22/06/2026
Loving a drug addict or an alcoholic is the hardest thing you will ever do. Even though all you want is to help them get back to a clean, healthy, and sober life, at some point, you realize you are enabling the addiction, as you have so many times before. You continue enabling them by always listening to the excuses, blaming yourself, and being there to bail them out. You want to grab and shake them and say "You have so much to live for and so many that love you, why do you continue doing this with your life?" But, at some point you realize that wouldn't make a difference no matter how much you love them or how hard you try to help them. So you sit on the sidelines and watch the tragedy unfold, feeling helpless to stop it, feeling like you haven't done enough to help, when in the end, the only truth to it all is, you can only begin to help the addict when the addict decides to help themselves.
Battling a drug addiction is a beast for the person addicted and the ones who love them. It's heartbreaking and earth shattering. Especially when you can no longer have a relationship with even your own sibling or friend And they cannot come to a place of respecting boundaries.
So l am asking you to stand with me for every family member and friend who has lost or is losing their battle with drugs and alcohol and those who continue to conquer it! Put this on your page for one hour if you know someone who has or had an addiction. Many will be hesitant to copy and paste this but for those of you who pause and do, thanks in advance.💜
And never say it won’t happen to your family or friends!!
