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08/29/2026

It is so easy to not try because you know you can’t do Enough. But do what you Can. Because every act has a ripple effect, even in the face of overwhelming disasters.

First and foremost, this post is NOT a criticism of the original commenter. Read that and hear that. However, I want to ...
08/02/2026

First and foremost, this post is NOT a criticism of the original commenter. Read that and hear that.

However, I want to share it because I think it’s important. I know for a FACT ive ignored offers from folks to come volunteer over the past months. It doesnt mean my community no longer needs help or that I or my organization are any less engaged.

It means I hit a point of how do I pay the mortgage? It means after 17 months without a paycheck, u max out the credit cards and have to make the hard decisions to rebalance and find solvency while still caring for and advocating for others.

If u want to come help? You are welcome. And needed. But realize the leaders are also coping with their own traumas and we put ourselves aside for years to only care for others.

WNC is not okay. Our neighbors are still in campers or have been promised things by agencies and institutions that never came to fruition. We’re still here. And the leaders still care and know the needs of the community. A lot of us just needed a minute to be human for ourselves.

Photo is original comment. Below is my response.

“For a lot of us who were front lines for year, a year and a half, Two years… we hit burnout.

None of us (well, the reputable leaders) were paid for this work. We stepped up when our community needed us and redefined our entire lives.

For me, the head of this organization, I left a well paying corporate job because I had PTSD and could not drive past those who relied on me for a hot meal and pretend like I gave a s**t about the corporate bottom line.

My home became a volunteer hub. It became a supply hub. I’d meet sixty people a day.

I’d listen to the absolute horror stories from my neighbors and figure out how to respectfully present those to the public so that they weren’t clickbait. Putting the stories of Real people with Real stories on the internet and ensuring their privacy and dignity is respected is a fulltime job unto itself.

Nevermind running an organization, coordinating volunteers, physically volunteering in the community myself…

I’d wake up at 9am to cars already lined up outside my house with folks in need. It was the most rewarding time of my life to be able to offer help, but it was also utterly exhausting. We never processed our own trauma or experience. Instead we took on the trauma of others and bouy’d them up and found resources to help them.

So, depending who you reached out to to offer help and when, it’s very very possible you contacted community leaders who were finally trying to take time to process their own traumas and figure out what happens next. When you dont have a paycheck for two years, even having done the most meaningful work during that time still has consequences on your own life. On your finances and future.

Many of us needed a moment to breathe.

It doesnt mean the community doesnt need help or we’re any less legit as leaders. It means we’re humans. Humans who experienced the same trauma and were looked to for answers and not given the grace to process.

Even the leaders are victims in a natural disaster. We’re just the ones who tried to help. Many of us giving up absolutely everything in service of others. Give them the grace to breathe and keep offering help if you truly want to make a difference”

08/01/2026

I’ve been tagged on posts about Scars on the Mountain documentary for weeks. And I do hope people watch it. But for those of you who weren’t here in September of 2024, know that many of us have not watched it. Haven’t watched this. Or In the Eye of the Storm on discovery. Hell, I haven’t even watched the documentaries I was featured in.

I drove NC 80 the other day for the first time since Helene. Saw the cars that landslides laid on the hillside now covered in greenery and new growth. Some of the trauma abates with time. But a lot of it… we still can’t handle looking in the eye. We still live here and are still feeling the aftermath. A natural disaster doesn’t end when the cameras or the volunteers go home.

07/31/2026

Even a free trial of Angel. Watch our story. Understand that we still are not done dealing with this To This Day. A historical event, swept under the rug? We are real people.

04/22/2026

The reality after a disaster and after everyone leaves?

Well, when you had entire mountainsides Leveled by straight line 85+ mph winds?

And those trees have laid there for nearly two years, drying out and never been cleared?

They catch fire.

And on Steep mountain terrain? Dense with downed trees and flames leaping?

You go from ‘oh a fire broke out’ at 4pm…to its 2 acres at 4:20… to its 50 acres (or 80 though the reports of that are currently less substantiated) at 7pm. And 0% contained.

So many who lost so much will lose more in the aftermath. And we don’t have the resources to help when they do.

I made an Amazon list the first year before folks fully understood what we were facing. Perhaps you will consider donating to our community and helping us with wildfire preparedness, evacuation preparedness and picking up the pieces for those who will lose homes to these fires. Maybe, and hopefully, not tonight. Maybe we’ll go from 0% contained to safe soon.

But when even high winds are triggering? Evacuated is re-traumatizing all over again. The more we can help give folks the tools to feel any level of empowerment to face these situations when they come- cuz they are and will continue to- well, that’s a blessing that those who haven’t lived through this truly cannot even comprehend.

https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1TB1P3D9WK4NM?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_ggr-subnav-share_3FEYZPYYXQHR096A8CET&language=en-US

This post includes foul language. It is Not our normal post. But it is a direct copy of a post our founder put on her ow...
04/15/2026

This post includes foul language. It is Not our normal post. But it is a direct copy of a post our founder put on her own page tonight. Life continues in WNC. We continue to run a food pantry. We continue to hand out heaters and fans and grass seed and vegetable seeds. We distribute sunflower seeds for families just reclaiming their land to detoxify the soil. The founder is continuing to work every week cleaning beads salvaged from one of the flood victims’ homes.

We don’t post as frequently, but the work continues. The founder still lives in and supports the community. And the trauma still informs daily experiences. Apologies if the curses offend anyone, but some experiences continue to be visceral. Driving past ravaged mountainsides daily? Families in need of basic necessities and living in campers nearly two years later? Wildfires sweeping through our mountains? The fish not returned to our streams? S**t, some of the people we LOVE have rebuilt new homes with help from outside agencies. But they drive past the ruins of their old homes to get to the new ones. They have the trigger of a life destroyed clearly on display every damn day and in the same state it was in September 2024.

Why don’t we post as much?

How many times can we tell the same story?

The volunteers stopped coming. The donations stopped. The needs remain but every day our capacity to offer aid decreases. It’s the reality of living through a disaster. The impact LONG outlasts the interest.

Anyway, here is the original post referenced above:

“There is a very compelling and authentic true crime series on Netflix by Dick Wolf (of Law & Order) called Homicide New York.

We all experienced 9/11. Season 3 Episode 5 of this show covers the disaster and it is the most compelling and honest take on it that I’ve ever seen. It’s the officers who responded and their real experiences. A few of the survivors. It is Such an honest portrayal.

I almost turned it off when I realized what the episode was about. I have the same reaction when media features Helene. There is a stupid fu***ng political ad right now that uses our tragedy to disparage an NC politician. Whatever the truth or not of this guy’s role in post-Helene response and recovery or failures in that, I fu***ng hate whoever thinks footage of what we survived is fair fodder. It is triggering as hell.

I wasn’t in NY in 2001. I was a middle schooler in gym class. And absolutely terrified. Because my mom worked in a big building and what might be next. My dad was in the medical field and would he be called to go? It was a child’s response but the fear is something tangible and I know every single one of us remembers where we were 25 years ago.

I cannot imagine the trauma of those who were at the World Trade Center. And I very Sincerely apologize for any single person this post is triggering to. But I was watching the show & realized I hadn’t changed the channel. I always change the channel when a 9/11 documentary comes on. Or anything related to Helene. I’m glad I kept this one on. And the post started just wanting to share like ‘hey, this s**t is well done.’

And I realized in writing the post that to some weird degree, seeing these cops retelling their experiences 25 years ago is kinda cathartic? I couldn’t fathom the experience in 2001. I still cannot now. But, I understand the trauma more now. I understand the survivor’s guilt, the utter chaos, just trying to understand what is happening and help those around you who are more impacted than you are.

This is a rant. And I hope it doesn’t come across wrong. I just mean, it’s a good show. And a very well done episode. And these people are fu***ng heroes. Even Twenty Five years later, we should be shouting from rooftops for every first responder and civilian who saw, faced, and ran into danger and tragedy and inexplicable trauma. And while our tragedy is not the same, I wanna say even nearly two years later- every single person who stepped up to feed a neighbor, offer power or warmth or resources in our community in the aftermath of Helene, I still see you and honor you. You are fu***ng heroes too.

Those of us who live through tragedies and disasters, we’re never the same. So you may not see updates and footage as constantly in the years that follow a disaster… but don’t forget the heroes. Or the victims. Make space to honor them even when it is no longer a headline.”

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