13/10/2026
For us disabled people, having a good carer or PA changes everything.
A good carer or PA makes the difference between existing and actually living.
They notice when youāre about to burn out before you do.
They know which doors youāll struggle with, which days your energy will crash, and when to step in without taking over.
They turn āI canāt manage that aloneā into āwe can do this.ā
The opposite, distracted, under-trained, or just not present carers can leave us isolated, exhausted, or in real danger.
So many disabled people have had to deal with a carer who shows up late or other issues that had to lead them to firing their carer or PA.
If you have any carer stories, feel free to share them with us.
š¼ļø Image description : A young brown woman with dark brown curly hair held back by a black fabric headband is looking up at the sun on the left. Her lips are parted and her eyes are closed
She is wearing a long sleeved cream T-shirt and light blue jeans. She is enjoying the sun in her wheelchair.
Beside her is her carer. A young man with dark hair and round golden glasses is slightly smiling. He is sat on the ground on the right of the woman and is also enjoying the sun. He has a short-sleeved khaki shirt that is open, revealing a white T-shirt.
Behind them, we can see leafy green potted plants as a modern white home.
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