14/02/2026
It’s Valentine’s Day and I’m on day one of my period. Dave had a fancy resort booked but we cancelled it - no drama - we are ultimate chillers, and enjoy to simply be 🩷
Today is another day creating heaven together - Dave has offered to massage me if I so desire, and otherwise left to be on my own except for cake and chai and dinner delivery! 🤪
I do not expect this from Dave, but he gives to me effortlessly from the fullness of his Being and Love that overfills from his cup.
For years I have been practising to master my emotions, which means my periods are no longer times where I fall out with my partner or lash out with needs, expectations or emotional processing.
Even if I am not perfect in emotional mastery (yet) Dave knows that I am on this path, and this creates an ever deepening sense of safety and nervous system regulation between us, as we know that neither one will unconsciously lash out at each other.
The more conscious we both become, the less emotional reactivity we create.
This creates space - and the more spacious we are, the more we are able to truly give and receive Love and Peace.
I am feeling very blessed to have this romantic relationship with Dave ; living and travelling together filled with ease, peace, intimacy, honesty, joy and freedom.
Every day is Valentine’s Day for us; every day we tell each other how much we love each other, how grateful we are for each other, and every day we celebrate whatever we can.
I am grateful for this remembrance that we are claiming in this lifetime; that we are powerful creators of our life and of our relationship.
Why would we create a relationship anything less than a daily celebration of joy and sweet playful love?
Happy valentines life! 💘
Zoë & Dave ♾️
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