30/06/2025
[English]
Last on the list of our 2025 Honorary Patrons is Grivaldo de Jesus Loudoe, known to many simply as Aldo, a young Timorese soul whose courage continues to move and inspire us.
Aldo was only 19 when he left us, but in his short life, he embodied the deepest form of resilience: daring to live openly as q***r in the face of rejection, violence, and isolation. He came out to his family at 18, knowing it could cost him everything. But Aldo still chose truth over silence.
He was driven from his home and twice tried to end his life before finding refuge in the arms of allies—friends and chosen family. Despite everything, Aldo stood tall at the 2023 Pride March, smiling brightly as he walked for the first time as his full self. It was a moment of visibility and strength, a reminder that hope still blooms even through pain.
Aldo dreamed of a world where no one would have to beg for dignity, where being LGBTIQ+ did not mean being alone. His final message to others like him was simple: “Have strength and courage. Do not stay silent.”
His death, by su***de in June 2024, during Pride Month, shook our community to its core. But we refuse to let his story fade into silence. We honour Aldo as a symbol of our struggle, our resistance, and our love. He was not weak, he was strong in the face of cruelty. He was not alone, he is with all of us now.
This year, as we march under the theme of Resilience, we carry Aldo’s memory in every step, every flag raised, every voice shouting “We are equal!” May his story fuel change. May his name never be forgotten.
Rest in power, Aldo. We march for you.
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[Tetum]
Iku’s liu iha lista ami-nia Padroeiru 2025 nian mak Grivaldo de Jesus Loudoe, ne’ebé ema barak koñese simplesmente ho naran Aldo, joven timoroan ida ne’ebé nia aten-barani kontinua inspira ita.
Aldo iha de'it tinan 19 bainhira nia husik ami, maibé iha nia moris badak, nia enkarna forma reziliénsia ne'ebé klean liu: brani atu moris nakloke hanesan q***r hasoru rejeisaun, violénsia no izolamentu. Nia nakloke an ba nia família ho tinan 18, hatene katak ida-ne'e bele halo nia lakon buat hotu. Maibé Aldo nafatin hili lia-loos duké silénsiu.
Nia koko atu hakotu nia moris molok hetan refújiu iha aliadu sira nia le’et—belun sira no família ne'ebé nia hili. Maski ho buat hotu, Aldo hamriik ho firme iha Pride March 2023, hamnasa nabilan bainhira nia la'o ba dala uluk hanesan nia an rasik. Ida-ne'e maka momentu ida vizibilidade no forsa nian, lembransa ida katak esperansa buras nafatin maski iha susar.
Aldo mehi ba mundu ida ne'ebé laiha ema ida maka husu dignidade, iha ne'ebé sai LGBTIQ+ la signifika mesak. Ninia mensajen ikus ba ema seluk hanesan nia mak simples: “Iha forsa no aten-barani, keta nonook deʼit.”
Nia mate, tanba oho-an iha Juñu 2024, durante Fulan Pride nian, halo ami nia komunidade nakdoko. Maibé ami lakohi husik nia istória sai nonook. Ita fó onra ba Aldo nu’udar símbolu ba ita-nia luta, ita-nia rezisténsia, no ita-nia domin. Nia la fraku, nia forte hasoru krueldade. Nia la mesak, nia hamutuk ho ita hotu agora.
Tinan ida-ne'e, bainhira ita marxa ho tema Reziliénsia, ita lori Aldo nia memória iha pasu ida-idak, bandeira ida-idak ne'ebé hasa'e, lian ida-idak ne'ebé hakilar "Ita hanesan!" Karik nia istória bele hamosu mudansa. Atu nia naran nunka haluha.
Deskansa ho dame, Aldo. Ami marxa ba ita-boot.