SEND Parent2Parent Consultancy C.I.C

07/08/2025

Before I Knew Who I Was, I Became Everyone Else

People talk about masking like we can just take it off, like it’s a choice… but for some of us, it was never that simple.

Because I didn’t mask — I moulded myself into what I thought would keep me loved, safe, accepted. I don’t even know who I really am under all that — but I’m finding her now.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost yourself just to be accepted — I see you. You’re not broken. You’re evolving.

My new podcast series ‘Unmasking the Chameleon’ goes live next week, I’ll talk about my story but also how we need to stop feeling ashamed for who we are and how we learn to use body language, including sexual persuasion to mould ourselves into what we genuinely think we need to be accepted, loved and safe.

It’s raw, it’s real and it’s revolutionary 🫶🏼

26/07/2025

“Did I Cause My Child’s ADHD?” – Let’s Clear This Up

You might have seen quotes from Dr. Gabor Maté saying ADHD isn’t inherited but is caused by family stress or society. It can feel like a gut punch to read that — like we’ve done something wrong as parents.

Here’s the truth:

ADHD is strongly genetic. Research shows it’s highly heritable (around 70–80%). If you or your child’s other parent have ADHD traits, it’s likely your child inherited them.

Stress doesn’t cause ADHD. But stress can make symptoms worse. Just like poor sleep makes ADHD harder to manage, living in a high‑stress environment can amplify challenges — but it doesn’t create them.

Your parenting didn’t cause this. ADHD brains are wired differently from birth. You didn’t “break” your child, and society didn’t either.

Support changes outcomes. While we can’t “reverse” ADHD, we can help kids thrive with the right strategies: therapy, structure, medication (if needed), and tons of understanding.
So, while Dr. Maté’s ideas spark interesting discussions about stress and society, they don’t replace what science tells us: ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition — not a parenting failure.

Bottom line: You didn’t cause your child’s ADHD. But you can be their biggest superpower in managing it.

Have you ever felt blamed for your child’s ADHD? Drop a ❤️ in the comments so you know you’re not alone — and share this with another parent who needs to hear it today.

25/07/2025

Ever felt like you’re barely holding it together as a SEND mum?

I get it.
For so long, I lived in a cycle of guilt, exhaustion, and wondering if I was doing enough.

That’s why I created The Balanced Mum: Strategies for SEND Families — a course that gives you the tools I wish I’d had when I was drowning.

In Module 1, you’ll:

Understand the emotional rollercoaster that comes with a SEND diagnosis.
Recognise and accept your feelings (even the ones you don’t like).
Learn the 5 stages of acceptance — and how to move through them with compassion.
This isn’t just slides and info. It’s healing. It’s hope. It’s a lifeline for mums like us who need balance, boundaries, and breathing space.

💻 The best bit? It’s just £19.99 on Udemy — and it’s yours forever.

👉 Drop “COURSE” below or grab it here: https://www.udemy.com/course/the-balanced-mums-strategies-for-send-families

You deserve this. Let’s do it together.”

17/07/2025

💥 BIG NEWS
We’ve just launched Neurodiversevolution – The Not Broken Club, a private WhatsApp circle for neurodivergent souls who are done being told they’re broken.

Each Monday we will send you:
💌 A pep talk
🧘‍♀️ A grounding message
🔗 A little something helpful
🎧 A voice note straight to your phone

That’s it. No spam. No noise. Just gentle reminders that your brain is brilliant even when it’s chaotic.

Want in?

Drop a ❤️ or DM us “I’m not broken” and we’ll add you.

Let’s unmask, unpack, and evolve — together.

17/07/2025

✨We are not broken.
We are not too much.
We are not mistakes in the system...
WE. ARE. THE. UPDATE.✨

This isn’t just awareness. It’s Neurodiversevolution — the rise of minds that see different, feel deeper, and break every rule the world made to keep us small.

They said we’re hard to manage.
Too emotional. Too distracted. Too intense.
We say we’re trailblazers, feelers, inventors, and warriors.

This is more than neurodiversity.
This is evolution in action — and we’re leading it.

🧠💥 If you’re neurodivergent — welcome home.
Let’s start the Neurodiversevolution together.

👊 Drop a 🧠 if you’re in.
Tag your wild-minded crew.

10/07/2025

Getting 40+ DMs overnight proves one thing: SEND parents are crying out for help.

Hi lovelies, it’s Allison here — and I’ve teamed up with the amazing Claire from .

My last video about winning Emma & Jess’s EHCP mediation reached over 16,000 of you — and so many sent messages needing support.

The truth is… we can’t answer every DM one-to-one. But we want to help as many of you as possible.

So we’re launching a series of Q&A sessions right here on TikTok [or Instagram]. We’ll be tackling your biggest SEND questions — EHCPs, appeals, tribunals, schools, mental health — whatever you’re struggling with.

Drop your questions below this video, or message us with ‘Q&A’ at the top so we can find them fast.

Follow us both so you don’t miss your question being answered — and remember, you’re never alone. You, Me And Neurodiversity with Claire Rocks - Autism & SEND Advocate

09/07/2025

A little donation means a lot to us as a CIC, helping support families like Emma, who needed help with getting a decision over turned for the LA refusal of an EHCP, and we won! But we can’t do it without your support too so please help by donating a coffee below 🫶🏼

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09/07/2025

A little donation means a lot to us as a CIC, helping support families like Emma, who needed help with getting a decision over turned for the LA refusal of an EHCP, and we won! But we can’t do it without your support too so please help by donating a coffee below 🫶🏼

coff.ee/sendparent2parentconsulta

08/07/2025

Today I witnessed pure relief and hope in a mum’s eyes as we WON an EHCP overturning after months of fighting.This is why SEND Parent2Parent Consultancy CIC exists — so no parent has to battle alone.💗 If you’re feeling lost in the system, reach out. We help navigate EHCPs, school issues, and SEND challenges with real-life experience and heart.👉 Follow us for support and visit sendparent2parentconsultancycic.co.uk Claire Rockss Kriston Fox

07/07/2025

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07/07/2025

07/07/2025

96% if complaints about SEND support and services are upheld, that’s nearly every case!

In England, complains about SEND services have exploded by 250% in recent years.

Have you made a complaint or are thinking about making one? Drop me a comment or follow and send me a message if you need help 🫶🏼