09/05/2022
3rd Annual K is for Kindness 9.11.21
(originally posted on Jodi's page)
Saturday will mark the 3rd annual K is for Kindness Day for our family. It’s our attempt to remember my moms legacy of genuine thoughtfulness & kindness each year on her Angel-versary. Each year we ask friends & family to do at least one very personal & intentional act of kindness not just to honor my moms life, but more importantly as a reminder to each of us to boldly shine our own lights of love & kindness into the world around us. We have always been acutely aware of the significance of the 9.11 date to our country’s history & felt that magnified the desire to intentionally choose to be kind on that day…. But, this year just feels different. Maybe it’s that time truly does heal, although I still feel my moms absence as deeply as I did the day she slipped from my arms to His…. Maybe it’s the exhaustion of weathering a global pandemic for over a year & a half & the lack of normal & fear of the unknown that seems to consume us…. Maybe it’s the divisiveness that seems to plague every aspect of our lives & has us questioning relationships & even the seemingly simplest of choices…. Maybe it’s that each Labor Day weekend, the Paw Creek & Coulwood community I once called home remembers the life of a young girl taken too soon by a drunk driver…. Maybe it’s that I personally know half a dozen moms & dads my age facing their own cancer battles or that our Belmont community just lost a beautiful mom, wife, daughter & friend far too young to the hideous disease…. I can’t put my finger on why it feels different this year, but I know that it does. So, while our family will spend 9.11.21 honoring & remembering my mom, what we experienced three years ago was merely life happening just as life should…we let go of a 69 year old nana who had lived a full, beautiful life. I know that what we experienced was sad but it absolutely was not tragic. There is a difference & my heart aches for those truly enduring & navigating heart wrenching tragedy & pain. I know that while it need not be in memory of or to honor my late mom, our world, our community NEEDS a day - a weekend - a week - of each & every one of us genuinely, intentionally reaching out to others in KINDNESS. So, I challenge you, in the days ahead, as the 20th anniversary of a terrorist act meant to divide & destroy us approaches, to find your own WHY or your own WHO or your own HOW & to very boldly, very intentionally, in a very personal way, simply shine your light in a dark corner of your place in this world, to be inspired to stretch out of your own comfort zone, to reach across a divisive line, to offer a smile, to go out of your way…
to simply BE KIND.