does the best version of you look like?

03/16/2022

Break the norm as often as possible and plan a weekend or overnight getaway.

It is always a blast to pack a suitcase and to try something new, especially if you are the person setting up the entire surprise - which means packing your lover’s suitcase and not letting them know what to expect!

I encourage you do this at least 3-4x each year - it will make such a difference.

What has been your favorite trip with your special someone?

03/14/2022

Declare a massage night when your lover least expects it.

Touch is important within your relationship, so what if you were to turn your home into a spa and begin to massage one another?

Take turns and make this experience really intimate and special.

(Remember to remove all distractions during this time - goodbye mobile devices!)

Please let me know if you have any questions!

03/12/2022

Play hide and seek!

Being playful in your relationship brings a fun and youthful energy that often gets lost. I challenge you to find hiding places in your home and each day your lover returns, make them try and find you.

We need to act like kids again with our lovers - make your love fun!

What is your favorite hiding spot?

03/10/2022

Be spontaneous with your intimacy!

I promise to keep this post PG, but at same time, being physically intimate is extremely important in your relationship.So be creative!

Find new ways to light their fire and always remain present during the experience.

Part of me is afraid to ask and part if me is excited, but I feel obligated… (lol)

How do you keep your intimate life creative?

03/08/2022

Reminisce on the beginning and share your love story with one another.

Create the space to look back on how your love began.

Whether it is through pictures…

Videos…

Or just thoughts…

It is really special when you can discuss what transpired to get you both to where you are!

03/06/2022

This is going to be tough for many people, but what about creating a home LOVE video for your partner.

Don’t get any crazy ideas here…

I mean get on camera and communicate why you love this special person.

Dig into your past and the adventure you have been on together and share what gets you most excited about the present and future.

Load the video to youtube (make it PRIVATE!!!) and send them an email with this link when they least expect it.

Who is afraid of the camera, but will do this anyway?!?!?

Please let me know if you have any questions!

03/04/2022

Have lunch delivered for your lover without them expecting it!

This is such a fun way to surprise your partner and let them know you are thinking of them.

Pick their favorite place…

Place the order…

Ask the delivery person to include a short love note…

And get ready to make your lover smile!

Who is doing this today or tomorrow?!?!?

03/02/2022

Make your lover feel like the most important person in the world.

When you get home… DROP EVERYTHING!

I mean literally throw down your briefcase, toss your purse, and run over to your partner, look them in the eyes, embrace them in your arms, and give them a warm and passionate kiss.

The fire will be burning in your home!

Please let me know if you have any questions!

02/28/2022

Everyone gets excited by love notes!

-Write on a sticky note and post it to the mirror on the morning

-Slip a note into their lunchbox

-Put a note in their briefcase or purse

-Place a note under the pillow

-Tape it to something in the refrigerator

-Get creative!

Where have you placed a love-note that got your lover really excited?

02/26/2022

Cooking together as a couple is really a special experience.

Consider ordering a make-at-home meal service like Sun Basket, or Plated.

This is a really fun activity and within 30 minutes you will have a healthy, gourmet meal that both of you prepared together.