02/06/2026
This is the most important box you'll ever have.
Cue our best Brad Pitt impression 'What's in the box?! WHAT'S IN THE BOX? What's in the effing box?'
(if you haven't seen Se7en, search 'Brad Pitt What's in the box' for a dramatic, shocking mysterious box scene. If nothing else, it makes a death box A LOT less scary by comparison)
What would be the first thing you put in or on your death box?
My (KV) first item to go in was a copy of my life insurance info. I then spent time choosing stickers to decorate the outside. Death boxes can be fun. When the time comes for my family to open the box (after my death), I want the box to be friendly and familiar. I want it to hold some surprises and treasures as well as important paperwork.
This month, I'll be adding my completed 'handle with care' zine, which contains my advance care wishes.
Then I'll add letters to my children. Weep.
Comment DEATH BOX if you'd like to know when we're running an online session to help you get your death box together.
Also, have you ordered a copy of GET AHEAD OF BEING DEAD by yet? It is published this month and is a practical guide to getting your affairs in order - infused with her trademark warmth and humour, obvs. And if anyone knows how to get ahead of being dead, it's Evie King! You've read Ashes to Admin, right?
And if you want a copy of our My Farewell funeral planning zine kit? Visit our webshop for hard copies & downloadables. Link in bio.
Now, MAKE YOUR DEATH BOX, pals. Create the outer shell, choose the container - then we can get started together.
Love you bye.
Photos by in the lodge at a breathtaking natural burial ground near Consett in NE England.