14/10/2026
L is for Lapse and Learning
As our Sober October alphabet continues, today’s reminder is that a lapse does not erase the progress you have already made.
A lapse is a return to a behaviour after a period of change. It can feel disappointing, but it does not have to become a full return to previous patterns. You still deserve support.
Safety message: Tolerance can fall during abstinence or reduced use. Returning to a previous amount may increase overdose risk, particularly with opioids and other depressants.
Learning starts with curiosity.
What happened beforehand? What thoughts or feelings appeared? What support or change to your plan might help next time?
SMART tool: Lapse analysis - link below
Identify the trigger, thoughts, feelings and actions. Then choose one specific change you can make to your plan—perhaps contacting someone sooner, planning for a difficult situation or reconnecting with support.
Today’s reflection: What information could a setback give you for your next step?
At SMART Recovery Donegal, you do not need a perfect week to deserve a warm welcome. Whether you are taking your first step or returning after a lapse, your next step matters.
https://smartrecovery.ie/resources/toolkit/dents/
SMART Recovery Ireland Letterkenny CDP START Project - Finn Valley area North West Regional Drug & Alcohol Task Force