06/06/2026
I think a lot of people wish they could go back and warn their 22-year-old self about the stuff that only makes sense years later.
At 22, if you were still functioning, you assumed you were handling things fine. You donât really question it because everybody around you is operating the same way. Running on stress, poor sleep and pressure just becomes normal.
What nobody really tells you is that you can get very, VERY good at operating under pressure while simultaneously getting worse at recovering from it.
And because youâre still performing, nobody flags it. In fact, most of the time you get a pat on the back and a âgood effort, mateâ after doing another 14-hour day running on caffeine and fumes.
Then years later you realise half the stuff you thought made you *good at the job* was actually just your nervous system being permanently switched on.
Thatâs probably the conversation I wouldâve needed at 22!
So go on then, for my military and public service followers⌠Whatâs something you wish someone had sat you down and told you at 22 that only really made sense years later?