COTA for Victoria

COTA for Victoria Victoria needs a life-saving intestinal transplant. Victoria's family has partnered with the 's Organ Transplant Association (COTA)

Transplant-related expenses can be overwhelming so we have joined with the 's Organ Transplant Association (COTA), a national charity based in Bloomington, Indiana. COTA is dedicated to organizing and guiding families in raising funds. COTA's services are completely free of charge, and 100% of funds raised in honor of Victoria assist with transplant related expenses. Please consider visiting COTAforVictoria.com to make a one time or recurring gift.

💚💙♻️“And now she can live a carefree life.” I will never forget what someone said to me just months after transplant. Li...
12/15/2025

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“And now she can live a carefree life.”

I will never forget what someone said to me just months after transplant. Life she has, carefree she does not. Transplant is the ultimate conundrum. Irony at its core. Transplant is Life surrounded by Death. Transplant is being grateful while someone grieves. Transplant is making memories when someone else reflects on theirs.
Transplant is beautiful and ugly. Transplant is life changing for better and for worse.

Four years today our lives were changed for the better. Not a carefree life as suggested but LIFE. I am and will forever be grateful that Hunter made his last living wish to be her angel donor. Today we celebrate her life and pause in a moment of silence to give thanks for the life that was lost.



*Food celebration to come! Postponed due to weather. ❄️

Haven’t given an update on Miss V in a hot minute so here’s what she’s been up to…In December we went to New Orleans to ...
06/01/2025

Haven’t given an update on Miss V in a hot minute so here’s what she’s been up to…
In December we went to New Orleans to celebrate her graduation…which was fun while it lasted! She ended up with the flu and we had to abandon ship at the Atlanta airport while trying to get home. She got the attention she needed at the new children’s hospital in Atlanta AND as luck would have it, she got to see one of her original transplant doctors!

Victoria was accepted into Evansville University, University of Cincinnati and Northern Kentucky University for nursing. However, after another short hospital stay at Cincinnati Children’s for respiratory viruses, she had a complete change of heart. Victoria has decided that she’s not quite ready to leave the comforts of home or her small town just yet and she’s not so sure she really should be a nurse (although she’d make a hellofa nurse!). Rather, she’s gonna approach college at a slower pace and pursue Criminal Justice while attending Ivy Tech and then on to IU.

All in all, life has been good from a medical point of view, however it hasn’t been entirely fair. In April, Victoria and her brother lost their father to unexpected natural causes. Losing a parent is hard enough, to lose your parent at 18 and 21 is harder. She has certainly felt the grief that goes with this loss but she also understands her dad would want her to live every day to the fullest. So she does her best.

On a fun and positive note, V made her 1st Big Girl purchase at the end of March and got herself her dream Jeep!

03/01/2025

‼️LONG POST‼️

Today is Rare Disease Day! As many of you know, back in December 2021, I had a complete bowel transplant. The reason for this was because of a VERY rare genetic mutation called ACTG2. ACTG2 is an incredibly rare mutation where your body lacks the protein to produce muscle contraction in your small/large intestine and bladder. This mutation is INCREDIBLY hard to diagnose, and with it being a rare mutation, it’s not talked about enough; therefore, it’s considered “crazy talk.” This mutation/disease is not curable. Even with transplant, this mutation still affects my day-to-day life.

I wish I could say that was it; however, my luck is never that good. Shortly after transplant, I was diagnosed with yet another rare condition called CTCL (cutaneous T-cell lymphoma), a blood cancer that attacks your organs with your skin being its first victim. This disease is also not curable.
Without COTA and the support from my COMMUNITY, my mom wouldn’t have been able to sit bedside with me and fight for the care/treatment I needed and deserved. Having said all that, there is so much chaos and ugliness happening in the world right now. EVERYONE is entitled to their opinion, but no one should expect to have the same point of view. The world cannot just be black and white. It’s not that simple. Our healthcare system cannot be black and white, there has to be a bigger picture. While I could elaborate on a more specific topic, my hope is for everyone to pause and consider the potential consequences. If we take away funding from our healthcare/insurance companies not only are we taking away routine doctor appointments but we are taking away life saving treatments and medications. CHEMO, radiation therapy, anti rejection medication which is something I take everyday of my life to keep the gift my donor gave me. My COMMUNITY has consistently supported me throughout my journey, and I hope they will continue to do so by understanding these HUMAN BEINGS didn’t ask to be this sick or ask to be put on this much medication. Something my mom always told me growing up that’s everyone needs to hear “treat people the way YOU want to feel.”

💙♻️💚3 years 💙♻️💚It’s amazing to think it’s already been 3 whole years and yet it feels like yesterday. I woke up this mo...
12/15/2024

💙♻️💚3 years 💙♻️💚
It’s amazing to think it’s already been 3 whole years and yet it feels like yesterday.
I woke up this morning with so much gratitude in my heart as well as sorrow. This year has been HARD but I’m ever so thankful for the wins and the life you have been gifted.
This day is a day to celebrate my child’s life, while another mother wishes she could hold hers. I will never forget the life that was lost. Hunter’s life will always be our greatest blessing. He lives because she lives.
Today we celebrated LIFE and enjoyed a delicious experience together as a family (although we were one man down. Feel better My Love)💚♻️💙


Victoria did a “thing” today with her older brother👏👏👏
10/18/2024

Victoria did a “thing” today with her older brother👏👏👏

09/20/2024

Today we celebrate 18 years of Victoria’s Life. 18 years I have had the pleasure to LOVE her and watch her grow. This was made possible because another 18 year old lost his life and chose to donate his organs so that Victoria and others like her could LIVE.
Today as I celebrate my child’s life, I also honor the life of Hunter. His memory, his gift, will forever be a blessing.

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05/26/2024

🎓👩‍🎓🫶💙♻️💚

05/25/2024

It’s GRADUATION Day!!!🎓👩‍🎓🫶

Hey Bloomington Friends!!! Looking for a new place to eat? Stop in at this swanky NEW restaurant and Miss V will be happ...
05/20/2024

Hey Bloomington Friends!!!
Looking for a new place to eat? Stop in at this swanky NEW restaurant and Miss V will be happy to seat you at the perfect table☺️

Cap & Gown Photos ✔️Up next, Commencement Ceremony. I am beyond proud of your accomplishments. There was a time when rec...
05/18/2024

Cap & Gown Photos ✔️
Up next, Commencement Ceremony.
I am beyond proud of your accomplishments. There was a time when receiving a High School Diploma looked like it might not happen for you given all that you
were up against. You did it! 🎓👩‍🎓
💙♻️💚 he lives because you live.

Prom 2024. Miracles happen every day. Every day YOU are a miracle. ♻️💚💙
05/13/2024

Prom 2024.
Miracles happen every day. Every day YOU are a miracle. ♻️💚💙


We have known for a while now that V’s donor was male. We just recently received a letter from his mom and we are anxiou...
04/30/2024

We have known for a while now that V’s donor was male. We just recently received a letter from his mom and we are anxiously awaiting to hear more about him. He lives because she lives. Not a day goes by that we don’t “talk” to him or recognize his role in her life💚💙♻️

Today is Donor Remembrance Day. 💙💚 The donation and transplant community is coming together today to honor and celebrate the donor heroes who have given the gift of life through organ, eye and tissue donation. We are sharing forget-me-not flowers to symbolize that donors and their legacy of generosity will always be remembered: https://aopo.org/donor-remembrance-day/remember-your-hero/ also honors donor families and serves as a reminder that they are always a part of the Donate Life community. 🌸 Association of Organ Procurement Organizations - AOPO

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