Safe Haven Family Violence intervention.

03/09/2025

Domestic violence is a multifaceted issue that encompasses various forms of abuse, including physical, verbal, psychological, emotional, and spiritual abuse. This phenomenon is not limited to intimate relationships but can also occur among individuals residing within the same household, including children, siblings, domestic workers, grandparents, and other household members. It is essential to recognize the distinction between love and abuse, as love is often exploited as a means to manipulate and abuse others. For instance, a man who assaults his wife due to a conversation with an acquaintance may claim that his actions were motivated by love and jealousy. Similarly, a woman who verbally humiliates her husband may justify her behavior as an expression of love. Moreover, parents who physically abuse their children often rationalize their actions as a necessary measure to prevent their children from straying. Therefore, it is crucial to distinguish between abuse, love, and manipulation and remain vigilant for signs of abuse.

Bilikis Folake Sojinrin Kazeem
Advocate for Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault

30/08/2025

Stalking is creepy AND dangerous! Many stalkers are violent to their victims and others.

30/08/2025

Stalking is a psychological abuse

Too often, stalking is minimized or trivialized -- especially when the stalker primarily uses technology. Technology-facilitated stalking is often just as "real" -- and as terrifying -- as in-person tactics.

30/08/2025

PARENTS PLEASE BEWARE!!!!

As parents, we should be very careful about leaving our kids with people . There are many pe*****le living within us.

Listen to your kids whenever they are complaining about a certain adult or older kids. Do not disregard any of their complaints as mere kid's talk.

Do your investigations very well whenever you notice a sudden change in their attitude or mood, especially towards someone they were friendly with.

Do not let your children, especially the females, sit on anybody's lap.🤚 Stop calling people your kid's husband or wife it's inappropriate.

✋️ Stop sending your kids to beg for goodies from anyone. You are exposing them to abuse and dangers. Teach your kids about appropriate and inappropriate touching and relationships no matter what the gender of the opposite party might be.

Be the Safe Haven to your children, talk to them, and educate them about child and s*x abuse .
Teach them about boundaries .
It's never too early nor too late to talk them. The earlier, the better!

Bilikis Folake Sojinrin Kazeem
Advocate for Sexual assault and domestic violence .

17/05/2025

Safe Haven Family Violence Intervention is a nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting victims of domestic and family violence. Our mission is to provide a safe, compassionate space where individuals can begin healing, reclaim their strength, and rebuild their lives.

We serve men, women, adolescents, married couples, and individuals in dating relationships—offering resources, advocacy, and intervention programs tailored to each unique journey. More than just crisis support, we believe in restoration. Our goal is not only to protect, but also to help families find hope, healing, and—when possible—healthy reconciliation.

At Safe Haven, we believe everyone deserves to feel safe, valued, and heard. You're not alone. We're here to walk with you.