Elgon Girl, BUDUDA, Bududa (2026)

19/03/2026

Don't let the opinions of others define you,you are not what they say you are , you are what you believe you are & if you believe in yourself nothing is impossible. 🫵🥺❤️

28/09/2025

Xania Monet - How Was I supposed to Know? Lyrics

This goes out to all our fathers

[Verse 1]
He didn't walk me down no stairs
Didn't warn me 'bout them boys who wouldn't care
Didn't tell me what a real man sounds like
So I fell for the ones that lied just right
He never pulled my chair or checked my friends
Never showed me what to lose or what to defend
So I chase love with an open wound
Looking for something I was never introduced to
My mama did her best, but she can't teach
What it feels like when a father speaks
So I took еvery "I love you" too deep
Even whеn they only meant for a week

[Chorus]
How was I supposed to know what love looked like
When daddy never showed me what felt right?
How was I supposed to set the bar
When I ain't ever seen no man fight for my heart?
Now I'm learning through heartbreak piece by piece
Tryna be soft in a world that's been hard on me
I ain't bitter, just broken in places you can't see
How was I supposed to know
If he ain't teach me?

[Verse 2]
I thought pain was part of being chosen
If he stayed, then the hurt was worth holding
I called settling a sign of love
'Cause I ain't know a man should lift me up
Know you're beautiful just 'cause I'm his
And know I got you when life don't make sense
So I let bare minimum feel like gold
'Cause I know I deserve more to hold
And mama raised a queen with a wounded crown
Taught me strength, but I still let love drag me down
'Cause daddy never gave me that love one on one
So I mistook lust for the real one

[Chorus]
How was I supposed to know what love looked like
When daddy never showed me what felt right?
How was I supposed to set the bar
When I ain't ever seen no man fight for my heart?
Now I'm learning through heartbreak piece by piece
Tryna be soft in a world that's been hard on me
I ain't bitter, just broken in places you can't see
How was I supposed to know
If he ain't teach me?

[Bridge]
I needed arms that protected
Not ones that neglected
Needed truth without games
Real love with no pain
So now I'll relearn what I missed
Unpacking daddy wounds from every kiss
But I promise one day I'll be free
Of the love that never covered me

[Chorus]
How was I supposed to know what love looked like
When my first man left before I learned to fight?
Now I raise my standards like prayers to the sky
For the girl I was who needed to know why

[Outro]
I still stumble, but now I see
The kind of love that was meant for me
And I'll teach my daughter what he couldn't show
So she'll know

28/03/2025

The Challenges of Girl Child Pregnancy: A Call for Change

Pregnancy among girls under the age of 18 is a growing concern globally. Despite efforts to raise awareness and implement policies to prevent child marriage, many young girls still face early pregnancies, often as a result of societal pressures, limited education, and inadequate access to healthcare.

The Impact on Health
Pregnancy during childhood is not just an emotional and social challenge—it poses significant health risks. Girls who give birth before they are physically and emotionally mature are more likely to face complications such as preterm birth, maternal mortality, and childbirth injuries. Their bodies are simply not ready to carry and deliver a baby safely.

The Consequences on Education and Empowerment
A young girl who becomes pregnant is often forced to drop out of school. This creates a cycle of poverty and limited opportunities. Education is a fundamental right, and without it, girls are deprived of the tools they need to break free from poverty, improve their well-being, and contribute meaningfully to their communities.

Breaking the Cycle
It is crucial to raise awareness about the importance of delaying pregnancy until adulthood. Governments, NGOs, and communities need to work together to provide better access to sexual and reproductive health education, family planning services, and legal protection against child marriage. By empowering young girls with knowledge and opportunities, we can help them avoid early pregnancies and lead healthier, more fulfilling lives.

Together, We Can Make a Difference
The issue of girl child pregnancy is preventable. Every girl deserves the chance to grow, learn, and thrive without the burden of early motherhood. Let’s continue to support and advocate for the rights of young girls to ensure they can achieve their full potential and live free from the risks of early pregnancy.

08/03/2025

Here’s to all the women who have paved the way and to those who continue to inspire change. Your courage and determination make all the difference. Happy Women's Day!

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