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EDEM BOYCHILD SUPPORT INITIATIVE (EBSI) is a child protection and advocacy organization dedicated to safeguarding vulnerable boys from abuse, neglect, exploitation, and social marginalization.

On this International Day of the Boy Child, we are reminded that the boychild deserves protection, guidance, love, and o...
16/05/2026

On this International Day of the Boy Child, we are reminded that the boychild deserves protection, guidance, love, and opportunity. Yet many boys silently suffer abuse, neglect, emotional pain, violence, and abandonment while society expects them to simply “be strong.”

A wounded boy can grow into a broken man, but a nurtured boy can become a responsible leader, loving father, and positive force in society. This is why we must stand against every form of abuse against the boychild — physical, emotional, s*xual, psychological, and social.

Today is a call to listen to our boys, support their dreams, protect their dignity, and create an environment where they can thrive. When we invest in the boychild, we build stronger families, safer communities, and a better future for generations to come.

Happy International Day of the Midwife!
05/05/2026

Happy International Day of the Midwife!

Welcome to the month of May!Let's fight for the Boychild and keep him safe from all forms of abuse.
01/05/2026

Welcome to the month of May!
Let's fight for the Boychild and keep him safe from all forms of abuse.

Welcome to the month of April. Let's do all we can to protect and empower the Boychild.
01/04/2026

Welcome to the month of April.
Let's do all we can to protect and empower the Boychild.

30/03/2026

In the summer of 2003, Brendan Fraser walked into a luncheon at the Beverly Hills Hotel as one of Hollywood’s biggest stars.

He walked out knowing his career was about to end.

At that moment, he was at the absolute peak. The Mummy franchise had turned him into a global action hero. He was earning $12.5 million per film. Studios wanted him. Audiences loved him. He had the kind of career most actors only dream about.

That afternoon, as he left the Hollywood Foreign Press Association event, the organization’s president stopped him to shake his hand.

What happened next would haunt Fraser for fifteen years.

The man reached around and groped him. His hand moved to places no one should touch without consent. Fraser froze. He felt like a child. Like someone had thrown invisible paint on him that only he could see.

He rushed home and told his wife. But he was terrified to tell anyone else.

This was 2003. Men who spoke up about s*xual assault weren’t believed. They were mocked. Dismissed. Destroyed.

So Fraser stayed silent.

But silence didn’t protect him.

His phone stopped ringing. The Golden Globe invitations dried up. Projects disappeared. Hollywood insiders whispered. Some said he’d gotten lazy. Others said he’d lost his looks. No one said what Fraser believed was true: that he’d been blacklisted for quietly reporting what happened.

The HFPA investigated. They concluded that their president had “inappropriately touched” Fraser, but it was meant as a joke. They asked Fraser to sign a joint statement saying it was all a misunderstanding.

Fraser refused. Because it wasn’t a joke. And he wasn’t going to lie about it.

Over the next decade, Fraser’s career crumbled.

His body — broken from years of doing his own stunts in The Mummy films — required seven major surgeries. A laminectomy. Spinal fusion. Partial knee replacement. Vocal cord repair. By the time he filmed the third Mummy movie in 2008, he was held together with tape and ice.

His marriage ended in divorce. The financial settlement required him to pay $900,000 per year in alimony and child support — money he no longer had coming in.

His mother died.

And through it all, Fraser carried the shame and trauma of what had happened at that luncheon. He became depressed. Reclusive. He gained weight. He disappeared from the spotlight that had once loved him.

For years, people wondered: What happened to Brendan Fraser?

The internet was cruel. Memes mocked his appearance. Tabloids speculated about substance abuse, mental breakdowns, or simply that he’d stopped being relevant.

No one knew the truth.

In February 2018, Fraser sat down with GQ magazine and told his story for the first time.

He described the assault in detail. He explained his belief that he’d been blacklisted. He admitted his fear, his shame, his anger.

The response was overwhelming.

The internet — the same space that had mocked him — rallied around him. trended worldwide. Millions of people realized they’d been making fun of a man who was surviving trauma.

But speaking out didn’t immediately fix his career. Hollywood moves slowly. Trust is hard to rebuild. And Fraser had been gone a long time.

Then in 2019, something shifted.

Director Darren Aronofsky was searching for someone to play Charlie — a 600-pound reclusive English teacher trying to reconnect with his estranged daughter — in his film adaptation of The Whale.

He’d been looking for a decade. The role required an actor who could convey profound pain, deep regret, and stubborn hope. Someone who understood what it meant to be invisible while carrying unbearable weight.

Aronofsky saw a trailer for a low-budget Brazilian film Fraser had done. Something clicked.

He called Fraser and offered him the role.

Fraser wasn’t sure he could do it. He’d been away too long. The role was physically and emotionally brutal — wearing a prosthetic suit weighing over 300 pounds, filming scenes of raw vulnerability and grief.

But he said yes.

On September 4, 2022, The Whale premiered at the Venice Film Festival.

When the film ended, the audience stood and applauded.

And they kept applauding.

For six minutes, the crowd gave Fraser a standing ovation. He tried to leave. He couldn’t. People kept clapping, tears streaming down their faces.

Fraser stood in the theater and wept. Not from pride. From relief. From the overwhelming realization that after fifteen years in exile, he was welcome again.

The moment went viral. Millions watched Brendan Fraser cry as the world told him: We see you. We missed you. Welcome back.

Critics praised his performance as one of the year’s best. Awards buzz built. Predictions put him as the frontrunner for Best Actor.

But there was one ceremony Fraser wouldn’t attend.

In November 2022, The Whale received a Golden Globe nomination for Best Actor. Fraser publicly announced he would not attend if he won.

The Golden Globes were run by the Hollywood Foreign Press Association — the same organization whose president had assaulted him nineteen years earlier.

That president had finally been expelled from the HFPA in 2021 — not for what he did to Fraser, but for sharing racist content.

Fraser had never received a real apology. The man still called Fraser’s account “a total fabrication.”

So Fraser made his boundary clear: He would not set foot in that room.

The internet supported him. So did his peers.

On March 12, 2023, at the 95th Academy Awards, Brendan Fraser won the Oscar for Best Actor.

He walked onto that stage — not as the broken man who’d left Hollywood, but as someone who’d survived it.

His speech was gracious. Humble. He thanked his sons. His director. The Obesity Action Coalition who helped him understand the character he played.

He didn’t mention the assault. He didn’t attack the HFPA. He didn’t need to.

His presence on that stage — holding that Oscar — was vindication enough.

The standing ovation he received wasn’t just for his performance. It was for his survival. For speaking up. For coming back when Hollywood tried to erase him.

After Fraser won, the internet coined a term for what had happened: The Brenaissance.

It wasn’t just a career comeback. It was a cultural moment. A reminder that sometimes the most heroic thing a person can do is refuse to disappear.

Fraser’s story matters because it broke a dangerous myth: that s*xual assault only happens to women, that male victims don’t deserve support, that speaking up is weakness rather than courage.

He showed that trauma doesn’t have a gender. That blacklisting is real. That Hollywood protects power, not victims.

But he also showed that it’s possible to come back. That redemption exists. That survival — even when it’s messy and painful and takes fifteen years — counts as a triumph.

Today, Fraser is working again. He’s been cast in projects that excite him. He attends fan conventions where people line up to thank him — not just for The Mummy, but for being honest about his pain.

He told GQ that he can spot someone across a crowded room who’s been hurt the way he was hurt. And he wants them to know: If it happened to him, it could happen to anyone. And we’re all just people, trying to survive.

Brendan Fraser didn’t disappear because he was lazy or irrelevant or difficult.

He disappeared because he told the truth and Hollywood punished him for it.

He came back because he refused to let that be the end of his story.

In the summer of 2003, a man walked out of a hotel carrying shame he didn’t deserve.

Twenty years later, he walked onto the Oscar stage carrying proof that sometimes — just sometimes — truth wins.

Preparing for our maiden awareness campaign.EBSI - Giving the Boychild a Voice, Protecting His Future.
20/03/2026

Preparing for our maiden awareness campaign.
EBSI - Giving the Boychild a Voice, Protecting His Future.

Without you, there's no us.
08/03/2026

Without you, there's no us.

Protect. Heal. Empower. Support.
07/03/2026

Protect. Heal. Empower. Support.

FORMS OF BOYCHILD SEXUAL ABUSE 🚨1️⃣ Inappropriate TouchingUnwanted touching of private parts or forcing a boy to touch o...
03/03/2026

FORMS OF BOYCHILD SEXUAL ABUSE 🚨

1️⃣ Inappropriate Touching
Unwanted touching of private parts or forcing a boy to touch others.
2️⃣ R**e or Sexual Assault
Any forced s*xual act, including pe*******on.
3️⃣ Sexual Exploitation
Using a boy for po*******hy, trafficking, or s*x in exchange for money or gifts.
4️⃣ Exposure to Sexual Content
Showing po*******hy, s*xual acts, or online grooming.
5️⃣ Sexual Harassment
Sexual comments, threats, or repeated advances.

Protect the BOY/GIRLCHILD from abuse and violence.
02/03/2026

Protect the BOY/GIRLCHILD from abuse and violence.


Happy New Month!This month, we renew our commitment to protecting, empowering, and giving a voice to every child.
01/03/2026

Happy New Month!
This month, we renew our commitment to protecting, empowering, and giving a voice to every child.

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