02/03/2025
Sudden passing of talented singer-songwriter-musician-producer Khalil Fong 方大同 got me listening to his Oct 2024 album. Most importantly let's not wait till death or something serious happens then we start caring about our mental and emotional wellbeing.
Suggested starters:
1) Know what's bothering you, esp if recurring. It's time to do something about it.
2) Know which is your Heart and which is your Mind speaking. Listen to your Heart as it wants you to Grow while Mind casts doubts. I had a friend whose Heart wished to be home-baker but her Mind stopped her. Sadly she passed before she realised her dream so please take action!
3) Confide in someone you know can give you sound advice. We learn about ourselves as we speak and definitely feel better letting it out.
4) Everyone has our own story and challenges. Let's find ways to breakthrough and persevere. Avoid dwelling in negative emotions and get stuck.
5) Most importantly do not entertain negative thoughts. Acknowledge and let them pass. Esp thoughts like "feeling useless" and "why am I here", "world will be better without me" - all these are delusions!
So please go do things we know we should but have been putting off, really ticking off "bucket list", learn new things, do volunteer work, be of service to others, contact and meet people you care about - do what makes you truly happy ❤️ Know that there will always be folks who really love and care for you, just reach out to them anytime! I'm always here for you too 😊😺
Sharing with you this sophisticated "GF" (Godfather not Girlfriend) after Khalil watched The Godfather trilogy which he had been wanting to since young but only watched during COVID. While "Tango" was inspired after rewatching "Scent of a Woman", first track title actually this Shanghainese line "鞋子没坏,鞋带先坏” that sounds J*p. One's mental emotional and physical state greatly influence the melodies and lyrics - see if you can detect the dark overtones
Always been curious about Godfather hailed as one of the world's best films ever but doesn't seem appealing to me. Life exposes us to unexpected new experiences so just go with the flow and enjoy the ride! 😄
Provided to YouTube by FU MUSIC LIMITED / ADAGF · Khalil FongThe Dreamer℗ 2024 FU MUSIC LIMITEDProducer: 方大同Arranger: 方大同Composer: 方大同Lyricist: 方大同Auto-gener...