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The Widow's Might This is a page that celebrates the Widows' strength and successes than the pains and dejection.

We believe that there is the Might( God) ready at each point of her journey willing to help her become all that He has created her to be despite her loss.

LETTER TO A WIDOWTo every Widow reading this:I wrote this to let you know that there is nothing that is new under the ...
20/08/2026

LETTER TO A WIDOW

To every Widow reading this:
I wrote this to let you know that there is nothing that is new under the Sun and because I have been there and still walking on the journey.

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I see you.

I see the mornings that feel too quiet.
I see the chair that’s now empty.
I see you pretending to be "strong" for the children, for the family, for church... while your own heart is breaking in secret.

I’ve been there.
In my early days as a widow, the fear was loud and questions were many .

Who will provide?

Who will protect us?

Will I be forgotten?

Will my children be okay?

I asked God,

“Who will stand with me?

"Who will see me?”

And God answered me, not with people first but with Himself:

"I AM THE HUSBAND TO THE WIDOW AND A FATHER TO THE FATHERLESS"
Psalm 68:5

DO NOT FEAR, FOR I HAVE REDEEMED YOU Isaiah 43:1

He became my strength when I had none left.
He became my provider when the accounts looked dry.
He became my defender in rooms where I had no voice.
He became my peace at 2am when anxiety tried to swallow me.

Sister, widowhood did not catch God by surprise.
He sees you: Exodus 22:22-23

He fights for you: Deut 10:18

He will carry you. _Isaiah 46:4

Your story is not over.
God is writing a new chapter, one of restoration, dignity, and joy.

You are not walking this road alone.
The Prince of Peace is with you.

You've got the power

I love you
MamaReg

How do you feel today?.Let's show you love as you drop your comment.





20/08/2026

Celebrating my 8th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

DAY 2: Healing the Heart( VOICE & IDENTITY) Topic: "Your Voice Didn't Die With Him: How To Speak Again After Loss"Siste...
05/08/2026

DAY 2: Healing the Heart
( VOICE & IDENTITY)

Topic: "Your Voice Didn't Die With Him: How To Speak Again After Loss"

Sister, can I ask you something? 🤍

When was the last time you said what was really on your heart out loud?

After loss, many of us go quiet, not because we have nothing to say, but because we’re scared. Scared of judgment, scared of "what will people say" and or scared that if we speak, the pain will be too loud.

That’s what psychologists call "Muted Grief Syndrome" a situation when grief teaches us to shrink so we don’t attract attention.

Reality is that silence feels safe but it keeps us stuck.

So, hear what God says, something different!

Taking the B part of this scripture what Mordecai said to Esther “For such a time as this...” in Esther 4:14
Esther almost stayed silent too but God reminded her: through her Uncle paraphrasing it, your voice has an assignment.

Let me make you understand this, even as a widow, your voice didn’t die with your hubby at his death . God still has things only YOU can say.

You don’t have to preach to a crowd. You just have to start speaking again.
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3 ways to use your voice from now onward:

1. Pray out loud - Even if it’s a whisper in your room.
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted" Psalm 34:18.

2. Set a Boundary:
E.G
“I won’t accept that comment.”
“I need rest today.”
That is how to use your voice to protect your peace.

3. Carefully share your story: - Tell one person, “This is how I’m really doing.” Healing starts when we stop hiding.

Don't ever forget that your story matters, your opinion matters and YOU matter.

Now, let’s talk:
*What’s one sentence you need to say out loud this week?
Drop it in the comments.

Or just type “I’m learning to speak again.”
I’m reading every single one and trust me, we’re doing this together.




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05/08/2026

With Regina Uren Chris-Ogbodo – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! 🎉

HEAL THE HEART: Day 1 Topic: Does Time Heal Pain? Intentionality is the Real DealWelcome to the month of August my dea...
04/08/2026

HEAL THE HEART: Day 1

Topic: Does Time Heal Pain? Intentionality is the Real Deal

Welcome to the month of August my dear Sister .

Today I will be starting a series that will take the 30 days as laid in my mind to do,
I am sure the topic for today is clear to you or you probably must have thought of it
Someone must have told you these words after the loss of your spouse didn’t they? "just give it time"
And time has passed, months,maybe years
but can I be honest with you? The pain is still there sometimes and that doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong it just means you’re human.

See, time alone doesn’t heal. Time just teaches us how to carry the pain quietly.
But *God + Intentionality is what equals what really heals.
Here’s what God’s word says to us today:
1. God sees what time can’t fix
_“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”_ — *Psalm 147:3*
Time doesn’t bind wounds. The Healer does. He sees your secret tears. _“You have collected all my tears in your bottle.”_ — *Psalm 56:8*
See, you are not forgotten, Sis.

2. Waiting without God can keep us stuck
The Israelites spent 40 years in the wilderness. Time passed, but they went in circles because they weren’t intentional with God.
_“These forty years the Lord your God has been with you, and you have not lacked anything.” — Deuteronomy 2:7
God was with them. The difference is: are we walking with Him in the waiting?

3. Healing is a daily choice:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28
Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.”1 Peter 5:7
Healing happens when we are intentional:
→ Bring God the pain instead of hiding it
→ Renew our minds with truth — *Romans 12:2
→ Choose community instead of isolation
→ Allow Him to comfort us so we can comfort others — Matthew 5:4
So don’t just wait for time to pass, Sister, partner with God.
Here are 3 Intentional steps for you to take today:
1. Talk to God by yourself: Psalm 34:18 says
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted.”
2. Speak 1 truth over 1 lie.: This means that you look for a scripture and read it loud over every 1lie the devil has told you .
3. *Reach out to 1 person.* Don’t do this alone. Healing happens in the light.

You WILL heal, not because time is magic.
but because your God is faithful, and you’re choosing to walk with Him one day at a time.
Rest assured I’m praying for you and
we’re rebuilding together.

Comment below: "I choose intentional healing" if this spoke to you.
Tag a sister who needs to hear this today.
You've Got the power 💓





Mama Series Truth be told, No one owes you anything. Get your acts together.Beloved Widow,Let’s talk plain truth today.T...
16/07/2026

Mama Series

Truth be told, No one owes you anything. Get your acts together.

Beloved Widow,

Let’s talk plain truth today.

Truth be told, no one owes you anything.
Not government,
Not in-laws, Not church, Not even friends.

People may help.
People may remember. People may show up.
But you cannot build your life waiting on what someone else “should” do for you.

That’s hard to hear, I know
But it’s also freedom.

Why? Because only God does.
Psalm 68:5 days, He is “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.”

Deut 10:18 : Says “He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow.”

In the midst of your challenges, just settle it in your mind that
God is not late.
God is not broke.
God is not distracted.
And hen people fail you
He won’t.
When doors close, He opens another.

But here’s the second truth:
While God is your Source, you are your manager.
Proverbs 21:5: Clearly states “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.”
While 2 Thess 3:10: buttresses by saying. “If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.”

Now here's what I want you to do or strongly advice

Get your acts together by doing the following:

1. Get your heart together:

Forgive.

Heal.

Stop waiting for apologies.

2. Get your hands together:

Learn a skill .

Start small.

Sell something.

Serve somewhere.

3. Get your house together Budget.

Plan.

No more survival mode.

Build.

4. Get your God together

Prayer, Word, and obedience daily.

That’s your anchor.

You are not helpless.

You are a daughter of the King.

You may be a widow, but you are not finished.

Stop looking for who owes you.

Start looking to the One who owns everything... and to the strength He has put inside you.

I’m with you.

We are with you.

But most importantly, God
is with you.

We rise.
We work.
We pray.
We build.

"You've got the Power"




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4: THE WIDOW'S MIGHTY TRUTH ⚓ Demystifying the Myths "My Children Are My Pension"Dear Sis, today I decided to shake the...
10/07/2026

4: THE WIDOW'S MIGHTY TRUTH ⚓

Demystifying the Myths "My Children Are My Pension"

Dear Sis, today I decided to shake the table by asking this question ;
Can we talk real today?

There are 2 whispers we’ve all heard in our widowhood community and we’re laying them on the table.

MYTH 1:
“I had children so they can take care of me in old age.”

MYTH 2: “Because I only have one child, I must protect them from everything.”

I know where these come from Fear and Loneliness.

The weight of “who will be there for me?” Because many of us have been stripped and battered by relatives and even friends after we lost our spouses .

But let’s be honest.. are these God’s plan, or are they fear talking?

Let’s break it down into advantage a and disadvantages:

1. RAISING CHILDREN AS “YOUR PENSION”

The Advantage we think:

- It feels like security.

- Like you won’t be alone.

The Disadvantage:

Once this belief is pushed on the children they do the following:

- It puts pressure on them.
- They become your emotional and financial support system instead of being free to pursue God’s purpose for THEM.

Many times, a lot of us honestly don't have a hand in that achievement but because we have gaslighted them into thinking that it's a must and not earned, we drop the burden on them.

That’s a heavy yoke and God never called us to yoke our children.

Before you think I am speaking from some theories, let's go through the Biblical Truth:

God told Abraham to sacrifice Isaac. Genesis 22.
Why? Because even Isaac couldn’t be Abraham’s god.
God was teaching him: “I am your provider. Not your son.”
God had to temporarily take Isaac so Abraham could learn to trust God first.
My dear, you are not your children 's God your job is to lead them to God so that both of you can be free

2. BEING OVER-PROTECTIVE BECAUSE “THEY’RE ALL I HAVE”

The Advantage we think: We keep them safe. We control the outcome.

The Disadvantage: We raise anxious adults who can’t make decisions. We steal their chance to learn dependence on God. We raise them for us, not for God’s assignment.

Another Biblical Truth: Hannah gave Samuel back to God.
1 Samuel 1:27-28.
She didn’t cling.
She released him. And God used him to change a nation.

NOW HERE’S THE BIGGEST TRUTH, and this comes from a quote by a Man of God I came across a while ago,
"You don’t parent based on what was missing in your life.
You parent as God directs."

Parenting from pain makes us either cling too tight or expect too much.

Parenting from God’s Word makes us raise arrows, not anchors. Psalm 127:4
My dear Sister, hear me: You CAN raise your children well AND be financially, emotionally, and spiritually independent.
Without guilt, without using them and without hurting them.

God is your husband as stated in Psalm 68:5. God is your provider as He says in Philippians 4:19.
When we anchor in Him first, we raise children who are free to fly and not obligated to carry us.
This is where we heal together.
Be honest.

Now no judgment here
I want you to respond to these questions and pray the prayers:

1. Which one convicted you most today? Comment “PENSION” or “PROTECTION”

2. Declare this with me: “God, I will not parent from my pain.

I will parent by Your direction.
I release my children to You.
You are my provider.” Type “AMEN” if you’re declaring this.

3. What’s one way you’ll parent by God’s direction this week instead of from fear?
Share it so we can encourage each other.

I’m reading every comment and praying over them.
Meanwhile, tag a Sis who needs this freedom today.
You are raising world-changers, not caretakers.

Don't forget "You’ve got the power."

I love you❤️

I am Mama Reg

09/07/2026

Pause!

This video is a reminder of God's unwavering love and care towards me and every one of us in this community

I still remember like it was just yesterday, that Monday Morning, when God spoke to my spirit and I could hear clearly even in the midst of my pain.
It was just 3 years since I lost my husband.
He said, " Tell Women that I am The Widow's Might"...

It came like. Thunder Bolt and by the time I recovered, I thought He was talking about the The Widow's Mite in the Bible but He quickly spelt it to me, MIGHT.
That moment was surreal

I recall running to tell my Mentor and she grabbed it immediately and giving me guidance.

The details of this story is in my upcoming book . By His grace

it's been 8 yrs since, doing it afraid but trusting God for His mercy and grace

We had a thanksgiving with a fraction of our members who represented the entire community.

Again we come to say thank You Jesus and to all that have been helping us over these years.

Ayodeji Megbope ny mentor and woman who has taught me grit and grace



Eunice Eso


Yewande Oluwatoyin Folawole



and her friends
Rev@athannwogwe song arranger and mixer.

Many many who would prefer not to have their names here are also really appreciated

We love you and we pray that God will never let you to be put to shame in Jesus name

To all Members particularly my admins
Gina Ebere
Oluwashindara Omobolanle
Augustina Adun Igbinosa
My God will bless you accordingly in Jesus name

We have a long way to go Nd we will get there in Jesus name






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DAY 3: MIGHTY IN COMMUNITY Don’t Do This AloneThe widowhood journey can be lonely.It can turn a vibrant, active and happ...
08/07/2026

DAY 3: MIGHTY IN COMMUNITY

Don’t Do This Alone

The widowhood journey can be lonely.

It can turn a vibrant, active and happy woman to being melancholic, aggressive or even an isolated person over night .

Some become unrecognisable to not only outsiders but even their family members. The one that breaks my heart is, the children too can loss their mother at such periods if care is not taken

Sis, be honest with me.
Have you been trying to carry this alone?

I get it, but God didn’t design it that way.

One of the weapons the devil loves to use is the weapon of Isolation

While counseling some of us, I've heard how some widows feel so hurt that they decide to be on their own instead of allowing anyone near or around them.
In as much as that can be advised with caution sometimes, I feel otherwise.

No matter the case, there is someone out there, that God has arranged for your comfort .
When I say, this, I like to pause and add that it is not necessarily a man.

You can not jump into a romantic relationship and succeed when you are still hurting.

What I'm saying here is, get one sister within the community of Widows that you can trust that has passed through the stage you are currently at.

The Bible in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, says
“Two are better than one... if one falls, the other can help them up.”

Mary had an Elizabeth and in our case, Ruth had Naomi and
Naomi in turn, had Ruth.

Can I now ask you this question?
Who’s your Naomi?
Who’s your Ruth?

Drop a comment by responding to these:

1. Tag 1 woman who has been your strength this year.
Let her know we see her

2. What’s 1 way you can reach out to community this week to just seek for that emotional, prayer help? A call? A prayer group?
Don't sit and mourn alone , God uses people even after you've prayer rise and act , just do it because
we heal better together.

So, I pray that
you will never miss your day of visitation in Jesus name

You’ve got the power.

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