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12/01/2026

Dear ,

I write this letter with a deep sense of concern and responsibility, not as an adversary, but as a fellow Nigerian who values life, dignity, and the influence that public figures wield in our society.

Recently, I came across a video in which you made light of a TikTok streamer, , in relation to a situation that touched dangerously close to suicidal ideation. Let me state clearly and without ambiguity: anything that promotes, trivializes, or caricatures suicide—directly or indirectly—must be condemned in the strongest terms. Su***de is not comedy. Mental and emotional struggles are not punchlines.

Secondly, making a caricature of such a sensitive matter is uncalled for. Comedy has power, and when misapplied, that same power can wound deeply. What may appear as “content” to millions can become a trigger to someone already battling silently. In a nation already grappling with depression, hopelessness, and rising mental health challenges, we must be extremely careful what we normalize through humor.

Thirdly, considering Peller’s age, he could easily be your son, younger brother, or someone close to you. If the roles were reversed, I am confident the perspective would be different. Wisdom demands that age, experience, and influence should guide us to protect the vulnerable—not expose them to ridicule.

There are some things we must never turn into jokes. Life is sacred. Emotional pain is real. Influence comes with accountability. As a respected comedian and public figure, many look up to you—not just to laugh, but to learn what is acceptable in public discourse.

This letter is not written in hatred, but in hope—that we all, especially those with large platforms, will choose empathy over entertainment, and responsibility over relevance.

I trust that you will reflect on this and use your voice, going forward, to heal rather than hurt.

Yours sincerely,
Owonibi Adeniyi Praise
Pastor & Concerned Nigerian

20/08/2025

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in Its Nature Is Pure, Not Bitter

Truth is a divine reality, rooted in God Himself (John 14:6 – “I am the way, the truth, and the life”). Since God is light and perfect, truth cannot carry bitterness—it is inherently pure, liberating, and life-giving (John 8:32 – “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free”).

Do People Call Truth Bitter?

The perception of bitterness arises not from truth itself, but from the heart receiving it.

When truth exposes sin, pride, or deception, it stings the ego.

When truth confronts denial or comfort zones, it feels like a wound before it becomes healing.

So, the “bitterness” is not in the truth but in the resistance of the human heart that is unwilling to accept correction or change.

Brings Healing, Not Poison

What some call “bitter” is actually the process of healing. Just as medicine may taste unpleasant but cures the disease, truth may confront harsh realities but leads to restoration. Bitterness belongs to lies, deception, and bondage—not truth.

as Sweetness and Light

In Scripture, truth is compared to sweetness and nourishment:

Psalm 119:103 – “How sweet are Your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth!”

Proverbs 24:13–14 – “Eat honey, my son, for it is good… know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul.”

This shows that truth, when received with a humble heart, is not bitter but sweet and life-giving.

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Self-Worth Before Relationship Worth

Building identity in Christ before seeking validation from others.

Key Scripture: Psalm 139:14; 1 Peter 2:9

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Truth about Relationships: “He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20, NIV).

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Straight from the Heart ❤️

Identity first, relationship second — Know who you are in Christ before committing to someone else. (Psalm 139:14)

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