Nanyang Phua Clan 南洋潘氏总会

02/10/2026

A 2.5hrs meet up.

I linked Wyking Pots and Pan Lady boss to our Member Shiny Phua.

Wyking pots and pan lady boss is the lady in orange top, she's only in her late thirties but her business is expanded to overseas south east Asia countries and she is already a million dollar lady boss. She's humble yet capable.
Below is her wedsite address. She sells Pans (sounds like our Pan Surnames) LOL 😆
https://www.shopwyking.com/collections/all?page=3

Our member Shiny Phua, runs her own fnb store selling artisan made from hand, no artificial colourings Ang Gu Kuey, all her Ang Gu Kuey skins are all using natural food colourings, example from yellow, purple sweet potatoes.

I love her handmade muay chee and glutinous rice dish too.

Shiny phua is all over the news, being interviewed by many food bloggers. Shiny is a young talent. She has the passion.

https://www.ahmahslegacy.com/about-us

https://ieatishootipost.sg/ah-mahs-legacy-new-hope-for-muah-chee/

https://sgpnoodles.substack.com/p/2-inspiring-a-new-generation-of-singaporeans-3c2

https://cnalifestyle.channelnewsasia.com/8days/22-year-old-sells-authentic-ang-ku-kueh-muah-chee-pounded-wooden-stick-542926

https://www.straitstimes.com/life/food/can-heritage-food-be-hip-young-bosses-in-singapore-show-how

Look, CNA and The Straits time has featured her.

I arranged a meet up for both lady bosses.
My intention is hoping one day, if there's any chance, entrepreneurs of the same trade can collaborate or help one another.

Or I call it, related trades to help one another.

I hope good sparks may happen or a new friendship created.

Shiny Phua introduced a very yummy eating eatery called Marymount Bakehouse, food is delicious, authentic and our conversation was fun, nice and engaging, we get to understand one another's business.

When we understand one's another business, we become their salesman, that's when, the giver gains mindset comes in. We serve and help one another to build up one another business.

Shiny Phua's stall has relocated to a neighbourhood area at Sin Ming Road.

We will alert all , on her upcoming opening date so we can patronize her new store and give her our full support.

Meanwhile, I will continue, helping more members with business , to do the collaboration and networking connection from my own networks platform.

Your network is your networth.

I am here to serve.

Serving my members whom are entrepreneurs. The business networking shall fly to another level.
(Give time, time)
I am not superman. I am only a human.

Join us.

Bringing you to higher heights.

I still have members doing construction related business, jewelry business etc.

Drop me a PM if you are an entrepreneur, let me serve you. I try my best.

以下是全文的中文翻译：

一场2.5小时的聚会。

我把Wyking锅女老板介绍给了我们的会员Shiny Phua。

Wyking锅女老板是那位穿橙色上衣的女士，她才三十多岁，但她的事业已经扩展到东南亚海外国家，她已经是一位百万女老板。她谦虚又有能力。
以下是她的网站地址。她卖锅（听起来像我们的“潘”姓）哈哈😆
https://www.shopwyking.com/collections/all?page=3

我们的会员Shiny Phua经营自己的餐饮店，售卖手工制作、无人工色素的红龟粿，她所有的红龟粿皮都使用天然食用色素，例如来自黄色、紫色的番薯。

我也非常喜欢她手工制作的麻糍和糯米饭。

Shiny Phua经常上新闻，被许多美食博主采访。Shiny是一位年轻才俊。她充满热情。

https://www.ahmahslegacy.com/about-us

https://ieatishootipost.sg/ah-mahs-legacy-new-hope-for-muah-chee/

https://sgpnoodles.substack.com/p/2-inspiring-a-new-generation-of-singaporeans-3c2

https://cnalifestyle.channelnewsasia.com/8days/22-year-old-sells-authentic-ang-ku-kueh-muah-chee-pounded-wooden-stick-542926

https://www.straitstimes.com/life/food/can-heritage-food-be-hip-young-bosses-in-singapore-show-how

看，CNA和《The Straits Times》都报道过她。

我安排了这两位女老板的见面。
我的用意是希望有一天，如果有机会，同业企业家可以合作或互相帮助。

或者我称之为，相关行业互相帮助。

我希望能擦出好的火花，或者建立起新的友谊。

Shiny Phua介绍了一家非常好吃的餐厅——Marymount Bakehouse，食物美味、正宗，我们的谈话也有趣、愉快且投入，我们互相了解对方的业务。

当我们了解对方的业务后，我们就会成为对方的推销员，这时“给予者获利”的心态就出现了。我们互相服务、互相帮助，一起壮大对方的事业。

Shiny Phua的摊位已经搬迁到新民路附近的邻里区。

我们会通知大家她即将开业的日期，好让大家光顾她的新店，并给予她全力支持。

同时，我会继续帮助更多有生意的会员，从我自己的人脉平台进行合作与人脉对接。

你的人脉就是你的净资产。

我在这里服务。

服务我的企业家会员。商业人脉网络将飞向另一个层次。
（给时间，时间）
我不是超人。我只是个普通人。

加入我们。

带你走向更高的高度。

我还有会员做建筑相关生意、珠宝生意等等。

如果你是企业家，请私信我，让我为你服务。我会尽力的。

27/09/2026

As written in the previous post, today will be a blog on Givers Gain Mindset.

2 weeks ago, a friend messaged me, he said :"Vivian, let's go for a free Hainan food tasting event, organized by a reputable Chinese seafood restaurant at Boat Quay. Bring your Hainanese friends along."

I didn't need another minute, immediately I thought of our Mr 家海署理会长 and My another friend Frederick Puah, whom is the restaurant owner of British 🇬🇧 Hainan. Both of them bears the same surname as me, Pan.

I was so honoured, both of them, accept my invitation.

Despite a heavy rain today, both came. I was so delighted, it was like seeing 2 big brother figures getting together, to help and serve one another. Both of them are Hainanese and both of them have Strong; Positive Vibes in them. They are the Never say die warriors. I call them warriors because they fight the best battles, they refuse to give up, they know their worth and their values. A strong belief , a courageous mindset. They are my heros.

When I came to Nanyang Pan Clan Association, I observe how Mr 家海署理会长, raised questions and questioned in every meetings, he is always very brave and firm in his words. I see a strong leader in him. Everyone respects him, including me.

Mr Frederick is always very full of positive energies, he is a great chef, you must try his Hainanese food, it's filled with delightful old school flavours, that childhood dish, every child loves, that taste of what my late grandma cooked. Every plate is done and served from his heart. From his food, you can feel his sincerity.

At todays' 5 round tables gathering, I also got to meet
•celebrity chefs,
•few Chinese association chairmans,
•Chairman of Singapore Hongkong international restaurant trade friendship association chairman &
•Ku So F&B Association Chairman,
•Singapore Lam Ann Association Vice president, •Lion club chairwoman and many other bosses from many trades.

Yes, all the 5 round tables participants are all business owners, 70% of them owns business both in China and in Singapore.

We exchanged numbers and I call such a business networking event.

In today's era, Business networking is a norm. The biggest networking platform is BNI. But some nerds call BNI a cult which is totally too judgemental. I am unable to change anyone's mindset if they aren't looking at abundance and if they suffer from disability in understanding what the modern world is doing.

With proven track records, any clan association that has a business networking platform attracts and retains the most new and young members. The key is how to retain new members not just by adding more and more unrealistic numbers.

I look at proven results from statistics.
I learn from the successful.

An association needs a proper good basic structure too, before it wants to scale.

It works the same for any company or new set up.

A leader don't just lead, he needs to serve and understand every members. How to help every member improve in their life , lifestyles, mindset, how they think, and if their family are well.

A leader is one only when he serves someone, who can never do anything for him. I call this real humanity.

A leader must also be a good coach, makes decisions independently, builds trust and engagement, works with highly skilled, self directed teams, inspires through clear long term vision, effective for change and innovation.

Focus on long term development and feedbacks.

A leader must also prioritize harmony and relationships. Morale building. Be strong in commanding , drives innovation and continous improvements. Motivates through growth and purpose.

A leader needs to emphasize empathy and support. A leader needs to get rules up strictly.

What is allow is allow, what is not allow is not allow.

It takes a good team to be a team. That's no team if disputes and gossips exist.
Ialso takes efforts to remove negativities , gossips, and unnecessary disprutions caused by humans.

Every successful organization, company, association has a conflict, dispute and compliance team.

I look forward to see Nanyang Pan Clan grow in the right direction. Thus one day, my granduncles and all the old members can be so proud of this association because they are my people, my family, my soul.

I love this association with all my heart.

以下是全文的中文翻译：

正如上一篇文章所写，今天要分享的是关于“给予者获益”心态。

两周前，一位朋友发消息给我，他说：“Vivian，我们一起去参加一个免费的海南美食试吃活动吧，由一家位于驳船码头的知名中式海鲜餐厅举办。带上你的海南朋友一起来。”

我没有多想一分钟，立刻想到了我们的家海署理会长，以及另一位朋友Frederick Puah（潘），他是British 🇬🇧 Hainan餐厅的老板。他们两位都和我同姓潘。

我感到非常荣幸，他们两位都接受了我的邀请。

尽管今天下着大雨，他们两位都来了。我非常高兴，就像看到两位大哥级人物聚在一起，互相帮助、互相服务。他们两位都是海南人，身上都散发着强烈的正面能量。他们是永不言败的战士。我称他们为战士，是因为他们打的是最好的仗，他们拒绝放弃，他们知道自己的价值和价值观。拥有坚定的信念和勇敢的心态。他们是我的英雄。

当我来到南洋潘氏公会时，我观察到家海署理会长在每次会议上如何提出问题并勇于质疑，他的话语总是非常勇敢且坚定。我在他身上看到了一位强大的领导者。每个人都尊重他，包括我。

Frederick先生总是充满正能量，他是一位出色的厨师，你一定要尝尝他的海南菜，充满令人愉悦的复古风味，那是童年时的菜肴，每个孩子都喜欢的味道，就像我已故祖母所煮的味道。每一盘菜都是用心制作和端上的。从他的食物中，你能感受到他的真诚。

在今天的五桌聚会中，我还见到了几位明星厨师、几位华人社团的会长、新加坡香港国际餐饮贸易友好协会会长兼新加坡客属饮食业公会会长、新加坡南安会馆副会长、狮子会女会长，以及许多来自各行各业的老板。

是的，今天五桌圆桌的参与者都是企业老板，其中70%的人在中国和新加坡都拥有生意。

我们交换了联系方式，我把这样的场合称为商业人脉交流活动。

在当今时代，商业人脉交流已是常态。最大的人脉平台是BNI。但有些书呆子称BNI为邪教，这完全太过主观武断。如果他们不懂得用丰盛的心态去看待事物，如果他们在理解现代世界运作方式上存在障碍，我无法改变任何人的想法。

有了经过验证的记录，任何拥有商业人脉平台的宗亲会都能吸引并留住最多新会员和年轻会员。关键在于如何留住新会员，而不仅仅是不断增加不切实际的数字。

我看的是来自统计数据的实际成果。我向成功者学习。

一个协会需要有完善的良好基本架构，然后才能谈扩张。

这对任何公司或新成立的组织来说都是一样的。

领导者不只是领导。他需要服务并了解每一位会员。如何帮助每一位会员改善生活、生活方式、心态、思维方式，以及他们的家庭是否安好。

只有当一个人去服务那些永远无法为他做什么的人时，他才是真正的领导者。我称之为真正的人性。

领导者还必须是一位优秀的教练，能独立做决策，建立信任和参与感，与高技能、自我导向的团队合作，通过清晰的长期愿景来激励他人，有效推动变革与创新。专注于长期发展和反馈。建立能力和自信。

领导者也必须优先重视和谐与人际关系。建立士气。在指挥上要强势，推动创新和持续改进。通过成长与目标来激励他人。

领导者需要强调同理心与支持。领导者也需要严格制定规则。

允许的就允许，不允许的就不允许。

一个好团队需要大家共同努力才能成为团队。也需要付出努力去消除负面情绪、闲言碎语，以及人类所造成的不必要干扰。

每一个成功的组织、公司、协会都有纠纷与合规团队。

我期待看到南洋潘氏公会朝正确的方向发展。有一天，我的叔公们和所有老会员都能为这个协会感到无比骄傲，因为他们是我的人、我的家人、我的灵魂。

我全心全意地爱着这个协会。

25/09/2026

祝大家团团圆圆
中秋节快乐 , 健康如意

21/09/2026

When feelings are hidden, when feelings are pure. When hatred is raw, when wounds have turned into scars. The most broken heart remains wounded.

I am that grand daughter, whom want to know her late faternal grandfather.

The first paragraph wasn't talking about me, it was my Dad.

Dad had never mentioned anything about my grandfather to me; never a photo, never a word of him. When I ask, Dad would be angry.

At the age of 35, I decided. I want to know, what is my late grandfather as a person; how do people view him as.

I googled Pan, and google brings me to Nanyang Pan Clan Association wedsite. I saw a contact number and I called. A soft voice of a man answered my call.

Me :"Hi; is this for the surname Pan people?"

The voice :"Yes, come and visit. When are you free?"

I decided on the date of visit. When I reach 35 cuff road , the association, a man in his 80s welcomed me. I went up the association place. And I joined their ongoing meeting. I find the uncles easy to chat with and they have no airs. They aren't proud. They don't wear expensive watches, they don't drive big cars. I like these normalities.

I think; I was one of the first lady to join this Association. When I joined, there's wasn't any female members. But they made me felt like at home.

At that time, there was only less than 10 members at their association meeting.

My intention was actually to see if anyone knows my late grandfather.

It was only after many months, at a sudden moment, after a meeting ends. I showed a video in my mobile phone of my late grandmother, at that time, she hasn't passed away. Upon showing this video to the 80s man whom received me during my first visit. He suddenly jumped and shouted :"This is my eldest brother's wife! Vivian, how are you related to her!"

At that moment, my eyes were all teary, I controlled my tears. I think I found my Granduncle.

Everyone in the association room was shocked too. They finally asked:" What's your father's name?"

And they were like, they know my family, my uncles, my aunts , my grandparents. Little did I realise, my kampung people are here at the association.

Buy 4D also not so accurate. Buy Toto also not so accurate. It was so shocking. But it was such a happy joy.
I found my people!

They slowly explained to me, who was my late grandfather, although I was left with disappointment as he took o***m. He's still my late faternal grandfather. No one man is perfect. Everyone has flaws. One man's meat is another man's poison.

On August 30 2024, I told my Dad , I want to visit one of my Granduncle, whom received the long service award 2 years ago. He's a man with good character and many respects him. But he didn't have a good life.

I saw my dad's eyes, Dad looks at him with high respect at his home. I took photos of them I also took photos with them. These are all good memories. My mother, has never seen my late faternal grandfather before, let alone me.

For my maternal grandfather, he passed away when I was 4 years old.

I live a life, without feeling the love from a grandfather.

But I didn't give up.
I saw my 2 Granduncles instead.

As dad and I went back home. In dad's car 🚗, I asked dad :"Why didn't you tell me about grandfather?"

Dad replied:" I don't like him, he didn't take care of the family."

I replied :"If you still continue hating him when he's already gone, you are only hurting yourself. You are suffering from all these hatred."

Dad went quiet, he was thinking hard.

As a Counsellor myself, I deals with healing people with childhood trauma , anxiety disorders, divorce depression , sudden death trauma and relationship issues. In a way, I have removed 20% of the hatred my dad has in him and the rest, takes time. Time will heal.

But from Dad, and from late Grandfather, I found Nanyang Pan Clan association.

It was same like what Association Chairman posted in our watsapp group chat. A poster which wrote :"Come and find your roots, we are Pan, remember to return home to find your roots."

Chairman also gave me the inspiration content to write my story why I joined Nanyang Pan Clan Association.

Because it takes a village to raise a child and it takes a village to share the best growing up moments.

Everything happens for a good reason.
And the reason was never told, but it all happens for the good. Some external energies can be felt but remains anonymous.

At this Association, I met alot capable and good people. That's famous people at this clan too. There's people whom have appeared on newspapers like The Straits times and Lian He Zao Bao (Both the big English and Chinese papers).

I learnt from the capable members.
They taught me, how to ask questions at the meeting table.

Stay tune
For this Sunday's post.
I will share more on Givers Gain mindset and also a get together , round table meal with a group of capable business men and women. The people with Grit, resilience and passion. Our secret to success begins with a strong mindset and a big heart.

If you like what I wrote, please click like and share 😀

当感情被隐藏，当感情是纯真的。当仇恨是原始，当伤口已变成疤痕。最破碎的心依然受伤。

我是那个想要认识已故祖父的孙女。

第一段说的不是我，而是我爸爸。

爸爸从来没有向我提起过祖父的任何事；没有照片，也没有一句话。每当我问起，爸爸就会生气。

到了35岁，我做了决定。我想知道，我已故的祖父是怎样的一个人；人们是如何看待他的。

我搜索“潘”, google 把我带到了南洋潘氏总会的网站。我看到一个联络电话，就打了过去。一位男士用柔和的声音接听了我的电话。

我：“你好，这里是姓潘的人的协会吗？”

对方：“是的，来参观吧。你什么时候有空？”

我决定了日期。当我到达加夫路35号的协会时，一位80多岁的男士欢迎了我。我到协会的地方，加入了他们的会议。我觉得这些叔叔们很好聊，他们没有架子。他们不骄傲。他们不戴昂贵的手表，也不开大车。我喜欢这种平凡。

我想，我是第一位加入这个协会的女性。当我加入时，还没有任何女性会员。但他们让我感觉像在家里一样。

当时，协会会议上的会员不到10人。

我的真正目的其实是想看看有没有人认识我已故的祖父。

过了好几个月后，在一个突然的时刻，会议结束后。我用手机播放了一段已故祖母的视频（当时她还没有过世）。当我把这段视频展示给那位第一次接待我的80多岁男士时，他突然跳起来大喊：“这是我大哥的妻子！Vivian，你跟她有什么关系！”

那一刻，我的眼睛全是泪水，我忍住了眼泪。我想我找到了叔公。

协会房间里的每个人也都很震惊。他们问：“你爸爸叫什么名字？”

然后他们好像都认识我的家人、我的叔叔、祖父母。我一点也没意识到，我的甘榜人就在这个协会里。

买4D也没这么准，买Toto也没这么准。真的太震惊了。但那是一种多么快乐的喜悦。
我找到了我的人！

他们慢慢向我解释，我已故的祖父是怎样的人，虽然我有些失望，因为他抽鸦片。但他仍然是我已故的祖父。没有人是完美的。每个人都有缺点。

2024年8月30日，我告诉爸爸，我想去拜访一位叔公，他两年前获得了长期服务奖。他是个品格很好的人，很多人都尊敬他。但他的生活并不顺.

我看到爸爸的眼睛，爸爸在他家中用很高的敬意看着他。我拍了他们的照片，也和他们合影。这些都是美好的回忆。我妈妈从未见过我已故的祖父，更别说我了。

至于我的外祖父，他在我4岁时就去世了。

我过着没有感受过祖父爱的生活。

但我没有放弃。
我反而见到了两位叔公。

爸爸和我回家时，在爸爸的车里，我问爸爸：“为什么你从不告诉我关于祖父的事？”

爸爸回答：“我不喜欢他，他没有照顾家庭。”

我回答：“他已经不在了，你还继续恨他，你只是在伤害自己。你正承受着这些仇恨的痛苦。”

爸爸沉默了，他在认真思考。

作为一名辅导员，我处理童年创伤、焦虑症、离婚抑郁、突然死亡创伤和关系问题的人。在某种程度上，我已经消除了爸爸心中20%的仇恨，剩下的需要时间。时间会治愈一切。

但从爸爸，以及已故的祖父那里，我找到了南洋潘氏总会。

就像协会主席在我们WhatsApp群组里贴的海报一样，海报上写着：“来寻找你的根吧，我们是潘氏，记得回家寻根。”

主席也给了我灵感，让我写下为什么加入南洋潘氏总会的故事。

因为养育一个孩子需要整个村庄，分享最好的成长时刻也需要整个村庄。

每件事的发生都有它美好的理由。
而那个理由从未被说出，但一切都是为了好。有些外在的能量可以被感觉到，却始终保持匿名。

在这个协会里，我认识了很多有能力和善良的人。这里也有著名的潘氏人物。有些人曾出现在《海峡时报》和《联合早报》（英文和中文两大报纸）上。

我从这些有能力的会员身上学习。
他们教会我，如何在会议桌上提出问题。

下一篇文章将在本周日（27日）发布，敬请期待.

我将写关于……

给予者获益心态 / 付出者收获的思维模式

和一群有能力的商人、女企业家的聚餐、圆桌饭局。那些有 Grit、韧性的人。我们成功的秘诀始于强大的心态和宽广的心胸。

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19/09/2026

中秋节

月圆中秋夜，
灯笼照天涯。
月饼香满堂，
宗亲聚一家。

狮城华人聚，
情深似月华。
共赏团圆景，
福泽满中华。

愿月共此时，
安康永无涯。
宗谊长长久，
岁岁庆中秋。

A yearly gathering.

I recalled 2 years ago; we also did the same gathering. Simple yet cosy.

Let me share 2 years ago and 2 years later now.
The first 4 photos are 2 years ago. The rest are today's.

The similarity is the simplicity.
The difference is the difference faces.

At any places, people come and go. I do miss some old faces. But at any stages of life, we all have to accept losses and gains. No one place is perfect, and no human being can be perfect too.

A time to gather is a time to eat, to have fun, to laugh.

Today's Mooncake festival is organized by Woman Group. The first event by woman group. A great start.

We are also honoured to have new members joining us today.

When time is short and everyday waking up is a day lesser, let's treasure any moments because life is short. We only live once.

In Singapore, many clans are facing the difficulties of recruiting young members, but there are some clans that have succeeded and those whom succeeded is those whom accept business networking. But how does it work?

It works by the Giver Gains logic.
It works by a well structured plan.
It works when that's Grit, respect and a givers heart. To serve is the key.

I will share more; in the next few posts, stay tune.

一场一年一度的聚会。

我想起两年前，我们也举办了同样的聚会。简单却温馨。

让我分享一下两年前和两年后的今天。
前4张照片是两年前的，其余是今天的。

相似之处在于那份简单。
不同之处在于面孔的变化。

无论在哪里，人来人往。我确实会怀念一些旧面孔。但在人生的每个阶段，我们都必须接受得失。没有一个地方是完美的，也没有人是完美的。

聚会的时光，是一起吃饭、玩乐、欢笑的时光。

今天的中秋（月饼）节活动由妇女组主办。这是妇女组的第一次活动，是一个很好的开始。

我们也有幸迎来新会员的加入。

时间有限，每天醒来就少一天，让我们珍惜每一个时刻，因为人生短暂。我们只活一次。

在新加坡，许多会馆都面临难以吸引年轻会员的困境，但也有一些会馆成功了。那些成功的会馆，往往接受并融入商业人脉网络。但这是如何运作的呢？

它靠的是“给予者获益”的逻辑。
它靠的是完善的结构规划。
它靠的是毅力、尊重和一颗给予者的心。服务，是关键。

我会在接下来的几篇帖子中分享更多，敬请期待。

16/08/2026

Seventh Moon Offerings at the Nanyang Phua Clan Hall

In the seventh month, the gates stand wide,
lanterns light soft on ancestral tablets.

Incense curls like quiet breath toward heaven,
paper offerings fold into the waiting fire.

At the clan association the old names gather—
same blood, same soil, same long-remembered faces.

We set the fruits, the rice, the tea,
and call them home across the thinning veil.
No loud lament, only measured bows,
the soft strike of wood, the steady chant.
Grandfathers, grandmothers, uncles, aunts—
receive these gifts; walk among us awhile.

When the ashes cool and the smoke thins,
we leave the hall with lighter hearts.

The seventh moon will close its doors again,
but the clan remembers, and the living keep faith.

七月祭祖于宗亲会七月门开宽又阔，
灯笼柔光照神位。
香烟袅袅如轻息，
纸钱折叠入火堆。宗亲会里旧名聚，
同血同土同容颜。
摆上鲜果米与茶，
隔着薄纱唤归家。无声哭号只鞠躬，
木鱼轻敲唱声稳。
祖父祖母叔与姑，
受此祭品暂同行。灰冷烟消离会馆，
心中轻盈出门去。
七月门再渐渐关，
宗亲永记后人续。

19/07/2026

03/06/2026

主席亲自写鼓励之词 : 为你的生活增添新色彩

南洋潘氏总会
家和万事兴
团结和谐，我们就能取得更大的成就。

Nanyang Pan Clan Association

Harmony in the family brings prosperity in all things.

Unity and harmony —> Together we can achieve greater success.

31/05/2026

祝愿大家身体健康、平安喜乐、智慧充沛、事业成功
家庭和睦，繁荣昌盛

家和万事兴

卫塞节，不只是祝福，
也是提醒我们：
把慈悲放在心里，
把爱传给身边的人。
一个微笑，
一句温柔的话，
一次善意的选择，
都可能成为别人生命里的一束光。

愿这个世界，
因为我们多一点爱，
也多一点温暖。

29/05/2026

I remembered, when I was a little girl, my father is the sole breadwinner, my mum is a housewife. Papa, will invest his children in art classes and music classes.

I recalled when I was in kindergarten, age 6 years old. Papa enrolled me into art class. In my happy childhood memories, my art teacher was kind and patience. She will show an art piece and guide us to draw base on what we see. But teacher gives us alot personal space, freedom and allow our creativity to run wild.

I always return home happy because art classes were like a way, to find back ourselves, our inner child, that realness, that calmness.

Thus, I decided to do something different this time. Up the challenge but still following what teacher taught and passed down, that positive and good energy vibe.

We use leftover wall paints to create our art pieces.

A day, a few of us gather. We help one another, to protect the place using huge plastic protection coverings.

We shared the different colours of paints. We look out for one another, if one can't find the paint colour, we want.

There was totally no right and wrong on what we want to draw. No one control, no one give commands.

We are free, we have the freedom to create the Art piece, we hope to achieve. Our mind and heart feel easy and it was therapeutic.

Like a child, we drew.

The children also become more confident when their art works are being encouraged and praised.

It wasn't a time of comparison, it wasn't a time of pushing. It was a time, to slow down and breathe.

The room and space was filled with laughters, encouragements, joys and it was non judgemental.

Our art pieces represent us, in a way, maybe, maybe not. I shouldn't judge.

Thank you for a space, where there's tables and chairs to allow us to conduct and start our art classes.

We will try to do this, Every quarterly calendar or when anyone wants to draw.

We welcome, anyone, to bring your children, grandchildren, friends to join us too. The door is open.

我记得，当我还是个小女孩的时候，爸爸是家里唯一的经济支柱，妈妈是家庭主妇。爸爸很舍得投资，让孩子们去上艺术课和音乐课。

我回忆起自己在幼儿园的时候，那年6岁。爸爸给我报名参加了艺术班。

在我快乐的童年记忆里，我的艺术老师非常善良又有耐心。她会先展示一件艺术作品，然后引导我们根据所看到的东西来绘画。但老师给了我们很多个人空间、自由，并允许我们的创造力尽情发挥。我每次上完课回家都很快乐，因为艺术课就像一种方式，让我们找回自己、找回内心的孩子、找回那份真实与平静。

因此，这次我决定做一些不一样的事。我接受了挑战，但依然遵循老师当年教导和传承下来的那种积极、正面的能量氛围。我们用剩余的墙漆来创作我们的艺术作品。

有一天，我们几个人聚集在一起，互相帮忙，用巨大的塑料保护罩把场地保护好。我们一起分享各种颜色的颜料。

如果有人找不到自己想要的颜色，大家都会互相留意、互相帮忙。在这里，画什么完全没有对错之分。没有人控制，也没有人发号施令。

我们是自由的，我们可以自由地创作自己希望完成的艺术作品。心灵感到轻松自在，非常疗愈。我们就像孩子一样画画。当孩子们的作品受到鼓励和赞扬时，他们也会变得更加自信。

这不是一个比较的时刻，也不是一个强迫前进的时刻，而是一个慢下来、好好呼吸的时刻。整个房间和空间都充满了笑声、鼓励、喜悦，而且完全不带评判。

我们的艺术作品在某种程度上代表着我们，也许是，也许不是。我不应该去评判。

感谢您提供了一个空间，里面有桌子和椅子，让我们能够顺利开展和进行艺术课。

我们会尝试每个季度都举办一次，或者只要有人想画画，我们就组织。

我们欢迎任何人带您的孩子、孙辈、朋友一起来加入我们。门是敞开的。