10/08/2026
Nearly every person who dies from breast cancer dies because it became metastatic. And somehow, that’s the part of breast cancer we probably know the least about.
It’s October, which means pink ribbons are everywhere for Breast Cancer Awareness Month. After meeting Lyn and hearing her story, I realized how little I actually knew about stage 4 metastatic breast cancer and how badly we need to be talking about it.
Lyn is 42, married to her best friend, and has two kids who she fully plans on watching grow up. Almost a year ago, she had a mammogram and was given the all-clear. A couple of months later, she felt something in her other breast. By Christmas, it had grown so much she couldn't comfortably lay on her stomach. Then came the diagnosis, followed by the news that it had already spread to her liver.
She told me it went from “I can beat this” to “How many years can I get?”
Lyn wants the years most of us just assume we're going to get. She wants to see who her kids become. She wants to see her husband with wrinkles and gray hair. And as she put it, “Hell, I want to see ME with wrinkles and gray hair.”
And right now, she has some pretty incredible news.
Lyn is in remission.
When we talked about sharing her story, though, she wanted to make sure we talked about more than the good news. Her cancer wasn't linked to a known inherited genetic mutation. She had recently had a normal mammogram, and she wants women to know that if something in your body changes, YOU make the call. She also wants more people to understand metastatic breast cancer and why research specifically for stage 4 matters so much.
So for Breast Cancer Awareness Month, her's is the story I want to share.
Her full feature is live now, along with a link to support metastatic breast cancer research.
https://metavivor.org/
https://www.judejojosphotography.com/jjpcrew/lyn
METAvivor Research and Support Inc. Susan G. Komen National Breast Cancer FoundationGeorgia Alliance for Breast Cancer