ONGEA DADA

ONGEA DADA An authentic life: using oneโ€™s gifts and talents to live your dream, Bloom where you are planted!

Hello ladies ๐ŸŒธIโ€™m excited to officially launch Becoming Her  a 4-week online personal growth program for women.This prog...
16/05/2026

Hello ladies ๐ŸŒธ

Iโ€™m excited to officially launch Becoming Her a 4-week online personal growth program for women.

This program is for you if you: โ€ข
. Feel stuck or overwhelmed
* Want to rebuild your confidence
* Desire clarity and personal growth
* Are ready to intentionally invest in yourself
Weโ€™ll walk through a guided journey of reflection, growth, and transformation together.

๐Ÿ“…
๐Ÿ’ป Online via Google meet
5000 - 15th May
6500- From 16th May
Limited slots available.
If you feel this is your season to grow, Iโ€™d love to have you join us ๐Ÿ’ซ
๐Ÿ“ฉ Reach out to register

This morning, I found myself reflecting on the story of Anna, the prophetess in Luke 2:36โ€“38.The Bible tells us she was ...
13/04/2026

This morning, I found myself reflecting on the story of Anna, the prophetess in Luke 2:36โ€“38.

The Bible tells us she was married for only seven years before she became a widowโ€ฆ seven years. Such a short season, followed by a lifetime of loss.
And yet, her story does not end in sorrow.

Instead of sinking into bitterness or giving up on life, Anna chose a different path. She leaned into God. She gave herself to prayer, to worship, to service.
Day after day, night after nightโ€ฆ she stayed in His presence.

And then, one day, she became one of the few chosen to witness Jesus the Messiah as a baby.
Imagine that. In her waiting, in her pain, in her quiet faithfulnessโ€ฆ God wrote her into one of the most powerful moments in history.

Her life reminds me that even in loss, there is still purpose. Even in waiting, there is still dignity.
Even in the silence, God is still writing.

Lately, my heart has been heavy seeing the rise in the number of young widows. Itโ€™s scaryโ€ฆ itโ€™s painfulโ€ฆ and it raises so many unanswered questions. But today, I just want to gently whisper to every widow reading this:
Hold on to your faith.

I know itโ€™s not easyโ€ฆ it has never been easy.
But you are not forgotten. Not for a moment.
God is still in your story.
He is not done with you.
The same God who saw Annaโ€ฆ sees you.

There is a new song coming.
There is beauty still ahead.
There is a story He is rewritingโ€ฆ and you are right in the middle of it.

Please donโ€™t give up.
Shalom ๐Ÿค

With โค๏ธ
Coach Liz Kanini Kitheka

Ongea Dada Quarterly Gathering ๐ŸŒธWe warmly invite you to our first meeting of the year as we take time to pause, reflect,...
08/04/2026

Ongea Dada Quarterly Gathering ๐ŸŒธ

We warmly invite you to our first meeting of the year as we take time to pause, reflect, and intentionally step into 2026.

โœจ Theme: โ€œReset & Rise: Designing the Life You Desireโ€

๐Ÿ“– โ€œWrite the vision and make it plain.โ€ โ€” Habakkuk 2:2
๐Ÿ“… Date: 11/4/2025
๐Ÿ“ Venue: PBC Eastgate
โฐ Time: from 9.30

Happy New Year, ladies ๐ŸคAs January gently comes to a close, Iโ€™ve been sitting with a few reflections.In my work and dail...
29/01/2026

Happy New Year, ladies ๐Ÿค
As January gently comes to a close, Iโ€™ve been sitting with a few reflections.
In my work and daily life, I often journey with womenโ€”
women carrying visible and invisible scars,
women navigating separation and divorce,
women who have endured abuse,
widows learning how to breathe again,
and women quietly living in the season of waiting.
What strikes me mostโ€”again and againโ€”is this hard truth:
some of the deepest wounds women carry were inflicted by other women.
Not always through big acts,
but through our words.
Our tone.
Our assumptions.
Our โ€œcorrections.โ€
Our comments made casually, yet received painfully.
Recently, I spoke with a woman who shared that other women no longer associate with her because she is divorced. She has been labelled a home breaker.
Some divorced women have quietly withdrawn from fellowship spacesโ€”not because they lost faith, but because they lost a sense of belonging.
I speak to widows who tell me they are sidelined, overlooked, or deemed unfit to serveโ€”simply because of their status.
And then there are the comments we make so casually about appearanceโ€”
how someone looks today compared to yesterday.
Often spoken without malice, yet received with deep pain,
because we rarely know what someone is truly battling beneath the surfaceโ€”
grief, illness, stress, depression, survival.
Sisters, we must pause and reflect.
This year, I invite usโ€”gently but intentionallyโ€”to be more mindful and more sensitive to one another.
To think before we speak.
To choose curiosity over judgment.
Compassion over criticism.
May this be the year we allow the Holy Spirit to tame our tonguesโ€”
that our words may uplift, inspire, and encourage,
and when correction is necessary, may it always be wrapped in love.
Let us be intentional about making a sister smile.
For โ€œAnxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.โ€ โ€” Proverbs 12:25
May we spread love.
May we choose kindness.
May we create spaces where women heal, not hide.
Shalom ๐Ÿค

With love,

Coach Liz Kanini Kitheka

P.S. A belated happy birthday to my daughter, Keneisha, who turned 14 this January.

May you always know that you are loved, valued, and enoughโ€”just as you are ๐Ÿ’–

๐Ÿ‘‘ Healing, Honor and Hope โ€” A Call to the Real You โœจLast week, I had the humbling privilege of ministering at two widows...
19/08/2025

๐Ÿ‘‘ Healing, Honor and Hope โ€” A Call to the Real You โœจ

Last week, I had the humbling privilege of ministering at two widowsโ€™ workshops during the International Ladies of Excellence Conference hosted by the Redeemed Gospel Church of Kenya.

These were not ordinary sessions โ€” they were sacred spaces where deep wounds met divine truth.
We explored powerful topics such as Overcoming Shame & Embracing Redemption and Leading from a Place of Healing and Restoration.

So many widows walk through life carrying silent pain โ€” weighed down by outdated cultural norms that breed shame, guilt, rejection and stigma. They often suppress their gifts, silence their voices and retreat into the shadows of their own stories.

Yet sitting in those rooms, I witnessed something remarkable โ€” resilience wrapped in vulnerability.
Women with hidden scars and broken heartsโ€ฆ still showing up. Still hoping.
Some of them had once carried bright, joyful personalities โ€” but lifeโ€™s tragedies dimmed their light, leaving them isolated behind a wall of unspoken grief.

Together, we journeyed through Scripture and rediscovered Godโ€™s heart for the broken.
Our anchor verse, Isaiah 61:7, speaks directly to every woman who has ever felt unworthy:

โ€œInstead of your shame, you will receive a double portionโ€ฆโ€

We reflected on women like Ruth and Naomi, the Widow of Zarephath, Anna the Prophetess, the Samaritan Woman, and the Woman with the Issue of Blood โ€” all of whom faced shame and loss, yet experienced Godโ€™s redemptive power in extraordinary ways.

Here is the truth I shared with them โ€” and with you today:

The version of you that existed before the pain is not lost.
She may be buried, but she is still alive.

๐Ÿ’ก You can reclaim your joy.
๐Ÿ’ก You can step out of guilt and walk in honor.
๐Ÿ’ก You can rise again โ€” not as a shadow, but as the woman God created in the beginning.

Too many of us hide behind lifeโ€™s wounds. We bury our gifts, lose our passions, and settle for mere survival. Then one day we wake up and wonder, โ€œWhere did my true self go?โ€

But people or circumstances do not define your value.
Jesus came to restore what was lost and to exchange ashes for a crown of beauty.

So do not shrink. Do not remain hidden.

You were created to BLOOM โ€” right where you are.

๐ŸŒธ At Ongea Dada, our message is clear:
Bloom where you are planted. ๐ŸŒธ

And so today I ask you:

Where is the real you?
Where is the woman you were before life happened?

Itโ€™s time to let her rise.
Itโ€™s time to step into your double portion.

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝโœจ

Financial   starts in the mind โ€” and flows into how we live, plan, and grow.On Saturday, 28th June, we gathered to celeb...
09/07/2025

Financial starts in the mind โ€” and flows into how we live, plan, and grow.

On Saturday, 28th June, we gathered to celebrate 3 years of Ongea Dada โ€” a beautiful milestone in our journey of healing, empowerment, and shared sisterhood.

โœจ Our theme for the day:
Mastering Financial Resilience โ€“ Part 2: Protect, Preserve, Prosper

Anchored in the timeless words of Proverbs 31:25 โ€”
"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come." โ€”
this theme reminded us that resilience is not just about wealth or income. It's about cultivating inner strength, protecting what we have, preserving our values, and preparing wisely so we can face the future with peace, not panic.

๐Ÿ’ฌ We were deeply inspired by our guest speakers:

Mercy Kilili Munene, CEO of Shamba Connect, who shared practical ways women can create value through sustainable farming

Praxedes Kageha ,advocate of the high court and legal expert, who unpacked the power of legal literacy and protection in securing your financial future โ€” including navigating succession and understanding the legal landscape widows face upon bereavement

With the Shamba Connect team, we got hands-on and practical:
๐ŸŒฑ Backyard farming using rabbit manure, red soil, and organic seedlings
๐Ÿก Turning small spaces into food and income-generating gardens
๐Ÿ’ก Building resilience through small, consistent, intentional actions

The message was clear: You donโ€™t need big capital to make big impact. Financial strength is nurtured one step at a time โ€” in your backyard, in your mindset, in your daily choices.

๐Ÿ™Œ Come connect. Come be encouraged. Come grow.
As we continue to heal, rebuild, and thrive โ€” together.

INTERNATIONAL WIDOWS DAY 2025 ๐ŸŒฟTheme: Uplifting Widowsโ€™ VoicesToday, we pause to honour and uplift every widow โ€” women w...
23/06/2025

INTERNATIONAL WIDOWS DAY 2025 ๐ŸŒฟ
Theme: Uplifting Widowsโ€™ Voices

Today, we pause to honour and uplift every widow โ€” women who have endured profound loss, yet rise each day with unwavering strength, quiet courage, and undeniable grace.

As a widow myself, and founder of Ongea Dada โ€” a community born from pain but built on purpose โ€” I know intimately the silent battles, the aching loneliness, the search for meaning and belonging, and the deep yearning for a fresh, hope-filled tomorrow.

But here is what I also know: Our voices matter.
Our stories carry power. Not just as chronicles of grief, but as bold anthems of resilience, hope, and transformation.

In that spirit, I extend a heartfelt invitation to all widows โ€” and to women navigating seasons of waiting โ€” to join us for the Ongea Dada 3rd Anniversary Celebration, a sacred space where stories are shared, spirits are strengthened, and sisterhood comes alive.

๐Ÿ“… Date: 28th June 2025
๐Ÿ“ Venue: PBC Eastgate
๐Ÿ•ค Time: 9:30 AM โ€“ 2:00 PM
๐ŸŽฏ Theme: Mastering Financial Resilience โ€“ Part 2: Protect, Preserve, Prosper

๐Ÿ’ฌ โ€œShe is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.โ€ โ€” Proverbs 31:25

Come and connect. Come and be encouraged. Come and grow โ€” as we continue to heal, rebuild, and thriveโ€ฆ together.

๐ŸŒŸโœจ What a POWERFUL and TRANSFORMATIVE Saturday it was! โœจ๐ŸŒŸOur Ongea Dada gathering on 29th March 2025 was nothing short o...
10/04/2025

๐ŸŒŸโœจ What a POWERFUL and TRANSFORMATIVE Saturday it was! โœจ๐ŸŒŸ

Our Ongea Dada gathering on 29th March 2025 was nothing short of a divine appointment! ๐Ÿ’œ In partnership with Parklands Baptist Church โ€“ Eastgate, EPIC Ministry, we came together to MASTER Financial Resilience โ€” and oh, did God show up! ๐Ÿ™Œ

๐Ÿ™ We kicked off with a soul-stirring devotion reminding us that we are right on time in Godโ€™s divine purpose โณ๐Ÿ’ซ โ€” even when life seems chaotic. Isaiah 60:22 anchored our hearts. We were reminded of Jesusโ€™ endurance, and the call for us to wait on the Lord with thankful hearts. ๐Ÿ“– Psalms 145:8-9 | Lamentations 3:22 | Psalms 118 โ€” all reminded us of Godโ€™s unfailing love.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Then came the breakout sessions, where we split into meaningful groups: ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘จ Married
๐Ÿ‘ฉ Singles
๐Ÿ–ค Widows
Each group received unique ministry and encouragement tailored to their season โ€” so personal, so needed! ๐Ÿ’•

๐Ÿ’ผ The financial empowerment segment brought ๐Ÿ”ฅ:

๐Ÿ’ก Christine Gathuini, Certified Financial Advisor, walked us through the ABCs of money โ€” budgeting, saving, investing, building wealth, and breaking free from debt. A real masterclass in financial foundations! ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ“Š

๐Ÿ“– Dr. Redemta Cherotich took us into Matthew 25:14-30 โ€“ the Parable of the Talents. Her message? ๐Ÿ”ฅ STOP comparing. START activating. Thereโ€™s a GIANT within each of us โ€” and itโ€™s time to WAKE UP and walk boldly in your calling!

๐Ÿ“˜ Josephโ€™s wisdom (Genesis 41:46-56) reminded us to save in times of plenty, prepare for the storms, and steward what God gives us wisely ๐ŸŒง๏ธ๐ŸŒพ

๐ŸŒฟ Mercy Munene, CEO of Shamba Connect, rounded us off with an energetic and practical session on agribusiness โ€” turning small spaces into abundant farms! Think sacks, broken buckets, old tires โ€” itโ€™s all usable! โ™ป๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿฝโ€๐ŸŒพ

Her nuggets? ๐Ÿ’ฅ Start where you are
๐Ÿ’ฅ Find a craft and explore 1000 ways to earn from it
๐Ÿ’ฅ Grow your network
๐Ÿ’ฅ Get accountability
๐Ÿ’ฅ Pursue purpose over pressure
๐Ÿ’ฅ And above all โ€” walk with God.

๐Ÿ’ซ We left feeling empowered, inspired, and ready to thrive financially โ€” not just for ourselves but for generations to come.

๐Ÿ’œ Thank you to every woman who showed up and showed out! Weโ€™re building a community of resilience, wisdom, and purpose โ€” one sister at a time. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ”ฅ



๐Ÿ“ธ Swipe through to see highlights from the day โ€” tag your sisters!
๐Ÿ‘‡ Drop one takeaway that truly blessed your heart! ๐Ÿ’ฌ

๐ŸŒธ Hey Ladies! ๐ŸŒธLife comes with its share of financial highs and lows, but you're capable of thriving through every seaso...
18/03/2025

๐ŸŒธ Hey Ladies! ๐ŸŒธ

Life comes with its share of financial highs and lows, but you're capable of thriving through every season!

Join us for an empowering session on Mastering Financial Resilience, designed to help you confidently navigate financial challenges, build sustainable wealth, and achieve lasting financial independence.

โœ… Learn practical strategies to manage debt effectively.
โœ… Discover ways to boost and diversify your income.
โœ… Gain insights into planning wisely for your future.

Equip yourself with essential tools, strategies, and the confidence to take charge of your financial journey. Donโ€™t miss this opportunity to invest in yourself and your future!

๐Ÿ“… Mark your calendars!

Together, let's stay financially strong! ๐Ÿ’ชโœจ
๐Ÿ“… 29th March 2025
๐Ÿ“ PBC Eastgate
โฐ 9am -2Pm

โœจ **H๐šp๐ฉy I๐งt๐žr๐งa๐ญi๐จn๐šl W๐จm๐žnโ€™s D๐šy 2๐ŸŽ2๐Ÿ“!** โœจ  ๐“o๐a๐ฒ, w๐ž ๐œe๐ฅe๐›r๐št๐ž **๐˜O๐”**โ€”๐ญh๐ž ๐ฐo๐ฆe๐ง ๐ฐh๐จ ๐ซi๐ฌe, ๐ฅe๐šd, ๐šn๐ ๐ซe๐e๐Ÿi๐งe p๐จs๐ฌi๐›...
08/03/2025

โœจ **H๐šp๐ฉy I๐งt๐žr๐งa๐ญi๐จn๐šl W๐จm๐žnโ€™s D๐šy 2๐ŸŽ2๐Ÿ“!** โœจ

๐“o๐a๐ฒ, w๐ž ๐œe๐ฅe๐›r๐št๐ž **๐˜O๐”**โ€”๐ญh๐ž ๐ฐo๐ฆe๐ง ๐ฐh๐จ ๐ซi๐ฌe, ๐ฅe๐šd, ๐šn๐ ๐ซe๐e๐Ÿi๐งe p๐จs๐ฌi๐›i๐ฅi๐ญi๐žs. ๐–o๐ฆe๐ง ๐ฐh๐จ ๐›u๐ขl๐ ๐ฐi๐ญh c๐จu๐ซa๐ e, ๐งu๐ซt๐ฎr๐ž ๐ฐi๐ญh l๐จv๐ž, a๐งd i๐งn๐จv๐št๐ž ๐ฐi๐ญh b๐ซi๐ฅl๐ขa๐งc๐ž. W๐จm๐žn w๐กo c๐กa๐ฅl๐žn๐ e b๐šr๐ซi๐žr๐ฌ, b๐ซe๐šk c๐ฒc๐ฅe๐ฌ, a๐งd i๐งs๐ฉi๐ซe g๐žn๐žr๐št๐ขo๐งs!

๐Ÿ’ก **W๐กe๐ง ๐ฐe i๐งv๐žs๐ญ ๐ขn w๐จm๐žn, ๐ฐe i๐งv๐žs๐ญ ๐ขn a w๐จr๐ฅd t๐กa๐ญ ๐ญh๐ซi๐ฏe๐ฌ.**

๐ŸŒŸ **๐–e i๐งv๐žs๐ญ ๐ขn d๐ซe๐šm๐ฌ**โ€”๐›e๐œa๐ฎs๐ž ๐šn e๐ฆp๐จw๐žr๐žd w๐จm๐šn t๐ซa๐งs๐Ÿo๐ซm๐ฌ ๐ e๐งe๐ซa๐ญi๐จn๐ฌ.
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ **๐–e i๐งv๐žs๐ญ ๐ขn v๐จi๐œe๐ฌ**โ€”๐›e๐œa๐ฎs๐ž ๐ฐh๐žn a w๐จm๐šn s๐ฉe๐šk๐ฌ, c๐กa๐งg๐ž ๐ญa๐คe๐ฌ ๐Ÿl๐ขg๐กt.
๐Ÿš€ **๐–e i๐งv๐žs๐ญ ๐ขn p๐จt๐žn๐ญi๐šl**โ€”b๐žc๐šu๐ฌe a w๐จr๐ฅd w๐ขt๐กo๐ฎt l๐ขm๐ขt๐ฌ ๐Ÿo๐ซ ๐ฐo๐ฆe๐ง ๐ขs a w๐จr๐ฅd w๐กe๐ซe w๐ž ๐šl๐ฅ ๐ซi๐ฌe.

T๐จ ๐žv๐žr๐ฒ ๐ฐo๐ฆa๐ง ๐ขn t๐กi๐ฌ ๐œo๐ฆm๐ฎn๐ขt๐ฒโ€”๐ฒo๐ฎr s๐ญr๐žn๐ t๐ก ๐ขs p๐จw๐žr๐Ÿu๐ฅ, y๐จu๐ซ ๐r๐ža๐ฆs a๐ซe v๐šl๐ขd, ๐šn๐ ๐ฒo๐ฎr i๐ฆp๐šc๐ญ ๐ขs i๐ฆm๐ža๐ฌu๐ซa๐›l๐ž. **Y๐จu a๐ซe s๐že๐ง, y๐จu a๐ซe v๐šl๐ฎe๐, a๐งd y๐จu a๐ซe c๐žl๐žb๐ซa๐ญe๐ ๐ญo๐a๐ฒ ๐šn๐ ๐šl๐ฐa๐ฒs!**

L๐žtโ€™s n๐จt j๐ฎs๐ญ ๐œe๐ฅe๐›r๐št๐ž ๐ฐo๐ฆe๐ง ๐ญo๐a๐ฒโ€”๐ฅe๐ญโ€™๐ฌ **๐ขn๐ฏe๐ฌt i๐ง ๐ญh๐žm, ๐ฎp๐ฅi๐Ÿt t๐กe๐ฆ, a๐งd c๐กa๐ฆp๐ขo๐ง ๐ญh๐žm e๐ฏe๐ซy d๐šy.** ๐e๐œa๐ฎs๐ž ๐ฐh๐žn w๐จm๐žn r๐ขs๐ž, w๐ž ๐šl๐ฅ ๐ซi๐ฌe!

๐Ÿ’œ **H๐žr๐žโ€™๐ฌ ๐ญo w๐จm๐žn e๐ฏe๐ซy๐ฐh๐žr๐žโ€”๐ฅe๐šd๐ขn๐ , t๐กr๐ขv๐ขn๐ , a๐งd s๐กi๐งi๐งg b๐ซi๐ h๐ญe๐ซ ๐ญh๐šn e๐ฏe๐ซ!** ๐Ÿ’œ

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Hello, Sisters!The new year is here, and with it comes a fresh chapter filled with lessons, gratitude, and new possibili...
13/02/2025

Hello, Sisters!

The new year is here, and with it comes a fresh chapter filled with lessons, gratitude, and new possibilities! ๐ŸŽ‰โœจ

For me, the year began on a poignant yet celebratory noteโ€”one of deep reflection, appreciation, and remembrance. You all know how much I emphasize attitude and perspective, right? Because life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we respond to it. The stories we tell ourselves shape our journey.

Around the third week of January, my family and I had the honor of laying to rest a remarkable womanโ€”Shosh Monica, my paternal grandmotherโ€™s elder sister. She wasnโ€™t just a relative; she was a force of nature, a living testament to resilience, perseverance, humility, and courage.

Shosh Monica lived to the ripe old age of 104! Yes, you read that rightโ€”104 years of wisdom, laughter, and grace. Even in her twilight years, though partially blind and facing the challenges of aging, she never lost her wit, her humor, or her incredible storytelling. She would captivate us with tales of her adventuresโ€”recounting her travels to Nyeri (Nyili in her own words), Thika, Kikuyu, and Maasailand. And oh, what a businesswoman she was in her prime!

But what makes her story truly remarkable is her spirit of resilience. About 35 years ago, she fell gravely ill, leaving her bedridden for months and unable to do much physical labor. Many would have given up. But not her. When she could no longer farm or continue her business ventures, she turned to her hobby and made it her hustleโ€”weaving exquisite sisal kiondos, dyeing them in dazzling colors made from tree bark, and selling them in the local markets. She refused to let circumstances define her.

She also found joy in the kitchen, bringing her expertise from the hotel and restaurant she once owned. But what truly stood out was the unwavering friendship she shared with her younger sisterโ€”my grandmother. Their bond was a masterclass in patience, humility, and unconditional love.

Sisters, in a world that often measures worth by ownership and accomplishments, Shosh Monicaโ€™s life was a powerful reminder that the greatest rewards donโ€™t always come from material wealth. She had no children of her own, yet she was never alone. She was loved, cherished, and celebrated by our entire family. Her kindness, gratitude, and grace attracted deep affection and loyaltyโ€”proving that a rich life is measured not just by what we accumulate, but by the hearts we touch.

So, even in the sorrow of her passing, I choose to celebrate her. 104 years is no small feat! Her journey teaches us that resilience is a choice, gratitude is a magnet for love, and joy can be found even in lifeโ€™s unexpected turns.

And oh, did I mention? Her send-off was massive! ๐ŸŽ‰ Despite not having a family of her own, the love she gave came back to her in ways she never imagined.

So, dear sisters, as we embrace this new year, whatever you do, remember the lessons. Live with purpose. Love fiercely. Embrace resilience. And always, always choose gratitude.

Wishing you all a year filled with joy, strength, and abundant blessings! ๐Ÿ’–

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