05/30/2026
This community, showing heartfelt support for a family who lost their child. The truth is, the entire community is also devastated. And that's just the thing. The autism-elopement issue isn't just about the child. It's about this. The neighbor across the street who jumped into action -- there's a missing child, and they will find that child. There's an incredible amount of hope that goes into that.
It's about volunteers who show up -- same amount of hope in their hearts -- picturing that child simply hiding in a bush. They will find that child, they're sure of it. It's about the responding officers, Police Chief, collaborative agencies, K9 handler, drone operator, NCMEC call center supervisor, Team Adam specialist, the case manager -- all coming together with that same hope in their hearts.
And then there's the family. The hope and the absolute fear that is too intense to be measured, and for many, the aftermath of the worst outcome, met with the harshest judgement from those who have no idea how quickly this can happen.
Through the years, we've met people who found a child alive, or deceased. Regular people who either had one of the best days of their lives, or worst.
When a missing child is found deceased, it impacts entire communities. That child is one of theirs. A certain innocence is lost, and it will be felt for years to come.
For communities like Celina, it's not just about the child who is lost, but everyone who searched. Not to mention the parents, grandparents, siblings, family members and bystanders who also lost their lives during a rescue. It's about all of it.
We love that Celina showed up for this family. Every community should be this level of supportive. We're also heartbroken for the community itself, and for every community that has held that palpable hope only to have it turn to devastation.
The City of Celina extends its deepest condolences to the family, friends, and loved ones of MJ Ashmead during this difficult time.
In honor of MJ’s memory and the impact he made on those around him, the City will illuminate the historic Water Tower in blue throughout the weekend. Blue is a color widely recognized for both autism awareness and water safety awareness, reflecting values of understanding, education, advocacy, and community support.
As our community joins together in remembrance, we keep MJ’s family and all who knew and loved him in our thoughts.