19/07/2026
On Friday 17th July, we celebrated Tommy’s nursery graduation. It’s fair to say there wasn’t a dry eye in the room from either me or his dad. 🥹💙
Watching him stand amongst his peers, singing his heart out to a song he had been practising for months, really stopped me in my tracks.
It’s an emotional moment for any parent, but there was a time when this moment wasn’t promised for Tommy.
Thinking back to the teeny-tiny baby lying in that hospital bed, fighting for his life, it’s still hard to believe that was our reality. Yet somehow, we are nearly five years on. 🥹
When I look at Tommy now, the wires, the machines, the constant blood tests and the stomach-sickening fear can sometimes feel like a bad dream I once had.
But it wasn’t a dream. It was our reality.
And it always will be.
Without knowing his story, you would never know what he has been through. You would never know just how vulnerable he truly is. And that’s what makes his journey so difficult sometimes. People see a normal, healthy four-year-old boy — and, for the most part, he absolutely is.
I couldn’t be prouder of his resilience and strength.
But Tommy will always face challenges. He will always have a weaker immune system than his peers, and I will always be that little bit more cautious. Because I will never allow the fight he fought as a baby to be forgotten or wasted.
None of this hinders Tommy. If anything, I truly believe it has helped make him who he is today.
A very BIG character.
A character whose cheekiness can only be laughed at and appreciated. His nursery teacher said to me, “I don’t think we’ve ever had a character quite like Tommy,” while another said, “He just makes us laugh all day.” Both said with huge smiles on their faces.
He’s your typical boy — loud, boisterous, addicted to snacks, obsessed with superheroes and constantly wanting to fight someone. 😂
But he also has the biggest heart.
He will always ask me how my day at work was. He’s always there to give me a huge cuddle when it’s needed most. And he protects and loves his baby brother like it’s a full-time job… apart from when they’re scrapping, of course. 🥲😂
I honestly couldn’t be prouder of him.
He makes me burst with pride, and I am so excited to see where his journey takes him because, believe me, this boy is destined for big things. 💙
So, if this post can show you anything, please let it show you that there really is sunshine after darkness. ☀️
Every journey is different, and I know just how incredibly lucky we are with ours. But I have been in those dark places, and sometimes, they still exist for me today.
The difference is that I am now exactly where I need to be.
I am the luckiest Mummy in the world, and to me, that is all that matters. 💙
No matter what your story is, please reach out. I am always happy to talk to you and support you in any way that I can.
There is hope. There is life after the darkness.
And sometimes, the tiniest babies grow up to become the biggest characters. 🥹💙
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