10/06/2026
Grief Care Ministry
Our greatest strength at Garden of Siloam has always been walking alongside our Amici and their families through direct service, sustained by Christ who strengthens us. Our Amici are precious gifts entrusted to us by God, and our daily prayer is that each one of them would live to fulfil the purpose God intended for their lives even before they were conceived.
As we journey together, beautiful and inseparable bonds are formed, not only with the Amici, but also with their parents, siblings and caregivers. We celebrate victories together, carry burdens together and learn together. Many caregivers become nurses, teachers, counsellors, advocates and spiritual leaders all at once, often without preparation, but out of deep love for their children.
And so, when death, though inevitable, comes the loss is profound.
For parents and caregivers who have spent years devoted to caring for their child in such unique and sacrificial ways, grief can feel overwhelming. One becomes so accustomed to never being alone, to structuring life around love, care, appointments, routines and shared moments. When that presence is suddenly gone, the silence can be unbearable.
For a long time, we have felt the need to begin a Grief Care Ministry which is a safe space where families and staff can journey together through loss, healing, remembrance and hope. Yesterday, that vision finally came to life. We are deeply grateful for the 8 caregivers representing 7 families who were able to join us for our very first session. One thing that stood out clearly is that grief looks different for every person. There is no timeline for healing, and no “right way” to grieve. During our conversations, important topics emerged, including how to support siblings who ask difficult questions that parents may not always know how to answer. There was also a beautiful desire among caregivers to continue giving back and supporting others, even in the midst of their own grief.
As staff, we grieve too. Each of us carries these losses differently, which reminds us of the importance of creating spaces where we can support one another with compassion and grace. The most important thing is that none of us walks this journey alone. We are encouraged by the willingness to continue with this ministry, and we pray for God’s grace, wisdom, strength and guidance as we move forward together.
Today, we honour and remember the families of our beloved Amici: Joshbeam, Lewis, Edward, Collins, Gift, Fredrick, Victor, Gyan, Lavinia, Jane, Angel, Tracy, Gladness, Precious, and Jeremy.
We see you.
We remember with you.
We love you dearly.
And above all, may you always remember this: You will forever remain part of the Garden of Siloam family.
(FaithGrace, Social worker / Counsellor)