25/02/2026
This post is in response to the brutal murder of one of our foundation girls, Sidratu Bangura in Makambo village, Makeni.
Consent in a relationship is bound to be withdrawn at any time. So if u bin tell man traday say u want am den later u say u nor want again(Krio)-that's your right.
If u don allow for get "s*x" with man n later u say u nor gree or make e pull e Pen*s na u right(Krio). You are not in the wrong direction girl. If d man continue, that's r**e. If a girl decides to withdraw her consent over a specific thing- please let her be. That's her right. Nobody is allowed to take one's life for that. It's a gross manifestation of wickedness.
Our work at Ramatu Foundation for Girls' and Women's Empowerment Sierra is well known. Sidratu's empowerment was nurtured by us.
How i wish we have an orphanage home/a safe space to host all of our foundation girls as 70% of them are orphans. Girls don't just need educational support but they need to be under proper monitoring, professional development, robust mentorships, daily checks and spiritual covering, this is where EducAid Sierra Leone supported me many years ago. Miriam provided a safe boarding home and that's where my educational journey started.
In the foundation we teach, support, train and mentor our girls to fully aware of their rights & responsibilities, be self-reliant, take after us and stand up for themselves, make their dreams come to reality and empower their communities. To all girls, please leave immediately when the conversation is hot and tell a trusted person. Don't continue and don't challenge & don't ask questions, just leave. You can't advocate for your right when you are not alive.
Parenting, mentorship is tough. Well somehow, it's evidential that some of our teen girls don't adhere to advises but that shouldn't warrant their counterparts to do them harm, it's wrong and totally unacceptable. The culprits should be dealt with by the law properly.
Again, girls pay attention to details. If anyone threatens to kill you or do you any harm, please report and end that relationship. Don't be scared about people counting your "body counts" or how popular the relationship must have been- leave instantly. That's all about empowerment, knowing what is good for you and what you don't need at all.
Your teen stages, adolescent stages and early womanhood are meant for you to figure out "yourself "- your values, dreams & passion and to explore the world and make your dreams a reality. Do not settle down during these stages.
Ultimately, reach out to your parents, friends or mentors when you need help and ensure you recognise the opportunities around you and then grab them with your truest gut. Don't be secretive when faced with threatening remarks. Report!
Rest in peace to our foundation girl, Sidratu Bangura. May God's divine vengeance be on your killer and any evil conspirators. We hope the law will do what is right and we look forward to the outcome.
Fingers crossed for justice!
With a heavy heart,
Ramatu Foundation Team.
First Lady Fatima Maada Bio
Ministry of Gender and Children's Affairs-SL
Isata Mahoi
Isata Kabia
U.S. Embassy Freetown, Sierra Leone
Miriam Mason
Yayah Kargbo
Amadu Kamara
Regina Lumeh John Simbo