26/02/2024
Emotional Somersault: The Danger Of Forcing Love
✍🏼 It is emotionally very poisonous, dangerous or disastrous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth.💔
✍🏼 A man or woman who does not love you during courtship will find it difficult to cherish you after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. If you have chose to love the her or him and forsake all others, then he or she should do the.same. Don't force yourself on anyone.💔
✍🏼 Don't keep fighting for or to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan his or hers with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option. 💔
✍🏼 Trust me, it’s a waste of time and emotional energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because there are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you! 💔
✍🏼 Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favour by being in a relationship with you?💔
You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.💔
✍🏼 You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honoured and not tolerated no matter what the person has done or is doing for you. It is a love affair not contribution. But until you let go of the wrong person in your life, you will not see the right person for your life.💔
Sometimes, we may love the wrong person, and cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is certain, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people's life and act accordingly. It's not pride, it is self-respect which is the cure for emotional somersault in a relationship 💔✍🏼❤❤❤
For mature minds only.
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