21/08/2026
Fathers are not “helping” with their children. They are parenting.
When a father takes the children to school, prepares a meal, attends a school meeting, stays home with a sick child, or handles bedtime, he isn't helping the mother.
He is sharing responsibility for his family.
The language we use matters because it reflects how we understand care.
When caregiving is seen as primarily a woman's responsibility, a father's involvement becomes “help.”
But when care is understood as a shared responsibility, both parents have a role to play.
And that shared responsibility can make a real difference in whether women are able to remain, grow and thrive in the workforce.
What would change if we stopped talking about fathers “helping” and started talking about fathers parenting?
This is one of the conversations we'll be having at WIEConf 2026.
24 October | Port Harcourt, Rivers State.