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Breast Friends York A support group for those who have been diagnosed with breast cancer in York. We also have a private chat group. contact us for times and venues.

Contact us at [email protected] for more informtion. We are a peer support group for people in York who have been diagnosed with breast cancer. We aim to offer support, fun and friendship to women going through treatment and after. We currently hold one meeting a month, on the fourth Tuesday of the month, 7-9pm at the Pig & Pastry on Bishopthorpe Rd. There will always be coffee, cake and chat and we will often have a speaker or topic for discussion. we also have a lunch club that is on the third Wednesday of each month. Please check details before coming as sometimes we use different venues. You can email us on [email protected], phone us on 01904 373088 or join the private chat group by sending us a message.

MEN, WOMEN & BREAST CANCER — YES, WE’RE TALKING TO YOU! Fancy coffee, cake, a good laugh AND talking to people who actua...
20/10/2026

MEN, WOMEN & BREAST CANCER — YES, WE’RE TALKING TO YOU!

Fancy coffee, cake, a good laugh AND talking to people who actually understand what you’ve been through?

No awkward explanations.
No pretending you’re “fine” when you’re absolutely not.
And no need to explain why the words “just a quick appointment” can strike fear into your heart! 😂

That’s Breast Friends York.

We’re a peer support group for people affected by breast cancer — bringing together people who have been through treatment themselves and understand the rollercoaster that comes afterwards.

We offer:
Coffee evenings — relaxed, friendly and with plenty of opportunity for a natter.

Lunch clubs — because sometimes the best therapy is food, laughter and people who get it!

Alternative therapies and opportunities to focus on YOU and your wellbeing.

Most importantly, peer support — the chance to meet others who have walked a similar path, swap experiences, have a laugh, ask questions, or simply spend time with people who understand without needing the whole backstory.

And here’s something we’re really keen to develop…

We support women. We support men.And whilst all our social events are open to everyone affected by breast cancer regardless of gender, sexual orientation or gender identity we’d love to offer some gender-specific support events too.

For example, perhaps women would like the occasional women-only get-together, while men might appreciate a chance to meet other men who have experienced breast cancer.

The problem? We need more male voices!

We don’t want to guess what men want or organise something that makes everyone think, “Erm… thanks, but absolutely not!” 😂

So, if you’re a man who has experienced breast cancer, we’d love to hear from you.

And you DON’T even have to join the group.

You could simply tell us:
• What would you find useful?
•What sort of social events would appeal to you?
•What would make you feel comfortable getting involved?
• What support do you wish had been available?

Your input could help us shape something that other men would genuinely value.

So, whether you fancy joining us, popping along for a coffee, or simply having a chat with us about what you’d like to see offered…

We want to hear from you.

Because peer support should be about what people actually need — not what we think they need.

And if that involves coffee, cake, lunch and the occasional slightly inappropriate joke along the way… even better.

We are Breast Friends York — bringing people together, one cuppa and one shared experience at a time.

Please share this post — especially with anyone you know who has experienced breast cancer. You never know who might need to find us.

Well done x
20/10/2026

Well done x

20/10/2026

Well done to Zoe & Will for their appearance on BBC York this morning.
Both of you were great and hopefully have raised some much needed awareness that men get breast cancer too

Will and Zoe waiting to go on air at BBC radio York to talk about male breast cancer and how BFY are supporting local me...
20/10/2026

Will and Zoe waiting to go on air at BBC radio York to talk about male breast cancer and how BFY are supporting local men and women. Listen at around 10.35

Will and Zoe waiting in the green room at BBC York to go on air to talk about Male Breast Cancer and how BFY are support...
20/10/2026

Will and Zoe waiting in the green room at BBC York to go on air to talk about Male Breast Cancer and how BFY are supporting local men as well as women.

15/10/2026

12/10/2026

Three Fabulous men all bonded by a diagnosis of breast cancer. breast cancer

MEN GET BREAST CANCER TOO! Right, gentlemen… this one’s for you! And for anyone who has a dad, brother, husband, son, pa...
12/10/2026

MEN GET BREAST CANCER TOO!
Right, gentlemen… this one’s for you! And for anyone who has a dad, brother, husband, son, partner, mate, or that bloke down the pub who thinks going to the doctor is somehow a sign of weakness, and that he is invincible!
We need to have a little chat about your chest every single one of you has breast tissue, it doesn’t matter if you have pecs to rival a gladiator, or a dad bod.
Which means YES, MEN CAN GET BREAST CANCER.
It’s less common than breast cancer in women, but it absolutely happens. In the UK, around 400 men are diagnosed every year. That’s around 400 families whose lives are turned upside down by a diagnosis that many people still don’t realise can affect men.
And as someone who has personally been through breast cancer, I can tell you this isn’t something to brush off, laugh away or ignore because you think it’s a women’s disease.
So, lads, here’s a quick guide on what you need to look out for
THE SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF MALE BREAST CANCER
A lump or swelling in the chest or breast area. Often painless, so don’t assume that if it doesn’t hurt, it’s nothing.
Changes to your ni**le — including it turning inwards, changing shape or position, or looking different from usual.
Discharge from the ni**le — especially if there’s blood. No, it’s not something to quietly wipe away and hope nobody notices.
A rash, redness, dimpling or puckering of the skin around your chest or ni**le.
Sores or changes to the skin that don’t heal or look unusual.
Swelling or a lump in your armpit — because breast tissue extends towards that area, and changes there shouldn’t be ignored either.
Not every lump or change is cancer, but if you notice something unusual, get it checked by your GP. Don’t wait for it to become painful, and don’t wait until you’ve Googled yourself into believing you’ve got three weeks to live either. Save yourself the stress and get it checked out.
SO, HOW DO YOU CHECK?
You don’t need a medical degree, a special gadget or a complicated 17-step routine, just a few minutes once a month - less time than it takes to order a round, or load up that computer game you are always playing …
✅ Get familiar with how your chest normally looks and feels.
✅ Check around your ni**les, across your chest and up into your armpits.
✅ Look for anything new or different — lumps, thickening, swelling, skin changes or ni**le changes.
✅ If something doesn’t feel or look right, contact your GP.
There’s no need to panic over every little thing, but please don’t ignore changes either.
And ladies, if you’re reading this, give the men in your life a nudge. Share this post, have the conversation and remind them that looking after themselves isn’t weakness. It’s common sense.
AND HERE’S THE BIT I REALLY WANT YOU TO REMEMBER.
Breast cancer doesn’t care whether you’re male or female, whether you’re 25 or 75, or whether you think you’re too busy, too embarrassed or too tough to get checked.
I was diagnosed with breast cancer at just 34. I know first-hand how much a diagnosis can change your life, and how important it is to know your own body and speak up when something isn’t right.
Please don’t let embarrassment stop you from getting checked. Your GP has seen it all before, and I promise you, they’d much rather examine a perfectly innocent lump than have you ignore something serious.
You only get one body! . You can buy another set of tools, another football shirt or another fishing rod… but you can’t replace your health.
So, share this with the men you love. Have the slightly awkward conversation. Remind them to check their chests.
Because real men DO check. Real men DO speak up. And real men DO go to the doctor when something isn’t right.
TAG A MAN WHO NEEDS THIS REMINDER! And remember, no sulking because someone has told you to look after yourself. We love you, but sometimes you really do need telling!
Photos of Actors Richard Rowntree, Tyler Mane and York resident William all of whom have been diagnosed with breast cancer.

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