12/09/2026
In light of the recent incident involving harassment of a Filipina traveler by a group of elderly Filipino tourists in Switzerland, it shows the negative side of Toxic Filipino Values of Filial Piety and Utang na Loob.
Filial Piety, by definition, is a social norm on which we give reverence and deep respect towards our elders. This is one of the aspects of Confucian Ethics in Traditional Chinese Culture, but it is also deeply ingrained in the Filipino Psyche. [1] [2] It is also construed to be associated with other Toxic Filipino Values like Pakikisama and Utang na Loob (Debt of Gratitude) [3] [4]
We Filipinos are, by nature, respectful to our Elders, that is sometimes blurring the lines between blind worship and violating self-respect. That, we just have to endure the mockery out of respect to the elders and just to get along in the name of peace of mind.
In this instance, the elderly tourists heckled and harangued the Filipina traveler while she is taking pictures with the iconic tourist spot because the elders find it “entertaining” to pass the time waiting for their turn in the tourist spot. Some of the elders complained that the Filipina traveler took too long and is “inconsiderate” when in fact, harassing the Female traveler makes them the inconsiderate ones, what a plot twist right?
The behaviors and actions of the elderly Filipino travelers are inexcusable, cannot be tolerated, and is not representative of the Filipino as a nation. We respect our elders, yes, but their age does not give them a license, a pass, or an excuse to do harm or to abuse a person. Respect begets respect, we must be empathetic of the people around us, we might not know what they came from or what they have been through to reach that point in their lives.
We must eradicate these toxic Filipino traits into our psyche, not just through words, but through conviction and action if we are so deserving of a prosperous and strong nation and society. These leeches may benefit to the system that they created (and exploited), BUT TOMORROW BELONGS TO US! WE ARE THE FUTURE OF THE NATION! Sapagkat tunay na ang