13/02/2025
Hello, Sisters!
The new year is here, and with it comes a fresh chapter filled with lessons, gratitude, and new possibilities! ๐โจ
For me, the year began on a poignant yet celebratory noteโone of deep reflection, appreciation, and remembrance. You all know how much I emphasize attitude and perspective, right? Because life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we respond to it. The stories we tell ourselves shape our journey.
Around the third week of January, my family and I had the honor of laying to rest a remarkable womanโShosh Monica, my paternal grandmotherโs elder sister. She wasnโt just a relative; she was a force of nature, a living testament to resilience, perseverance, humility, and courage.
Shosh Monica lived to the ripe old age of 104! Yes, you read that rightโ104 years of wisdom, laughter, and grace. Even in her twilight years, though partially blind and facing the challenges of aging, she never lost her wit, her humor, or her incredible storytelling. She would captivate us with tales of her adventuresโrecounting her travels to Nyeri (Nyili in her own words), Thika, Kikuyu, and Maasailand. And oh, what a businesswoman she was in her prime!
But what makes her story truly remarkable is her spirit of resilience. About 35 years ago, she fell gravely ill, leaving her bedridden for months and unable to do much physical labor. Many would have given up. But not her. When she could no longer farm or continue her business ventures, she turned to her hobby and made it her hustleโweaving exquisite sisal kiondos, dyeing them in dazzling colors made from tree bark, and selling them in the local markets. She refused to let circumstances define her.
She also found joy in the kitchen, bringing her expertise from the hotel and restaurant she once owned. But what truly stood out was the unwavering friendship she shared with her younger sisterโmy grandmother. Their bond was a masterclass in patience, humility, and unconditional love.
Sisters, in a world that often measures worth by ownership and accomplishments, Shosh Monicaโs life was a powerful reminder that the greatest rewards donโt always come from material wealth. She had no children of her own, yet she was never alone. She was loved, cherished, and celebrated by our entire family. Her kindness, gratitude, and grace attracted deep affection and loyaltyโproving that a rich life is measured not just by what we accumulate, but by the hearts we touch.
So, even in the sorrow of her passing, I choose to celebrate her. 104 years is no small feat! Her journey teaches us that resilience is a choice, gratitude is a magnet for love, and joy can be found even in lifeโs unexpected turns.
And oh, did I mention? Her send-off was massive! ๐ Despite not having a family of her own, the love she gave came back to her in ways she never imagined.
So, dear sisters, as we embrace this new year, whatever you do, remember the lessons. Live with purpose. Love fiercely. Embrace resilience. And always, always choose gratitude.
Wishing you all a year filled with joy, strength, and abundant blessings! ๐