20/09/2025
I gave up s*x for over 1000 days and what happened shocked me 😳
If you told me in my 20’s that NOT doing the deed would give me more energy, focus, and peace than ever before, I would’ve laughed in your face 🤣
Back then, I bought into the lie that a “real man” should chase women, rack up a body count, and live the nightclub lifestyle. Celebrities preached it, the red pill movement glorified it and pop culture has honestly shoved it down our throats.
But let me be honest with you…this lifestyle left me completely empty.
While my friends were building healthy relationships, I was stuck on a hamster wheel of meaningless hookups, late nights, and wasted years. I thought I was “winning,” but in reality I was actually extremely lost.
Everything changed in late 2021. God opened my eyes to the destruction I was bringing into my own life. That day, I made a radical decision - no more hookups. No more chasing. I would WAIT for marriage, no matter how long it takes.
And yes, I am still waiting for marriage now 3.5 years later 🙏
You may ask was it easy? Not at all. I’m a man lol, so trust me when I say the temptations were real. But the transformation I saw in my life was completelyyyy undeniable.
In 100 days of abstinence, I became laser-focused on my career, my health, and my faith 🙏
My energy was crazy, I was focused on my purpose and I found peace finally :)
That “trial run” turned into a permanent lifestyle. Over 3 years later, I can honestly say I’ve never felt more alive, fulfilled, and strong.
Hookup culture is a lie. It promises freedom but delivers emptiness. Don’t fall for it.
If you’re young, please please learn from my mistakes!! Don’t waste your best years chasing meaningless encounters. Save yourself for the person you’ll truly love and build a life with 🙏❤️