17/02/2026
Addictions are habits that start as a one time activity or try and then becomes impossible to stop, because the brain recognizes it and begins to demand for it.
Addictions come from the environment and what we expose ourselves to, people can get addicted to just about anything but the popular ones are alcohol, drugs, gambling, social media, tv shows, movies, smoking among others.
Sometimes parents transfer their addictions to their children, by exposing them early to alcohol, ci******es etc.
Sometimes the friends who come into our lives have these addictions, and the more we hang around them the likely it is to get convinced to join in these behaviors.
It is extremely important to note that when people get addicted to substances like drugs and gambling they are ready to sell personal or family property in order to indulge in the behavior.
Addictions can start as an adventure but over time, one needs an intervention to stop, so for those who have never tried gambling, drugs, p**n and other addictive habits, the best thing to do is to never try it, because one time maybe all it will take to be hooked for life.
The symptoms of addiction are many but what stands out is the anger and aggression the person displays when they are not able to access the substance or indulge in behavior. some also become, gloomy and withdrawn, their while existence depends literally on the behavior or habit.
We need to engage more with our children and teenagers, especially those who are in secondary and secondary schools, it doesn't really matter if they are in boarding or day schools, they need to have safe spaces with parents, teachers and trusted adults in the community they can confide in and tell their struggles to.
Meanwhile, if for any reason, you have tried any of the behaviours listed or another and you are struggling to stop on your own, or a family member is addicted to something,then the recommendation is to seek professional counseling. Almost all the government hospitals have psychologists ready and willing to help.
Many churches also have professional counselors whose services you can benefit from.Get help while you can.