23/01/2025
This text by Dr Shefali Tsabury spoke so loudly to me, inspired me. It is long but please read to the end- it is beautiful and poignant!
I dedicate this text to my Sovereignty. "There comes a time in the life of a woman when she discards her old ways like tossed shoes in the garbage. When she shreds her list of 'shoulds' and obligations, and when impossible expectations are burned in an incinerator.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when the approval of others, once jewels, now turn to pennies in her sock.
When the hunt for another is now replaced by a hunt for herself
And when parental tentacles of tradition no longer define her children.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when her desire to fit in with the crowd dissolves, when her manic compulsion to be perfect vaporizes, when her obsessions of being voted popular eviscerates.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when she simply says- no more.
When facade, artifice and guile leave her nauseated, and when righteousness, dogma, and superiority repulse her.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when she no longer fears conflict, but faces it boldly like a lioness, when she guards her authenticity as fearlessly as she guides her babies.
And when she drops the role of savior, knowing she can only save herself.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when she no longer cowers in the shadows of her unworthiness. When she no longer plays small so others can feel big. When she swaps the role of victim for the role of co-creator.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when she unabashedly and boldly occupies her ultimate sovereignty. When she finally feels ready to claim her space in the world. When she redefines compassion as unequivocal self love.
There comes a time in the life of a woman when she finally releases her childlike dependency on others. When she dares to rewrite a new mandate of living for herself. One that says, I release unworthiness and fear. I divorce servility and passivity. I divest inauthenticity and enmeshment.
I end the pretense of being someone I am not, and from now on I declare I will ascend into my highest power
I will embrace my great autonomy.
I will celebrate my deepest worth.
I will embody my fiercest courage, and manifest the most authentic me
That time is now- I'm ready to awaken into my Renaissance
-Dr Shefali Tsabury "Radical Awakening"
What does this text wake in you?
It wakes in me my Wild Wise Women, my Brave, Badass Shero, demanding I show up, not just for myself but for my daughters and sisters and mothers and brothers. For our world.
A mantra for my future self! xo
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