We donate new and gently used gowns to individuals with special needs to empower them to experience events where they can learn new skills and increase their confidence. Here is my story.....
My name is Olivia Pierce, 17, and I am the Founder of Raise Your Crown Against Bullying, Raise Your Crown, and Raise Your Crown - Give A Gown. So many of us have been knocked down, our dreams shattered, and
our self-esteem slowly chipped away. The victims of bullying (or meanness) are many and each person's story is different. The long-term effects can be devastating to all involved. I don’t want anyone to ever suffer like I did, and I don’t want them to spend years of their life trying to rebuild their self-esteem and confidence like I have. Some days I still suffer from low self-esteem and can hear the things that were said to me, like it was just yesterday. That is why my mom and I launched Raise Your Crown, a 501(c)3 nonprofit, with the core philosophy of bullying prevention and awareness. Raise Your Crown empowers others to be the real you; It encourages the acceptance of others exactly as they are, lifting each other up, and having empathy for others. We are going to make a difference in the world together. Nobody is perfect and we need to embrace our uniqueness. I am sharing my story, so that you know that I am real. I am just like all of you. When I was in Kindergarten, I was overweight and wore baggy clothes because of sensory issues. I also struggled with ADD and Dysgraphia and acted out in class due to frustration. The other kids saw me as different and would bully me. I may have been an easy target, but nobody deserves to be bullied. No matter what I did after that, the kids never accepted me. Whenever I made a new friend, the other girls would convince her that I was awful and I would be alone again. I could never understand why they wanted to hurt me so much. In middle school, I finally made some friends. They accepted me just the way I was, but my self-esteem was still low. I decided to try a natural pageant to gain confidence, make friends, and create bullying awareness. I came up with the idea of getting my pageant friends to share pictures with their crowns raised in support of ending bullying. And so, our first initiative, Raise Your Crown Against Bullying, was born. This symbolic gesture gave many a voice and a safe way to stand up against bullying. In high school, I became stronger and some called me a natural leader. When I saw bullying one day in High School, I spoke up, not realizing that I would be standing up alone and become a target myself. Some of the girls were mean to me, and at least one girl would bully me repeatedly. Suddenly the isolation, false rumor spreading, whispered negative comments, and exclusion from group messaging and events was overwhelming and extremely hurtful. I did ask the school for help, but unfortunately, they couldn’t help without asking my friends to confirm what was happening. It was pointless to get them involved as most things were whispered so nobody else could hear, plus some of them were fearful of becoming the bully’s next target. I was getting physically sick from the stress and anxiety of going to school knowing at any minute something else would happen. One missed day turned into several days, which turned into weeks and I finally told my mom that I just couldn’t go back. I was on the verge of dropping out of 9th grade. Luckily, I have a great relationship with my Mom and we talked about the struggles I was having. It wasn't easy to move forward, and it took some time, but today I am in the 11th grade getting great grades at an online school. I am a proud member of PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center's youth advisory board "The Faces of Change". I am a Northern Elite All-Star cheerleader, the reigning USA National Miss Minnesota Teen and will be competing at Miss Minnesota Teen USA (promoting body diversity) in November. I want to leave you with this one last thing. I was bullied, repeatedly, but most people would just say to shake it off, it happens to everyone, or that I was being overly sensitive. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says, it only matters how it feels to you. If it is impacting your life in any negative way, then it is too much and it needs to stop. Please reach out to a parent, another adult, PACER’s National Bullying Prevention Center, or one of the other anti-bullying organizations and tell them what is happening so they can help you. Just remember, even though you feel alone, you are NOT alone. The world is a better place because you are in it.
Love, Olivia ♥
You can reach us at [email protected]. Thank you for taking the time to learn all about me!
~ With Love,
Liv
